The Secure Love Club Podcast
Your go-to space to break free from anxious dating patterns, find your confidence, and feel secure in love, with dating & relationship expert, Mimi Watt.
Episodes
53 episodes
Ep #53: Decisive Action - How Making a Decision Directs Your Energy & Changes Everything
In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most underrated reasons you feel stuck, drained, and unable to move forward in dating, life, or your personal growth: indecision.I’m breaking down why “I just need to think about it more” is...
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Ep #52: From Anxious To Secure: My Story And Path To Coaching
In this special replay episode, I’m taking you right back to the beginning — sharing my full journey from growing up anxiously attached, through years of emotionally draining relationships, to becoming secure within myself and building a life a...
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Ep #51: Inside the Avoidant Mind: What They’re Really Thinking When They Pull Away (My Sister’s Avoidant Perspective!)
In this episode, I sit down with my sister, Hannah, to have an honest, nuanced conversation about what it’s actually like to experience relationships from an avoidantly attached perspective.So many anxiously attached people are left fee...
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Ep #50: Living a Life You’re Proud Of (Not One That Just Looks Pretty)
In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between building a life that looks good on the outside and one that actually feels right on the inside. This conversation was sparked by a powerful moment with a woman joining Peacefully Attac...
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Ep #49: Things I DIDN’T DO to Attract Secure Love
In this episode, I’m flipping the usual conversation around healing anxious attachment and attracting healthy love. Instead of focusing on what you should do, I’m walking you through the key things I stopped doing — the behaviours, patterns, an...
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Ep #48: Doing Things Differently (When the Old Way Doesn’t Feel Good Anymore)
In this episode, I’m inviting you into a powerful reflection on what happens when the way you’ve been living, working, dating, or showing up no longer feels good — even if it once did.Fresh from a deeply activating session with one of m...
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Ep #47: How She Remembered Who She Was, Broke Toxic Cycles, And Reclaimed Her Power! Emma’s Journey Inside Peacefully Attached
In this episode, I’m joined by the incredible Emma — a former Peacefully Attached client — for one of the most honest and expansive conversations we’ve had on the Secure Love Club podcast.Emma shares what life looked like before we work...
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Ep #46: Your Hard Seasons Are Preparing You for Your Biggest Expansion
In this episode, I’m taking you into a conversation that poured through me fresh from my morning trot. You know those moments where life suddenly clicks, and you see your challenges through an entirely different lens? That’s what today is about...
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Ep #45: How to Believe Your Dream Relationship Is Actually Possible For You
In this episode, we’re diving into a question almost every woman on the anxious-to-secure path quietly struggles with: “How do I believe the partner I truly want actually exists… and that I’m not delusional for wanting it?” This conver...
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Ep #44: Why Low Self-Worth Makes You Chase High-Intensity Relationships
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on one of the most addictive and confusing patterns for anxiously attached women; the chase for high-intensity relationships. You know the ones: the mixed signals, the emotional rollercoasters, the ...
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Ep #43: Life Update - Therapy, Business Growth, Moving?!
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain and giving you a real, unfiltered life update - the stuff I usually only share with my closest friends. No lessons, no frameworks today… just truth. I’m talking about the unexpected year I’ve spent ...
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Ep #42: The Real Secret To Becoming Secure (that no one talks about)
In this episode, I’m talking about something that almost nobody in the anxious attachment / healing space is talking about enough… and yet it’s one of THE most important pieces of what actually gets you secure results.Consistency. Not perfe...
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Ep #41: Slow Down To Speed Up!
In this episode, I’m diving into why constantly dating, matching, texting, and seeking the next “spark” is actually delaying your love life — not accelerating it. We’ve been sold this idea that the woman who hustles hardest in dating wins. But ...
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Ep #40: Navigating Loneliness While Single
In this episode, I’m opening up about something that’s been sitting heavy on my heart lately - loneliness. Not the kind that comes from not having plans on a Saturday night, but the deeper kind that sneaks in when you’ve done the healing, raise...
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Ep #39: Dating Dry Spells, Sexuality & Feeling ‘Irrelevant’ — The Truth I Haven’t Been Saying
In this unfiltered solo episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes of what’s really been going on in my world — and my heart — lately. This isn’t your typical “dating advice” chat. It’s about the seasons of life where you aren’t dating, where yo...
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Ep #38: Are You Using Your Situationship to Avoid Your Life?
In this solo episode, I’m diving deep into the truth about situationships - not just what they are, but why we find ourselves in them. This conversation was inspired by a listener who shared how much she loved my previous episode on secure situ...
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Ep #37: Healing Retroactive Jealousy & Building Self-Trust That Transforms Your Relationships With Emma Elmoza (Part 2)
We’re back for part two of my conversation with embodiment coach Emma Elmoza — and if you haven’t listened to part one yet, go back and tune in first so you’ve got the full context.In this second half of our chat, we move from naming re...
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Ep #36: Retroactive Jealousy: The Secret Shame Women Carry in Relationships With Emma Elmoza (Part 1)
So many women secretly struggle with this, but almost no one is talking about it… retroactive jealousy.In today’s episode, I’m joined by embodiment coach Emma Elmoza, who opens up about her own journey from insecurity and self-...
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Ep #35: The Ripple Effect of Becoming Securely Attached (It’s Bigger Than You Think)
Today, I’m pulling back the curtain on something I’ve seen time and time again in my own journey and in my clients’ lives: when you commit to healing your anxious attachment and developing secure attachment, the ripple effect is massive.
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Ep #34: The Hidden Grief No One Talks About: Missing the Person You Were in a Past Relationship
In today’s episode, I’m sharing a personal story about grief, nostalgia, and the versions of ourselves that relationships leave behind. Sometimes we think we’re yearning for an ex, when really we’re grieving the version of ourselves who existed...
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Ep #33: Expanding Your Capacity For The Relationship & Life of Your Dreams
You don’t get the relationship or life of your dreams just by wanting it harder. You get it by expanding your capacity to hold it.In this episode, I’m breaking down why desire doesn’t equal readiness, the mistakes that keep you stuck ev...
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Ep #32: From Domestic Violence Survivor to Global Coach: Teagan Woodgate’s Story of Strength & Self-Belief
This episode is one of the most powerful conversations I’ve had on the podcast. I’m joined by Teagan Woodgate, founder of Reform Body Coaching, whose journey from surviving domestic violence to creating a thriving global coaching business will ...
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Ep #31: Connecting vs. Attaching: The Shift That Will Change Your Love Life
In this episode, I’m sharing an interview I did with my beautiful friend Hillary McVeigh — Human Design teacher, Retreat Facilitator, Certified Coach, intuitive, and the kind of woman who will lovingly see straight into your soul.Before...
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Ep #30: I'm Done Pretending to Be the Perfect Straight White Girl With a Tan. Questioning My Sexuality, The Truth I’ve Been Hiding for 12 Months
This episode is one of the most vulnerable and raw I’ve ever shared. For the last 12 months, I’ve been quietly navigating something that has shaken me to my core and challenged my identity in ways I never expected… and today, I’m bringing you b...
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Ep #29: The Secret to Not Losing Yourself in Dating or Giving Up the Woman You Fought to Become
If you’ve ever felt afraid that once you really like someone, you’ll slip back into old habits… abandon yourself… and forget everything you worked so hard to heal—this episode is for you.After a long pattern of anxious dating, emotional...
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