
The Secure Love Club Podcast
Your go-to space to break free from anxious dating patterns, find your confidence, and feel secure in love, with dating & relationship expert, Mimi Watt.
Episodes
32 episodes
Ep #32: From Domestic Violence Survivor to Global Coach: Teagan Woodgate’s Story of Strength & Self-Belief
This episode is one of the most powerful conversations I’ve had on the podcast. I’m joined by Teagan Woodgate, founder of Reform Body Coaching, whose journey from surviving domestic violence to creating a thriving global coaching business will ...
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Ep #31: Connecting vs. Attaching: The Shift That Will Change Your Love Life
In this episode, I’m sharing an interview I did with my beautiful friend Hillary McVeigh — Human Design teacher, Retreat Facilitator, Certified Coach, intuitive, and the kind of woman who will lovingly see straight into your soul.Before...
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Ep #30: I'm Done Pretending to Be the Perfect Straight White Girl With a Tan. Questioning My Sexuality, The Truth I’ve Been Hiding for 12 Months
This episode is one of the most vulnerable and raw I’ve ever shared. For the last 12 months, I’ve been quietly navigating something that has shaken me to my core and challenged my identity in ways I never expected… and today, I’m bringing you b...
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Ep #29: The Secret to Not Losing Yourself in Dating or Giving Up the Woman You Fought to Become
If you’ve ever felt afraid that once you really like someone, you’ll slip back into old habits… abandon yourself… and forget everything you worked so hard to heal—this episode is for you.After a long pattern of anxious dating, emotional...
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Ep #28: Why Self-Aware Women Stay in Messy Relationships With Majo Torreli
If you’ve ever found yourself spiraling over a situationship, stuck in a cycle of "I know he’s not good for me, but I can’t walk away" - this episode is your medicine, my love. Today, I’m joined by the beautiful Majo Torreli - somatic coach, Ox...
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Ep #27: Even the Confident Girls Get Social Anxiety (Here’s How I Handle It)
You know that moment where you get invited to something amazing — a room full of women you know you’d vibe with — but your body starts screaming, “Nope! Stay home, it’s safer on the couch”? Yeah… that was me last night.In this episode, ...
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Ep #26: Secure Situationships Are a Thing - Here’s How to Have One
Can you actually date casually and feel emotionally safe, respected, and secure?Short answer: yes. But most people out here trying to be the “cool girl” in casual dating are actually just abandoning their needs and calling it chill. Let’s c...
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Ep #25: The Questions Keeping You Anxious in Dating, and What to Ask Instead!
Today’s episode is for the over-thinkers, the self-doubters, and the “was it something I did?” spirallers. If you’ve ever felt triggered after a date and immediately asked “What did I do wrong?” Caught yourself on a mental ham...
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Ep #24: The Self-Sabotage That Shows Up Right Before You Up-level & How To Overcome It
If you’ve ever hit a point in your healing where you thought, “Why is this happening again?” or “I thought I already worked through this!” this episode is your reminder that healing isn’t a straight line… but every challenge i...
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Ep #23: Coming Out Later in Life, Queer Dating & Anxious Attachment with Inez Bye
This episode is for every human who’s ever thought: “Am I actually into men… or am I just addicted to their validation?” 😳 …or “I think I might be queer, but I’m terrified of what that means.” Today I’m joined by the brilliant Inez Bye - q...
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Ep #22: Online Dating, First Dates & Ghosting: Let’s Talk About It All
Today’s episode is a full-on DATING DEBRIEF. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in dating burnout 🙃, ghosted someone because you weren’t sure how to say “I’m not feeling it,” got ghosted and spiraled hard, or stared at your phone thinking “Do ...
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Ep #21: Are Your Dating Decisions Rooted in Scarcity or Abundance?
If your dating life feels like a never-ending loop of ghosting, confusion, and anxiety… you need this episode. In this episode of The Secure Love Club Podcast, I’m breaking down the subtle, yet game-changing, difference between dating from scar...
