The Long Way Out
It’s never too late to find your truth or change your mind. Join partners Carlos and Anthony—a nurse/professor and an addiction recovery coach—as they navigate an age-gap relationship, late-in-life coming out, divorce, and the art of the "second act".
While our journey started with our own story, we’re going everywhere from here. The Long Way Out explores any and every topic through the lens of experience and curiosity. We’re opening the floor to guests and callers to share their own stories, educate us on new perspectives, and join the conversation. Whether it’s life on the front lines of healthcare or the messy reality of starting over, we’re proving that the long way out is often the most rewarding path.
Podcasting since 2026 • 6 episodes
The Long Way Out
Latest Episodes
Episode 6: A Rough Week
Recorded on Friday, February 13, 2026In this episode: Super Bowl half time showsAnthony's heartbreakEstranged adult children and when you think they hate youInfidelity and how it's different be...
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Episode 6
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Episode 5: Picking Sides
Recorded on February 1, 2026.In this episode: Unhoused in the cold, Anthony's line of work, and how we can help.Retirement? What retirement? Internalized homophobia. Gay for May...
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Episode 5
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Episode 4: The Lines We Cross
Recorded on January 25, 2026. In this episode: Prizes and how dictators love them, update on Anthony's friend Debbie, fuck cancer, missing out for not coming out sooner, ideas about masculinity, casual sex encounters, who's th...
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