
The Secure Love Club Podcast
Your go-to space to break free from anxious dating patterns, find your confidence, and feel secure in love, with dating & relationship expert, Mimi Watt.
Episodes
24 episodes
Ep #24: The Self-Sabotage That Shows Up Right Before You Up-level & How To Overcome It
If you’ve ever hit a point in your healing where you thought, “Why is this happening again?” or “I thought I already worked through this!” this episode is your reminder that healing isn’t a straight line… but every challenge i...
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30:19

Ep #23: Coming Out Later in Life, Queer Dating & Anxious Attachment with Inez Bye
This episode is for every human who’s ever thought: “Am I actually into men… or am I just addicted to their validation?” 😳 …or “I think I might be queer, but I’m terrified of what that means.” Today I’m joined by the brilliant Inez Bye - q...
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Ep #22: Online Dating, First Dates & Ghosting: Let’s Talk About It All
Today’s episode is a full-on DATING DEBRIEF. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in dating burnout 🙃, ghosted someone because you weren’t sure how to say “I’m not feeling it,” got ghosted and spiraled hard, or stared at your phone thinking “Do ...
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40:10

Ep #21: Are Your Dating Decisions Rooted in Scarcity or Abundance?
If your dating life feels like a never-ending loop of ghosting, confusion, and anxiety… you need this episode. In this episode of The Secure Love Club Podcast, I’m breaking down the subtle, yet game-changing, difference between dating from scar...
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Ep #20: How to Stop Spiraling After One Date: The Anti-Obsession Method
Ever caught yourself planning your wedding playlist after one flirty date? 👀 Already imagining what your couple selfies will look like before you even know their last name? You’re not alone, my love—and you’re not crazy. In today’s juicy e...
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24:02

Ep #19: Europe Catch-Up + Stop Putting Your Life on Hold for a Relationship!!!
If you’ve ever caught yourself saying “I’ll be happy when…” — when I find my person, when I make more money, when I finally feel chosen — this episode is your wake-up call. Fresh from my Europe trip, I’m sharing the biggest shift I had...
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35:57

Ep #18: You Don’t Want a Relationship… You Want Peace
You think you’re searching for a relationship, but what you’re really craving is relief. A break from the spiral of overthinking and the constant need to feel “enough.” In this episode, I’m sharing a truth I learned the hard way: When ...
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31:30

Ep #17: Get Unstuck & Into Alignment Using Human Design With Hillary McVeigh
In this episode of the Secure Love Club podcast, I welcome special guest and Human Design expert, Hilary McVeigh. Hilary shares her journey from being a burnt-out lawyer to a guide helping people reconnect with their authentic selves through hu...
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Ep #16: How Your Childhood Shaped Your Dating Patterns (Without You Realizing)
Ever wonder why you keep repeating the same patterns in dating — like chasing emotionally unavailable people, feeling like you’re “too much,” or constantly questioning your worth? In this episode of the Secure Love Club podcast, we’re ...
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27:18

Ep #15: Am I Anxiously Attached... or Just Really Into Them?
Have you ever met someone new and immediately felt hooked? Like one great date has your brain spiraling with “What if they’re the one?!” and then panicking when they take hours to reply? In this episode of the Secure Love Club...
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35:52

Ep #14: Hot, Healed & High-Performing: The Power of Discipline, Devotion & Self-Leadership With Dijana Djukicc
My friends… this one is a soul shaker. If you’ve been waiting for a sign to stop tolerating the bare minimum — from yourself, your life, your relationships — and finally take radical ownership, this is it. Today I sat down with the powerhouse t...
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Ep #13: Why You Keep Falling for Emotionally Unavailable People (And How to Break the Cycle)
Ever feel like you always fall for the person who sends mixed signals, keeps you guessing, and never fully commits? You’re not alone. In this episode of The Secure Love Club Podcast, we’re diving deep into why emotionally unav...
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28:08

Ep #12: Friendship - A Personal Story About Losing Myself, Finding Myself & The Power of Real Connection
In this episode of The Secure Love Club Podcast, I’m sharing something really close to my heart—a live talk I gave recently at the On Purpose event in Melbourne. This one’s personal. I open up about parts of my journey I’ve never
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Ep #11: Flirting 101: Micro Flirts, Rejection-Proof Confidence & Building Genuine Connection with The Flirt Coach, Benjamin Camras
Flirting isn’t just about romance—it’s about confidence, connection, and having fun in your own skin. In this episode of The Secure Love Club podcast, I sit down with Benjamin Camras, aka The Flirt Coach<...
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59:25

Ep #10: The Tug-of-War Between Desire & Discipline in Dating & How To Expand Your Capacity For Discomfort
If you’ve ever felt like your heart and your head are at war when it comes to dating - this episode is for you. In this juicy deep dive, I’m breaking down the tension between desire and discipline, especially for those of us with anxious attach...
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30:50

Ep #9: What To Do When Your Partner Finds Other People Attractive!!!
In episode nine of the Secure Love Club podcast, we’re discussing the sensitive topic of jealousy in relationships and the anxiety and insecurity stirred up when your partner finds other people attractive. I cover why attraction outside of your...
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Ep #8: Navigating Breakups and Embracing Transformation
In episode eight of the Secure Love Club podcast, I address the painful and often isolating experience of going through a breakup and offer a compassionate space for discussing heartbreak. I acknowledge the pain you're going through, share how ...
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39:52

Ep #7: Sex, Attachment & Self-Worth: Breaking Free from Anxious Patterns with Clinical Sexologist & Relationship Specialist, Eliza Wilson
Get ready for a deep dive into the juiciest episode of the Secure Love Club podcast yet! Join me as I chat with the incredible Eliza Wilson, a therapeutic coach & clinical sexologist with over a decade of experience in helping individuals m...
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1:12:15

Ep #6: Life Update: Independence, Dating, and Embracing Change In My 30s
In episode six of the Secure Love Club podcast, I share a personal BTS life update on the challenges I’m facing right now as a single woman in my 30s and how I feel about dating. I discuss missing my community in Sydney, craving independence wh...
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34:28

Ep #5: Crazy Ways Listening To My Intuition Changed My Life!
In episode five of the Secure Love Club podcast, I share personal stories where trusting my intuition led to life-changing outcomes, such as changing career paths, ending a significant relationship, and even moving to Bali. By reflecting on the...
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1:02:20

Ep #4: How My Client Maria Went From Toxic Relationships To Secure Love
In today's episode, I sit down for an inspiring conversation with my client Maria, who shares her transformative journey from being in a toxic relationship to finding a secure and loving partnership. Maria opens up about her struggles with anxi...
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1:00:56

Ep #3: How To Identify Avoidant Behaviour Early On And What Secure Signs To Look For In Dating
In episode three of the Secure Love Club podcast, we dive into how to identify avoidant behaviour early on and what secure signs to look for in dating. I break down the top five OBVIOUS and SUBTLE red flags you need to know. We also discuss the...
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Episode 3
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43:49

Ep #2: How To Navigate Dating Multiple People In The Early Stages Of Dating
In episode two of the Secure Love Club podcast, I discuss the benefits of dating multiple people in the early stages to manage anxious attachment tendencies, protect emotional well-being, and ultimately gain clarity on what you're looking for i...
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Episode 2
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31:13

Ep #1: From Anxious To Secure: My Story And Path To Coaching
Welcome to the debut episode of the Secure Love Club podcast! In this first episode, I share my personal journey from dealing with anxious attachment to becoming a confident and secure woman and dating and relationship coach. Drawing from real-...
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Episode 1
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