Stethoscopes and Strollers
Welcome to Stethoscopes & Strollers! I'm Dr. Toya, mom of two, OBGYN, and coach for physician moms. Here, we go beyond the hospital halls, into the messy, magical early years of parenting—think diapers, sleepless nights, and figuring out how to deal with all those unexpected twists and turns.
Every episode, I dive into topics like mental health, the ins and outs of postpartum sex, sorting out childcare, and how having little ones changes your marriage. We’ll talk about getting back to work after baby, the real deal with mom guilt thanks to those tough doctor schedules, what pumping at work is really like, and how to keep all the balls in the air without dropping any. We’re here to get real about the hard choices, like deciding to stop breastfeeding, and so much more. This is a space for focusing on taking care of you, because managing scrubs and swaddles takes a village.
You'll figure out how to ask for and actually accept help, because let’s be honest, getting support is crucial for thriving as both a mom and a doctor.
Just a quick heads-up: while we're all about sharing and supporting, remember this isn’t medical advice. We’re here to connect, share experiences, and grow—together, without the medical jargon.
So, grab your coffee or tea, and get ready to dive into those parts of being a physician mom that don't get talked about enough. You're not riding this roller coaster alone, and you definitely deserve all the support you can get.
Tune in to Stethoscopes & Strollers for some real, honest insights and practical tips to make momming a bit easier. It’s time to get the conversation started!
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Stethoscopes and Strollers
88. Guilt Pills & Rigid Roles: Dr. Saumya Dave Gets Real
Hey Doc,
What happens when you stop following the script and start building a life that actually fits you?
This week on Stethoscopes and Strollers, I’m joined by Dr. Saumya Dave — psychiatrist, author, private practice owner, and mom of two — for a conversation that’s equal parts real, reflective, and full of permission.
We talk about the seasons of life and how every one of them demands something different from us. From navigating 200+ rejections on her path to becoming a published author, to choosing private practice straight out of residency, to redefining success and motherhood on her own terms, Dr. Saumya reminds us that there’s no single path to fulfillment.
This episode isn’t about “balance.”
It’s about alignment — and the courage to keep reshaping your life, even when people don’t understand it.
You’ll hear:
- How Dr. Saumya turned 200 rejections into a bestselling book deal
- What it looks like to build a creative life alongside medicine and motherhood
- Why listening to your body is a skill physicians often have to relearn
- The power of grace and empathy in healing relationships with parents
- How giving yourself permission to change your mind can change everything
If you’ve ever wondered how to honor all the parts of yourself — the doctor, the creative, the mom, the partner, the you, this conversation will remind you that you’re allowed to be all of it without apology and without limits.
🎧 Tune in and hear how Dr. Saumya’s story invites us all to live expansively, define success on our own terms, and embrace the seasons we’re in.
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