The Self Love Project
Welcome to The Self Love Project — the podcast that helps you quiet your inner critic, rewrite your self-talk, and finally feel like your own biggest supporter.
Every week, host Megan Lawther (mindset coach, podcast host, and self-love cheerleader) shares relatable stories, mindset shifts, and soulful encouragement to help you feel better, love deeper, and stop self-sabotaging the life you actually want.
Expect real talk, a little humor, and the kind of reminders that feel like a warm hug and a motivational slap on the same day.
New episodes drop every Saturday morning (MDT) — so whether you're folding laundry or taking a walk, consider this your weekly permission slip to choose yourself.
The Self Love Project
When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love Themselves
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In this episode of The Self Love Project, Megan explores the emotional complexity of loving someone who doesn’t love themselves — and the quiet toll it can take on you.
She unpacks the subtle dynamics that show up in these relationships, from over-giving and over-functioning to feeling responsible for someone else’s worth, and why even the deepest love can feel like it’s not landing.
This episode gently challenges the belief that we can love someone into healing, while offering a more grounded and empowering perspective on what’s actually within your control.
If you’ve ever felt exhausted trying to hold someone up, questioned whether you’re doing enough, or struggled to balance loving someone while staying true to yourself — this conversation will help you see the dynamic more clearly, release what was never yours to carry, and come back to yourself in the process.
Follow me on Instagram: @meganelisalawther
Send me an email: Megan@theselfloveproject.ca