Hot Glue and Hard Truths with Iliza Schlesinger

When comedian Iliza Schlesinger joined me for what was supposed to be a simple crafting session, we quickly discovered that neither of us possesses Martha Stewart-level skills and that's perfectly okay. Between failed paint pours and questionable attempts at "art," our conversation evolved into something far more valuable than the lopsided trivets we created.

Perhaps the most refreshing aspect of our conversation was dismantling the guilt associated with self-care. Iliza's philosophy resonated deeply: "I don't believe in guilt. I think you just do things because you need to do them." This permission to prioritize yourself without apology feels revolutionary in a culture that expects women to put themselves last.

Join us for laughter, surprisingly deep insights, and the liberating reminder that sometimes the most meaningful connections happen when we stop striving for perfection and simply enjoy the creative process, whatever the outcome.

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Transcript

Welcome to Redesigning Life

Speaker 1 0:00

Welcome to a special edition of Redesigning Life. Many of you know I have a new show called the Sabrina Soto Show Out, and I was able to invite amazing experts in their fields just to come in and have a great conversation. But because it's a show, we have to edit it down. Now, these conversations, they were so good that I wanted to publish the raw, unedited version, and that's what this episode is. You're going to hear action and you may hear a crew in the background, but I wanted to publish this so you can really listen to the entire chat. So here you go, Eliza. Thank you so much for coming over. So today's intention is to have fun, I realized. Let me set my intention.

Speaker 2 0:42

What is your intention? My intention, I'm ready.

Speaker 1 0:49

I'm ready, I'm ready. I've said it. What is it? Oh, I was supposed to have fun. Oh no, I thought you were going to have your own?

Speaker 2 0:51

Oh no, you don't need one. Oh, I just was hoping to go to the bathroom after I have some coffee. You could do that that was my intention.

Speaker 1 0:56

You know what? It took me 48 years to figure out that I need to create more fun and play in my life. I'm like constantly go, go, go being a mom working, and I just don't do this anymore.

Speaker 2 1:09

It's weird that it took you 48 years because you're only 25. Thank you, so maybe it was like from your past life. Yep, I do think you do have to I don't this is not the way I talk, but like set aside time for joy. But the older I get which is not that old and the more I do, the more I realize like you do have to carve out, like remember to like actually have fun. And I think for women, like we never remember that Men are like I'm gonna have fun no matter what, and I feel like you have to actually set time aside to have sex with your husband to be with your friends.

Speaker 1 1:39

Wait, do you?

Speaker 2 1:39

schedule that, not schedule it, but like it's kind of like all right, we know it's going to be around here Around Monday, at least when I'm in town.

Speaker 1 1:47

Speaking of. You're always on the go. Yeah, how do you do it? You're on tour. No, no, please don't drink that. No, do you want something? No, later, you're on tour. You finished your special. I did which is called. Which is called A Different Animal.

Speaker 2 2:04

Amazing. How was it? It was great, we shot it in Salt Lake City. The secret about Mormons is that they are jacked up and ready to go Like on a Friday night, like they are not drunk, but they have all had a lot of soda and they're in their F-350s and they're all very good looking and like kind of horny and they are the most incredible audience. That is good to know. I knew about that energy before. People fell in love with the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. Like I was gunning for having it at that in that state years ago, so I was happy to go. Well, I can't wait to watch it. It's out soon this month. Different animal and the best part I think, aside from the jokes, are the pants. I've got a great pair of pants.

Speaker 1 2:44

That was it, pants. You just check that off the box, pants first, wait. And so tell me, how is it doing? A special, like, how do you even prepare for that, for a special? Yeah, like, how do you try out jokes, have you?

Speaker 2 2:56

ever come to see me locally. Yes, okay, I went to the airport and I left because it was so bad. No, I went to see you at Flappers. Yes, I tour, I'm on tour and then when I'm home, I'm running it, you know, 15 minutes at a time, 20 minutes at a time, clubs, alt, venues, wherever, and you sort of cobble together, like you Frankenstein together, this monster of an hour, and then you polish it when you're on the road, road, and then we have, we back out, we back it up into the date where we shoot it. So it's uh, it's just practice, it's a lot of practice and you're like trying out jokes as much as it seems it's not off the top of our heads. So some of the best crowd work is not always off the top of your head. Really not, not for everyone, not all the time.

Speaker 1 3:35

That's a secret, it's just like a tiny secret, not always so you are doing the specials, you're on tour, you've got two young kids, a husband, a little doggy, I do a little doggy, how do?

