Becoming Secure
You're a successful woman who's got a lot of things going right in your life (dream job, cozy home, amazing friends)...but relationships are a different story. On Becoming Secure, we talk all things dating, healing anxious, avoidant, & disorganized attachment styles, and healthy relationships - so you can feel as amazing in relationships as you do in every other area of your life 💕
Becoming Secure
Latest Episodes
8 Things I’d do if I wanted to find a healthy relationship in 2026
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Life update, the loss of my cat, and building your own "village"
In this episode of Becoming Secure, Emily talks about the loss of her cat, the importance of having a village, and how to create one if you don't have that yet.More info on the Women's Circle starting in July:
Are you actually a fearful avoidant and not anxiously attached?
The guys I'm into aren't into me, and I'm not attracted to the guys who ARE into me
Does it take a long time to find guys you're attracted to? Does it feel like all the guys you're into aren't into you? And that guys who are into you - are definitely not the type you'd go for? Emily unpacks why this happens through an attachme...