MYTH #34: Being Right is the Same as Being Effective

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Hi, this is Dave Sturgeon, author of The Truth About Radio, a myth busting guide for today's media buyers and sellers. Today, myth number 34. Being right is the same as being effective. The truth is, ego is expensive. We all know that person. Maybe we've been that person, the one who always has to have the last word, the one who can't let a small error slide, the one who values being right over being effective, respected, and connected. Here's the hard truth. The need to be right often comes from a deeper need to prove something. And the more we try to prove ourselves, the more we push people away. In business, leadership, sales, and relationships, the need to be right can quietly sabotage the outcomes we care about most. Here are five reflective questions that shine a light on what we're sacrificing when being right becomes our default setting. Number one, would you rather be right or rich? A salesperson corrects their prospect mid-conversation on an irrelevant detail. The prospect feels talked down to. In business, ego is expensive. Number two, would you rather be right or respected? In a team meeting, you're constantly correcting others, even over minor points. Eventually your colleagues stop contributing. Respect isn't earned by proving you're the smartest person in the room. It's earned by knowing when to speak and when to listen. three, would you rather be right or receptive? You mentor others by telling, not asking. You correct instead of exploring. The result? People stop sharing ideas with you. Receptive leaders grow others. Defensive leaders just protect themselves. four, would you rather be right or relatable? You never admit fault, never apologize, never show uncertainty. You may appear perfect, but people don't trust perfect. They trust real. Number five, would you rather be right or reflective? You argue, dig in, defend, but you rarely ask yourself, what can I learn from this? Reflection is where growth begins, not in proving your point, but in questioning it. The takeaway? People who always need to be right usually have something to prove. But people who truly lead, they've got nothing to prove, only something to offer. They connect, they listen, they reflect. By yielding the need to be right, they earn the perspective, respect, and space to speak truth that others trust, and ultimately get what they want.