From Surviving to Magnetic: Dating, Scarcity, and the Feminine Archetypes with Lilli Bewley

If you’ve ever said “dating sucks” while doom-scrolling through the apps… this episode is your intervention.

In this conversation, I’m joined by feminine dating coach and archetype queen Lilli Bewley — creator of the Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz and host of the Love with Lilli podcast. Lilli doesn’t teach scripts and tricks. She helps women heal the parts of them that keep choosing the same emotionally unavailable, breadcrumbing, half-in partners on repeat.

We talk about how your dating patterns are not proof that you’re broken — they’re information. Lilli breaks down her four Feminine Dating Archetypes (Chill Woman, Fortress Woman, Goddess Woman, and Magnetic Woman), why attachment style isn’t a life sentence, and how to move from “dating is a war zone” into “dating is where I practice my self-trust.”

If you’re tired of knowing better but still texting the breadcrumb guy, this one’s for you.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why dating doesn’t actually “suck” — and what it really means when your experience does
• The four Feminine Dating Archetypes and how to know which one is quietly running your love life
• The difference between intellectual self-love (“I know I’m enough”) and embodied self-love (“I can feel I’m enough”)
• How to stop treating self-love like a transaction (“if I take a bath, then I’m worthy”)
• Why your “bad patterns” are really protective parts trying to keep you safe
• How to use dating apps as a conscious playground instead of a self-esteem shredder
• What it actually looks like to become the Magnetic Woman — in your body, nervous system, and choices

Whether you’re newly single, post-divorce, or just exhausted by the same story in a different hoodie, this episode will help you see your patterns with compassion, not shame — and give you a path to something better.

• Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz:⁠datingarchetype.com⁠
• Website:⁠https://www.lillibewley.com⁠
• Instagram:⁠@lillibewley⁠