Vaginally Speaking
Vaginally Speaking is the no-filter, tell-it-like-it-is podcast breaking the silence on women’s health, pelvic health, motherhood, and everything in between. Hosted by Allison Germundson, founder of One Strong Woman Therapy, this is where clits, cramps, leaking, orgasms, poop habits, and “taboo” topics get the honest conversations they’ve always deserved.
Here, we call out the BS that “common” means “normal” and help you see that you don’t have to live with pain, leakage, or sexual dysfunction. From real birth stories to pelvic floor education, from mental health to sex toys, each episode is equal parts education, empowerment, and laugh-out-loud relatability.
Whether you’re navigating postpartum, struggling with painful sex, wondering why you pee when you sneeze, or just want to know your body better — you’ll find hope, solutions, and a community that gets it.
If you’re ready to stop faking it, start healing, and finally talk about the things no one told you, hit subscribe. This is your safe space to feel seen, heard, and equipped to change your story.
Common isn’t normal. You deserve better.
Vaginally Speaking
Rethinking Fertility, Faith & Womanhood with Eloise Drane
Ever found yourself navigating womanhood thinking, “I should already know how this works”… even though no one actually taught you any of it?
In this episode, Allison sits down with fertility expert, agency founder, and six-time egg donor + three-time surrogate Eloise Drane for a powerful, deeply human conversation about modern family building: the beauty, the complexity, and the emotional realities no one prepares you for.
Eloise shares her remarkable journey from kidney donor to becoming the first Black-owned surrogacy and egg donation agency owner in the U.S., and how her lived experience continues to shape the way she supports families today. Together, they unpack what third-party reproduction really looks like, why emotional readiness matters just as much as medical readiness, and the mindset shifts women need before stepping into egg donation, surrogacy, or assisted fertility.
You’ll hear the conversations most people avoid: the identity layers of donating or receiving genetic material, how to talk openly with children about their origin stories, why mental health and nervous system regulation matter for fertility, and how to choose the right clinic or agency without losing your peace in the process.
Whether you’re exploring family-building options, supporting someone who is, or simply want a more honest understanding of fertility in today’s world, this episode is a grounding, compassionate invitation to step out of shame and into empowerment.
Tune in to hear:
- Eloise’s powerful path from kidney donor to six-time egg donor and three-time surrogate
- Why egg donation requires a deeper “why” beyond financial incentives
- The emotional and identity considerations donors and recipients must navigate
- How secrecy around donor conception harms families and how transparency heals
- What most people misunderstand about surrogacy and why it should never be the first step
- The holistic factors affecting fertility: hormones, stress, nervous system state, weight, cannabis use, and more
- Why choosing the right clinic or agency matters more than choosing the closest one
- How burnout, people-pleasing, and boundary issues impact fertility journeys
- The mindset work Eloise had to do to protect her peace after decades of carrying others’ stories
- Why mental preparation is just as essential as medical preparation for anyone entering fertility treatment
Connect with Eloise Drane:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eloisedrane/
Website: https://familyinceptions.com/ or https://fertility360.com/
Fertility Cafe Podcast: https://thefertilitycafe.com/
Black Friday Offers are Live! https://allisongermundson.com/black-friday
Resources & Connect:
- Subscribe & Watch the episodes on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@onestrongwomantherapy
- Follow Allison on Instagram: @onestrongwomantherapy
- Discover Your Pleasure Type Quiz: https://allisongermundson.com/discover-your-pleasure-type/
- Learn more about pelvic health services at onestrongwomantherapy.com