The Sex After Kids Podcast
Add more play to your couple connection and get back into the bedroom for more frequent and more satisfying naked sexy fun time after kids.
The Sex After Kids Podcast
Foreplay Games for Couples: Playful Ways to Get Out of the Roommate Rut After Kids - Especially when it’s been a while
Feeling awkward about intimacy after kids, or stuck in the “roommate rut?” You’re not alone. In this episode, I share why foreplay (and the “pre-game” before it) is the real secret to rekindling connection—and how to make it feel safe, pressure-free, and fun (especially for the lower libido partner).
What we cover:
01:06 — Rethinking Foreplay & Getting Started Again
02:11 — Zero Pressure: The Key to Connection
02:36 — Pre-Foreplay: Building Safety & Trust
03:25 — The Pre-Game: Flirty Connection & Melting Defenses
03:57 — Pressure-Free Scenarios: Massage Examples
06:30 — The Impact of No Pressure & Openness
07:27 — Playful Possibility: Fun Ways to Bring Back Foreplay
08:49 — Anticipation & Pre-Game for Scheduled Sex
09:42 — Building Up to No Pressure Sexy Connection
10:15 — Opening the Door to Libido & Support Offers
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