Wellness for Real Life Podcast

Shifting from Either-Or to Both-And

Lauren & Marci Season 1 Episode 52

Live from Cooperstown, NY, Lauren kicks off this week’s episode with a behind-the-scenes peek at her son’s Little League tournament, complete with Airbnb charm, chaotic opening ceremonies, and the rare joy of letting other parents lend a hand. Joined by Marci, the two dive into one of their favorite mindset tools: duality or as they call it, the “Both-And.” They unpack what it means to hold two truths at once—joy and grief, structure and flexibility, discipline and self-compassion—and how this approach transforms both fitness and life. From navigating family health scares to keeping workouts and nutrition sustainable while traveling, they show you how to create a lifestyle that’s strong, adaptable, and free from all-or-nothing thinking.

0:00 — Lauren checks in from Cooperstown, NY + Airbnb vibes

03:49 — Lauren's Little League chaos: ceremonies, heat, and late starts

05:58 — Letting other parents help: shedding the guilt

11:32 — Marci's life updates

14:25 — Introducing today’s topic: The Both-And/Duality

18:05 — Using movement as medicine during grief

20:34 — Hybrid fitness: strength + cardio + steps

31:02 — Busy women programming: 3 lifts/week, room for cardio

32:00 — Recovery and “less but better” training

37:07 — Nutrition Both-And: nourish your body and soul

46:53 — Flexibility with food while traveling

48:05 — Standards and grace: dropping shame when life happens

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