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I’m Harrison Orr — husband, father, men's coach and creator of The Grounded Man Method — and I share the tools that helped me break Nice Guy patterns, regulate my nervous system, and rebuild connection in my marriage.
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How to Stop Being Triggered & Reactive All the Time (Without Becoming a Doormat) l EP. 47 l
If you feel like you’re constantly snapping at your kids, shutting down around your wife, or just one comment away from losing it — this episode is for you.
Harrison Orr breaks down exactly why high-performing Nice Guys stay reactive, defensive, and emotionally volatile… and how to finally shift into calm, grounded masculine presence without becoming a pushover.
Inside this episode:
- Why reactivity is a symptom of unowned truth
- How “being triggered” is actually a reflection of your shadow
- The nervous system link between overthinking, caffeine, poor sleep and emotional blowups
- How anger masks powerlessness (and why that’s dangerous to your relationships)
- A reframe that turns every trigger into a training ground for maturity
- How to respond to your partner or child from presence — not pressure
- Harrison’s personal story of becoming the dad and man who no longer explodes at 2am cries
Plus: A simple, actionable nervous system tool you can use before the moment you typically lose it.
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It’s free, takes less than 5 minutes, and will expose the gap between the man you are now and the leader your family actually needs.
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