
The Secure Love Club Podcast
Your go-to space to break free from anxious dating patterns, find your confidence, and feel secure in love, with dating & relationship expert, Mimi Watt.
The Secure Love Club Podcast
Ep #30: I'm Done Pretending to Be the Perfect Straight White Girl With a Tan. Questioning My Sexuality, The Truth I’ve Been Hiding for 12 Months
This episode is one of the most vulnerable and raw I’ve ever shared. For the last 12 months, I’ve been quietly navigating something that has shaken me to my core and challenged my identity in ways I never expected… and today, I’m bringing you behind the curtain.
In this ep, I open up about:
- The journey of questioning my sexuality and why it’s felt terrifying and liberating all at once.
- How I’ve hidden behind fake tan and perfectionism for years, and what I’m learning about beauty, self-worth, and authenticity.
- The shame that comes with holding secrets and how telling the truth (first to myself, then to others) has lifted a massive weight off my shoulders.
- The moment I finally told my parents I might be queer — and their beautiful reactions that changed everything.
- Why stepping into who you really are is the most magnetic, freeing thing you can ever do.
If you’ve ever felt like you had to hide parts of yourself to be accepted, if you’ve wrestled with shame around your identity, or if you’re craving the permission slip to just. be. YOU… this conversation will hit you right in the heart.
This isn’t about labels or boxes. It’s about authenticity, self-trust, and remembering that you are worthy exactly as you are.
I hope this episode gives you the courage to peel back the layers, ditch the shame, and step into the fullest expression of yourself, whatever that looks like.
As always, my DMs are open. If this resonated with you, I’d love to hear from you and hold space for your story. ❤️
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