Stethoscopes and Strollers
Welcome to Stethoscopes & Strollers! I'm Dr. Toya, mom of two, OBGYN, and coach for physician moms. Here, we go beyond the hospital halls, into the messy, magical early years of parenting—think diapers, sleepless nights, and figuring out how to deal with all those unexpected twists and turns.
Every episode, I dive into topics like mental health, the ins and outs of postpartum sex, sorting out childcare, and how having little ones changes your marriage. We’ll talk about getting back to work after baby, the real deal with mom guilt thanks to those tough doctor schedules, what pumping at work is really like, and how to keep all the balls in the air without dropping any. We’re here to get real about the hard choices, like deciding to stop breastfeeding, and so much more. This is a space for focusing on taking care of you, because managing scrubs and swaddles takes a village.
You'll figure out how to ask for and actually accept help, because let’s be honest, getting support is crucial for thriving as both a mom and a doctor.
Just a quick heads-up: while we're all about sharing and supporting, remember this isn’t medical advice. We’re here to connect, share experiences, and grow—together, without the medical jargon.
So, grab your coffee or tea, and get ready to dive into those parts of being a physician mom that don't get talked about enough. You're not riding this roller coaster alone, and you definitely deserve all the support you can get.
Tune in to Stethoscopes & Strollers for some real, honest insights and practical tips to make momming a bit easier. It’s time to get the conversation started!
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Stethoscopes and Strollers
Latest Episodes
117. Michelle Obama Said the Same Thing I’ve Been Telling Y’all
Hey Doc,I just got back from ACOG and I’m still on a high!I went mainly to hear Michelle Obama speak and she did not disappoint. But what surprised me most was how deeply aligned her message was with everything I talk about here o...
116. Full Circle in DC: Medicine, Motherhood, and Michelle Obama
Hey Doc,I’m on my way to DC!My first home in this country. Howard. All of it.I’m going to ACOG’s ACSM, our national meeting, which is funny, because I don’t practice anymore.But this work I do with physician moms is ...
115. How to Delegate Your Life as a Woman Physician (Without Paying for Busywork)
Hey Doc,If you’ve ever said, “I just need more help,” and then somehow ended up more overwhelmed… this episode is for you.Because the problem usually isn’t that you don’t have help.It’s that you’re delegating the w...
114. When the Life You Wanted Doesn’t Fit Anymore
Hey Doc,Let’s talk about something that sounds simple… but clearly is not.You are allowed to change your mind.I say that, and I already know some of you are side-eyeing me like, “Okay… but it’s not that easy.”<...
113. If You’re Hesitating About Childcare, Listen to This
Hey DocI had a moment recently that stopped me in my tracks.My kids were heading out for a full day—something fun, something special—and I wasn’t there. And instead of guilt?I felt peace. Gratitude. Relief.Not...
