Rewired; Neuroscience Meets Real-Life Change
Rewired: Neuroscience Meets Real-Life Change is your space for unlocking intentional growth — in yourself and in the people you lead, coach, or inspire.
Each episode blends brain science with real-world application, delivering practical tools you can use right away to create lasting change. Through expert interviews, powerful coaching conversations, and bite-sized solo episodes, host Tiffany Grimes shares neuroscience-based strategies for rewiring habits, expanding possibilities, and living with purpose.
Whether you’re pursuing your own transformation or helping others navigate theirs, you’ll find insight, community, and empowerment here. This is where science meets soul — and change gets real.
Rewired; Neuroscience Meets Real-Life Change
Ep 16, Surfing the Urge: Choosing Values Over Autopilot
Urges are part of the human experience.
The urge to snap.
The urge to shut down.
The urge to over-function, people-please, or abandon a boundary you worked hard to build.
In this solo episode of Rewired, Tiffany explores Surfing the Urge through the lens of neuroscience, self-coaching, and nervous system awareness. You’ll learn what’s actually happening in the brain when urges arise, why short-term relief so often leads to long-term regret, and how building awareness creates choice.
This episode is about reclaiming agency in those charged moments—learning to stay with discomfort long enough to reconnect with your values, your boundaries, and the person you want to be.
Because while both options are hard…
Only one builds self-trust, emotional resilience, and aligned relationships.
The 4-Part “Surf the Urge” Tool
Use this simple, powerful self-coaching practice when an urge shows up:
- Name the urge “I’m noticing the urge to…”
- Locate it in the body Where do you feel it — chest, jaw, shoulders, gut?
- Breathe and stay Slow the exhale and allow the urge to rise and fall without acting.
- Reconnect to values Ask, "What am I protecting if I don’t act on this urge?" and/or “Who do I want to be right now?”
Work with ICF Accredited, Empower Coaches
If you’re ready to deepen this work with support, Empower’s trained coaches help clients build self-awareness, emotional regulation, aligned boundaries, and values-based change.
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Upcoming Training: The Boundary ToolKit
Struggling to hold boundaries under pressure? This live, neuroscience-informed masterclass blends coaching tools and brain science to help you protect your energy without guilt or over-explaining.
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Become a Certified Coach: CPEC Coach Training Academy
If you feel called to support others in this kind of transformation, Empower’s Certified Professional Empower Coach (CPEC) Training Academy offers a neuroscience-based, ICF-aligned pathway to becoming a professional coach.
This program blends rigorous skill development with personal growth, mentoring, and real-world application—so you graduate confident, grounded, and ready to coach with integrity.
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