The Self Love Project
Welcome to The Self Love Project — the podcast that helps you quiet your inner critic, rewrite your self-talk, and finally feel like your own biggest supporter.
Every week, host Megan Lawther (mindset coach, podcast host, and self-love cheerleader) shares relatable stories, mindset shifts, and soulful encouragement to help you feel better, love deeper, and stop self-sabotaging the life you actually want.
Expect real talk, a little humor, and the kind of reminders that feel like a warm hug and a motivational slap on the same day.
New episodes drop every Saturday morning (MDT) — so whether you're folding laundry or taking a walk, consider this your weekly permission slip to choose yourself.
The Self Love Project
Letting Go of Control: The Shift From Anxiety to Trust
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In this episode of The Self Love Project, Megan dives into the topic of control — the subtle, everyday ways it shows up in our lives from overthinking texts and rehearsing conversations to managing routines, outcomes, and even how other people feel about us.
Megan unpacks how control often disguises itself as productivity or responsibility — when it’s really rooted in a desire to feel safe in an uncertain world.
She explores the illusion of control and the exhausting loop it creates with anxiety, highlighting the truth that no matter how much we plan, prepare, or perfect — we can’t guarantee outcomes, other people’s behavior, or how life unfolds.
This episode shifts the focus away from trying to control everything and toward something far more powerful: trust. Trusting yourself to handle whatever comes, trusting others to be who they are, and trusting that life can unfold in ways you couldn’t have planned.
If you’ve been feeling tense, overextended, or like you’re constantly trying to stay one step ahead of life, this conversation will help you learn what it looks like to 'let go', how to build tolerance for uncertainty, and why trusting yourself to handle whatever comes next is the real source of freedom. This episode allows you to loosen the grip, breathe a little deeper, and step into a more peaceful way of living.
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Send me an email: Megan@theselfloveproject.ca