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Be Better.
This podcast is for successful men who feel reactive or disconnected at home and want to become calm, confident, grounded leaders.
I’m Harrison Orr — husband, father, men's coach and creator of The Grounded Man Method — and I share the tools that helped me break Nice Guy patterns, regulate my nervous system, and rebuild connection in my marriage.
Each episode gives you practical wisdom, deep conversations, and proven frameworks to help you show up stronger for yourself, your wife, and your kids.
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Be Better.
Make radical change FAST by learning this one skill. If all your self‑improvement still isn’t working, you’re fixing the wrong thing. l EP. 48 l
You’ve read the books. You’ve listened to the podcasts. You’ve tried the date nights, the breathwork, the routines…
So why are you still stuck?
You haven't mastered this one, high level skill.
In this episode, I break down the brutal truth every high-performing “Nice Guy” needs to hear:
You’re solving the wrong problem.
This episode unpacks:
- Why doing more doesn’t equal progress (and what to do instead)
- The dangerous lie of productivity and dopamine-chasing self-help hacks
- How “not enough sex” and “poor communication” are not the root problem in your marriage
- The real reason you're reactive, disconnected, or lacking confidence
- What happens when you keep slapping Band-Aids on instead of facing the identity-level truth
- The ONE mindset shift that turns your chaos into clarity
Harrison also shares his personal process for identifying the highest-leverage opportunity in each area of your life — the one move that makes everything else easier or unnecessary.
Stop doing more. Start doing what actually matters.
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