The Secure Love Club Podcast
Your go-to space to break free from anxious dating patterns, find your confidence, and feel secure in love, with dating & relationship expert, Mimi Watt.
Episodes
75 episodes
Ep #75: Boundaries Aren’t Enough: How To Choose Better Partners
In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most important conversations we can have when it comes to secure dating: why boundaries and communication are essential, but they are not the whole transformation.So many women do the work o...
Ep #74: What Grief Taught Me About Feeling My Feelings - Dedicated to Archie ❤️
In this episode, I'm sharing something a little different and a lot more personal. Last week, my family received the heartbreaking news that one of our beloved dogs, Archie, was very unwell and that we would need to make the impossible decision...
Ep #73: Expect the Unexpected! The Magic That Unfolds When You Open Your Energy, Detach from Outcomes, and Flirt with the World
In this episode, we're talking about something that has the power to completely change not only your dating life, but the way you move through the world: opening your energy, letting go of rigid expectations, and becoming available for the unex...
Ep #72: Stop Believing Every Thought You Have
In this episode, I’m sharing a reminder that completely shifted the way I was moving through a difficult season recently… and it’s one I think every woman needs to hear: you are not your thoughts. When life feels uncertain, when dating doesn’t ...
Ep #71: You’re Not “Just An Overthinker”… You’re In a Dysregulated Dating Pattern
In this episode, we’re calling out something that so many women quietly believe about themselves… “I’m just an overthinker.” It feels harmless, almost like a personality trait you’ve learnt to live with, but what if that label is actually keepi...
Ep #70: Are You Desperate for Wanting a Relationship?
In this episode, we’re getting real about something so many women feel… but rarely say out loud. Wanting a relationship… thinking about it often… wondering if you’re “ruining it” by caring too much… and then judging yourself for it. Somewhere a...
Ep #69: YOU ARE THE CATCH
In this episode, I’m coming in hot… because sometimes you don’t need another gentle reminder, you need a wake-up call that snaps you back into your power. This conversation was sparked from a moment that hit deeper than expected… be...
Ep #68: From Fake Tan Addiction And Insecurity to Radical Self-Acceptance With Belle Christina
In this episode, I’m joined by the incredible Belle Christina — a beauty content creator who is leading powerful conversations around confidence, self-acceptance, and embracing your natural skin.This is a deeply personal one for me, bec...
Ep #67: Intensity Isn’t Intimacy & Are YOU The Love Bomber?!
In this episode, I’m sharing a conversation where I was interviewed by the amazing Drea Renee on her podcast ‘Hey Babe, Can We Talk?’This is such a fun, value-packed conversation where we’re not just talking about what’s been happening ...
Ep #66: When You're Not Who You Used To Be... But Not Quite Who You're Becoming. Navigating 'The River of Misery'
In this episode, I’m taking you into one of the most important (and honestly, confronting) truths when it comes to love, dating, and relationships: the love you want is real… but there are parts of you that simply cannot come with you into it.<...
Ep #65: From Heartbreak to Getting Her Spark Back - Client Story with Zala!
In this episode, I’m sitting down with one of my Peacefully Attached clients, Zala, who shares her journey from feeling heartbroken and stuck after a breakup… to getting her spark back and dating with confidence and self-trust.When she ...
Ep #64: I Got GHOSTED & My Anxious Attachment Gremlin Popped Up - Here's What Happened.
In this episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes of a very real, very recent dating experience… where I got ghosted. And not just ignored… fully unmatched. 😅What made this moment so powerful wasn’t the ghosting itself… it was what happ...
Ep #63: From Situationship Loops to Secure Dating - Client Story with Liv!
In this episode, I’m sitting down with one of my past Peacefully Attached clients, Liv, who shares her journey from feeling stuck in repetitive, anxiety-driven dating patterns… to finally experiencing calm, grounded, and secure connection.<...
Ep #62: You’re Not Lazy Or Incapable - You’re Dysregulated
In this episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes of one of the most challenging and transformative seasons I’ve experienced in a long time… and the truth is, it caught me completely off guard. Because from the outside, everything looked like i...
Ep #61: How to Say What You Want Without Pushing Them Away
In this episode, we’re getting into one of the biggest patterns I see holding women back in dating and relationships: struggling to communicate what you actually want and need. And not because you don’t know how… but because your body doesn’t f...
Ep #60: Stop Following Your Feelings in Dating (Here’s Why)
In this episode, we’re unpacking something that might sound a little controversial at first: the moments in dating when not listening to your feelings is actually the most secure thing you can do. We’re often told to follow our heart, but if yo...
Ep #59: Addicted To The Struggle
In this episode, we’re unpacking a sneaky pattern that quietly runs so many people’s lives without them even realizing it: being addicted to the struggle. The belief that things have to be hard, that success must come through suffering, or that...
Ep #58: Feeling Confident in Every Area… Except Relationships
This episode is for the high-achieving, self-aware woman who feels grounded and powerful in every part of her life, except when it comes to dating. You’re decisive in your career, clear in your friendships, aligned in your lifestyle… but the mo...
Ep #57: The Hard Truth About Closure After Emotionally Unavailable Relationships
This episode is for you if you’re stuck in that painful in-between place — wanting to move on with your life, heal, and become more secure… but still feeling the overwhelming urge to reach out to your ex for “closure.” Especially if that ex was...
Ep #56: Dating Without Pressure: How I Stopped Making Every Date Mean Something
In this episode, I’m sharing a perspective shift on dating that honestly changed everything for me, and it came from a place I didn’t expect. After taking a break from dating, doing some deep nervous system regulation, and going on a recent dat...
Ep #55: How to Date Like a Secure Woman (Even If You’re Anxious)
In this episode, we’re calling out one of the most frustrating patterns anxious daters get stuck in: dating the same person with a different face. You know the one… the chemistry is insane, it’s hot and heavy at the start, you’re on cloud nine ...
Ep #54: Stop Trying to Avoid Problems (It’s Keeping You Stuck)
In this episode, we’re talking about something we all claim we want… but secretly spend half our lives trying to avoid: problems. I’m breaking down why so many of us have developed this unconscious belief that we shouldn’t have challenges, and ...
Ep #53: Decisive Action - How Making a Decision Directs Your Energy & Changes Everything
In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most underrated reasons you feel stuck, drained, and unable to move forward in dating, life, or your personal growth: indecision.I’m breaking down why “I just need to think about it more” is...
Ep #52: From Anxious To Secure: My Story And Path To Coaching
In this special replay episode, I’m taking you right back to the beginning — sharing my full journey from growing up anxiously attached, through years of emotionally draining relationships, to becoming secure within myself and building a life a...
Ep #51: Inside the Avoidant Mind: What They’re Really Thinking When They Pull Away (My Sister’s Avoidant Perspective!)
In this episode, I sit down with my sister, Hannah, to have an honest, nuanced conversation about what it’s actually like to experience relationships from an avoidantly attached perspective.So many anxiously attached people are left fee...