The Secure Love Club Podcast
Your go-to space to break free from anxious dating patterns, find your confidence, and feel secure in love, with dating & relationship expert, Mimi Watt.
Episodes
68 episodes
Ep #68: From Fake Tan Addiction And Insecurity to Radical Self-Acceptance With Belle Christina
In this episode, I’m joined by the incredible Belle Christina — a beauty content creator who is leading powerful conversations around confidence, self-acceptance, and embracing your natural skin.This is a deeply personal one for me, bec...
Ep #67: Intensity Isn’t Intimacy & Are YOU The Love Bomber?!
In this episode, I’m sharing a conversation where I was interviewed by the amazing Drea Renee on her podcast ‘Hey Babe, Can We Talk?’This is such a fun, value-packed conversation where we’re not just talking about what’s been happening ...
Ep #66: When You're Not Who You Used To Be... But Not Quite Who You're Becoming. Navigating 'The River of Misery'
In this episode, I’m taking you into one of the most important (and honestly, confronting) truths when it comes to love, dating, and relationships: the love you want is real… but there are parts of you that simply cannot come with you into it.<...
Ep #65: From Heartbreak to Getting Her Spark Back - Client Story with Zala!
In this episode, I’m sitting down with one of my Peacefully Attached clients, Zala, who shares her journey from feeling heartbroken and stuck after a breakup… to getting her spark back and dating with confidence and self-trust.When she ...
Ep #64: I Got GHOSTED & My Anxious Attachment Gremlin Popped Up - Here's What Happened.
In this episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes of a very real, very recent dating experience… where I got ghosted. And not just ignored… fully unmatched. 😅What made this moment so powerful wasn’t the ghosting itself… it was what happ...
Ep #63: From Situationship Loops to Secure Dating - Client Story with Liv!
In this episode, I’m sitting down with one of my past Peacefully Attached clients, Liv, who shares her journey from feeling stuck in repetitive, anxiety-driven dating patterns… to finally experiencing calm, grounded, and secure connection.<...
Ep #62: You’re Not Lazy Or Incapable - You’re Dysregulated
In this episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes of one of the most challenging and transformative seasons I’ve experienced in a long time… and the truth is, it caught me completely off guard. Because from the outside, everything looked like i...
Ep #61: How to Say What You Want Without Pushing Them Away
In this episode, we’re getting into one of the biggest patterns I see holding women back in dating and relationships: struggling to communicate what you actually want and need. And not because you don’t know how… but because your body doesn’t f...
Ep #60: Stop Following Your Feelings in Dating (Here’s Why)
In this episode, we’re unpacking something that might sound a little controversial at first: the moments in dating when not listening to your feelings is actually the most secure thing you can do. We’re often told to follow our heart, but if yo...
Ep #59: Addicted To The Struggle
In this episode, we’re unpacking a sneaky pattern that quietly runs so many people’s lives without them even realizing it: being addicted to the struggle. The belief that things have to be hard, that success must come through suffering, or that...
Ep #58: Feeling Confident in Every Area… Except Relationships
This episode is for the high-achieving, self-aware woman who feels grounded and powerful in every part of her life, except when it comes to dating. You’re decisive in your career, clear in your friendships, aligned in your lifestyle… but the mo...
Ep #57: The Hard Truth About Closure After Emotionally Unavailable Relationships
This episode is for you if you’re stuck in that painful in-between place — wanting to move on with your life, heal, and become more secure… but still feeling the overwhelming urge to reach out to your ex for “closure.” Especially if that ex was...
Ep #56: Dating Without Pressure: How I Stopped Making Every Date Mean Something
In this episode, I’m sharing a perspective shift on dating that honestly changed everything for me, and it came from a place I didn’t expect. After taking a break from dating, doing some deep nervous system regulation, and going on a recent dat...
Ep #55: How to Date Like a Secure Woman (Even If You’re Anxious)
In this episode, we’re calling out one of the most frustrating patterns anxious daters get stuck in: dating the same person with a different face. You know the one… the chemistry is insane, it’s hot and heavy at the start, you’re on cloud nine ...
Ep #54: Stop Trying to Avoid Problems (It’s Keeping You Stuck)
In this episode, we’re talking about something we all claim we want… but secretly spend half our lives trying to avoid: problems. I’m breaking down why so many of us have developed this unconscious belief that we shouldn’t have challenges, and ...
Ep #53: Decisive Action - How Making a Decision Directs Your Energy & Changes Everything
In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most underrated reasons you feel stuck, drained, and unable to move forward in dating, life, or your personal growth: indecision.I’m breaking down why “I just need to think about it more” is...
Ep #52: From Anxious To Secure: My Story And Path To Coaching
In this special replay episode, I’m taking you right back to the beginning — sharing my full journey from growing up anxiously attached, through years of emotionally draining relationships, to becoming secure within myself and building a life a...
Ep #51: Inside the Avoidant Mind: What They’re Really Thinking When They Pull Away (My Sister’s Avoidant Perspective!)
In this episode, I sit down with my sister, Hannah, to have an honest, nuanced conversation about what it’s actually like to experience relationships from an avoidantly attached perspective.So many anxiously attached people are left fee...
Ep #50: Living a Life You’re Proud Of (Not One That Just Looks Pretty)
In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between building a life that looks good on the outside and one that actually feels right on the inside. This conversation was sparked by a powerful moment with a woman joining Peacefully Attac...
Ep #49: Things I DIDN’T DO to Attract Secure Love
In this episode, I’m flipping the usual conversation around healing anxious attachment and attracting healthy love. Instead of focusing on what you should do, I’m walking you through the key things I stopped doing — the behaviours, patterns, an...
Ep #48: Doing Things Differently (When the Old Way Doesn’t Feel Good Anymore)
In this episode, I’m inviting you into a powerful reflection on what happens when the way you’ve been living, working, dating, or showing up no longer feels good — even if it once did.Fresh from a deeply activating session with one of m...
Ep #47: How She Remembered Who She Was, Broke Toxic Cycles, And Reclaimed Her Power! Emma’s Journey Inside Peacefully Attached
In this episode, I’m joined by the incredible Emma — a former Peacefully Attached client — for one of the most honest and expansive conversations we’ve had on the Secure Love Club podcast.Emma shares what life looked like before we work...
Ep #46: Your Hard Seasons Are Preparing You for Your Biggest Expansion
In this episode, I’m taking you into a conversation that poured through me fresh from my morning trot. You know those moments where life suddenly clicks, and you see your challenges through an entirely different lens? That’s what today is about...
Ep #45: How to Believe Your Dream Relationship Is Actually Possible For You
In this episode, we’re diving into a question almost every woman on the anxious-to-secure path quietly struggles with: “How do I believe the partner I truly want actually exists… and that I’m not delusional for wanting it?” This conver...
Ep #44: Why Low Self-Worth Makes You Chase High-Intensity Relationships
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on one of the most addictive and confusing patterns for anxiously attached women; the chase for high-intensity relationships. You know the ones: the mixed signals, the emotional rollercoasters, the ...