The Visibility Standard
Ever stare at a post for 20 minutes, rewrite the caption five times, then save it to drafts because "what if people from my real life see this?"
Spiraling over your content because you're terrified of judgment? Sitting with that crushing "nobody cares" voice while your best ideas collect dust in your drafts folder? Tired of hiding behind safe posts and watching other people build the visibility you secretly want? The Visibility Standard is your permission slip to stop playing small online.
I'm Jazzmyn Proctor, therapist-turned-visibility strategist, and I understand the real psychology behind why we hide. The exhausting mental gymnastics of wanting to be seen while being terrified of perception. The paralyzing perfectionism that keeps your most powerful content locked away.
Every Monday, I drop bold solo episodes breaking down the fears behind showing up online—from "what will my family think?" anxiety to the comparison trap that has you posting like everyone else instead of like yourself.
Every Friday, I sit down with founders, visionaries, and healers who are owning their brands unapologetically and shifting the entire social commentary around what it means to be visible. We're talking about the real work of building authentic influence while staying true to who you are.
If you've been waiting for permission to quit hiding your real thoughts behind safe content and actually claim your space in the conversation—this is your sign.
Stop shrinking. Start expanding. Set the standard.
The Visibility Standard
Why Discomfort is Proof You’re on the Right Path
Is the fear of being perceived keeping you small? You've got the vision, but taking the next step feels paralyzing. In this episode of The Visibility Standard, host Jazzmyn tackles the biggest misconception in entrepreneurial growth: the belief that aligned action should feel easy.
We challenge the notion of "comfortable growth" and reframe discomfort as the ultimate proof that you are expanding and moving toward your biggest goals. You'll learn:
- Why you might be choosing familiarity and stagnation over the growth you say you want.
- The essential practice of building your "distress tolerance" so that feeling uncomfortable signals progress, not failure.
- How Jazzmyn flexed her own growth muscle by choosing a moment of profound professional discomfort—quitting a job with no backup—and why that experience made her feel "unstoppable."
- The difference between allegiance and loyalty and why cutting one-sided relationships is a vital act of self-preservation and growth.
If you're a founder or creative wrestling with visibility fears and internal resistance, this is your permission slip to stop shrinking. Embrace the friction—your biggest breakthroughs are waiting on the other side of your comfort zone.
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