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Ep #20: How to Stop Spiraling After One Date: The Anti-Obsession Method
Ever caught yourself planning your wedding playlist after one flirty date? 👀 Already imagining what your couple selfies will look like before you even know their last name? You’re not alone, my love—and you’re not crazy. In today’s juicy e...
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Ep #19: Europe Catch-Up + Stop Putting Your Life on Hold for a Relationship!!!
If you’ve ever caught yourself saying “I’ll be happy when…” — when I find my person, when I make more money, when I finally feel chosen — this episode is your wake-up call. Fresh from my Europe trip, I’m sharing the biggest shift I had...
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Ep #18: You Don’t Want a Relationship… You Want Peace
You think you’re searching for a relationship, but what you’re really craving is relief. A break from the spiral of overthinking and the constant need to feel “enough.” In this episode, I’m sharing a truth I learned the hard way: When ...
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Ep #17: Get Unstuck & Into Alignment Using Human Design With Hillary McVeigh
In this episode of the Secure Love Club podcast, I welcome special guest and Human Design expert, Hilary McVeigh. Hilary shares her journey from being a burnt-out lawyer to a guide helping people reconnect with their authentic selves through hu...
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Ep #16: How Your Childhood Shaped Your Dating Patterns (Without You Realizing)
Ever wonder why you keep repeating the same patterns in dating — like chasing emotionally unavailable people, feeling like you’re “too much,” or constantly questioning your worth? In this episode of the Secure Love Club podcast, we’re ...
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Ep #15: Am I Anxiously Attached... or Just Really Into Them?
Have you ever met someone new and immediately felt hooked? Like one great date has your brain spiraling with “What if they’re the one?!” and then panicking when they take hours to reply? In this episode of the Secure Love Club...
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Ep #14: Hot, Healed & High-Performing: The Power of Discipline, Devotion & Self-Leadership With Dijana Djukicc
My friends… this one is a soul shaker. If you’ve been waiting for a sign to stop tolerating the bare minimum — from yourself, your life, your relationships — and finally take radical ownership, this is it. Today I sat down with the powerhouse t...
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Ep #13: Why You Keep Falling for Emotionally Unavailable People (And How to Break the Cycle)
Ever feel like you always fall for the person who sends mixed signals, keeps you guessing, and never fully commits? You’re not alone. In this episode of The Secure Love Club Podcast, we’re diving deep into why emotionally unav...
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Ep #12: Friendship - A Personal Story About Losing Myself, Finding Myself & The Power of Real Connection
In this episode of The Secure Love Club Podcast, I’m sharing something really close to my heart—a live talk I gave recently at the On Purpose event in Melbourne. This one’s personal. I open up about parts of my journey I’ve never
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Ep #11: Flirting 101: Micro Flirts, Rejection-Proof Confidence & Building Genuine Connection with The Flirt Coach, Benjamin Camras
Flirting isn’t just about romance—it’s about confidence, connection, and having fun in your own skin. In this episode of The Secure Love Club podcast, I sit down with Benjamin Camras, aka The Flirt Coach<...
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Ep #10: The Tug-of-War Between Desire & Discipline in Dating & How To Expand Your Capacity For Discomfort
If you’ve ever felt like your heart and your head are at war when it comes to dating - this episode is for you. In this juicy deep dive, I’m breaking down the tension between desire and discipline, especially for those of us with anxious attach...
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30:50

Ep #9: What To Do When Your Partner Finds Other People Attractive!!!
In episode nine of the Secure Love Club podcast, we’re discussing the sensitive topic of jealousy in relationships and the anxiety and insecurity stirred up when your partner finds other people attractive. I cover why attraction outside of your...
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Ep #8: Navigating Breakups and Embracing Transformation
In episode eight of the Secure Love Club podcast, I address the painful and often isolating experience of going through a breakup and offer a compassionate space for discussing heartbreak. I acknowledge the pain you're going through, share how ...
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