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I’m Harrison Orr — husband, father, men's coach and creator of The Grounded Man Method — and I share the tools that helped me break Nice Guy patterns, regulate my nervous system, and rebuild connection in my marriage.
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The Hidden Reason Your Wife Doesn’t Trust You Anymore (Hint; She's Sees Right Through You) l EP. 50 l
Most men think they’re being loving partners.
They help more around the house. They plan date nights. They buy flowers.
But deep down, there’s an agenda — “If I do this, maybe she’ll finally…”
This is the hidden Nice Guy contract that destroys trust, attraction, and intimacy.
In this episode, Harrison exposes the real reason your wife feels closed off, even when you’re “doing all the right things.”
He breaks down why your good intentions are actually a form of manipulation, and what to do instead if you want to rebuild genuine connection.
You’ll learn:
- The difference between love and covert contracts — and how she feels the difference instantly
- Why “helping more” won’t make her desire you again
- How to let go of hidden expectations that breed resentment
- The right way to express desire without pressure or manipulation
- A powerful conversation script that rebuilds safety and polarity overnight
If you’ve been doing everything right but still feel unseen, unloved, or rejected — this episode will hit home hard.
Learn how to give without agenda.
Lead with integrity.
And finally rebuild the trust your marriage needs to thrive.
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