Speaker 2 3:47

you do it, which is really why I came here today to talk about that dog. Why, no, I didn't bring her. Why you bring her everywhere? Because she barks at anyone with a beard or who's tall. So this wouldn't have worked. But what if I pointed to a girl? She's like I am trying, I don't, I just, you, just do right. Women only get asked that no one asks my husband, you know, you're a father and you're a like. How do you do it all? And I feel like women are very good, under painful circumstances, at just going and just doing, because what's the alternative?

Speaker 1 4:20

We don't have one Not existing?

Speaker 2 4:21

yeah, there isn't, and you just do it. And women are very good at kind of like being stoic, Like you know, if you have an animal like your dog has like a tooth problem, he kind of doesn't let you know for a while, yeah, and then you're like oh no, we have to get it pulled. I feel like that's how women are, Like decided we're just going to do it all and it's going to be controlled chaos and hopefully I have time to like watch TV at the end of the night.

Speaker 1 4:56

But that's what I'm saying, like, when do you find time to play in your life?

Speaker 2 5:01

I don't, you don't, but I don't, I don't, you don't, but I don't, I don't, but like what is playing this?

Speaker 1 5:07

This oh, we haven't done it, so I guess I haven't Like when do you carve time to for yourself, for just Eliza?

Finding Time for Play as Women

Speaker 2 5:13

You know, I think you take it where you can get it. So, whether it's a workout which I know like people will roll their eyes and be like that's not fun, you don't like eating salads it's like I do enjoy the workout, I do enjoy that and it is time for myself and I sneak it in Like I'm often like I'm going to go get my face massaged and I just go and I don't feel bad about it. Yeah, like a buccal face massage or like when they go in your jaw.

Speaker 1 5:34

Oh, I want that so bad. It's literally down the street, really, I will give you.

Speaker 2 5:40

I've only got a little bit of paint on my hand, but I think the biggest thing is women always are told to feel bad. I don't believe in guilt. I think you just do things because you need to do them, and there are so many times you don't do things to make yourself feel better and so you need to make up for that. And whether that's a massage or a day off or giving yourself that permission to just like not care that you didn't answer those emails, I think no one's ever going to give you that permission. So take it for yourself and never feel bad for having done something for yourself.

Speaker 1 6:10

I do. I am practicing that now in my life. I was, I went to a retreat last year and there was one day it was seven days and one day of just play, and I got mad. I actually was like you guys ran out of content because this is BS, and the counselor was like no, this is your problem, because you don't play, you don't like to play. What did they give you to play with, though?

Speaker 2 6:30

It was silly.

Speaker 1 6:31

It was silly. No, it was like they had to pretend Santa come and they'll get a lot of games with like adults playing games. But I was looking around and I saw all these adults having fun.

Speaker 2 6:40

and I wasn't having fun because I'm like constant having fun and I wasn't having fun because I'm like constant, I need to like check things off a box.

Speaker 2 6:48

I think I'm that way Like I just took a vacation and I need a vacation to get ready for the vacation, because it takes me three full days to like loosen my grip and like relax my jaw. The truth is, things need to get done and when you're a woman, you have to do so many more things, not just professionally but personally, and we're always checking up on other people and you wake up thinking, oh my God, did I say the wrong thing or do the wrong thing? So we just need those breaks. We work harder, we compartmentalize more things, we're juggling so many things and so I just I don't know, at 41, like I just don't feel bad about doing anything good for myself Really why my kids are too young to know that I'm doing it. Like I say, mommy's got to go to work, but mommy's just going to the spa, but I let her. I want my daughter to think like she's working so hard. I'm like totally.

Speaker 1 7:32

I know it's this thing. I talked to my sister about this. You and I have never talked about this, but I feel like we're talking about this, equality and all this, but it's not because we. I feel like there are days that I'm just failing. I just can't be great at all of them.

Speaker 2 7:54

That's silly. I never feel that way. Tell me, I never feel that way because there's no such thing as perfection. There's literally no other woman who's doing it without help, in a flawless way and or expecting you to do it. Like there's no there there. Like there's no woman who's crushing it and not feeling like she's failing. And so if every woman is feeling that way, that means we all must be doing okay, since there's no such thing as perfection. Yeah, I know, and like, by virtue of the fact that you own your own home and you have this show, which is so hard to get a show made, I know, so don't skip past the commercials. Like don't just buy everything. It's a lot of like mortgage rate commercials. Or you just do a GoFundMe? It's a lot of like yeah, or do a GoFundMe, but like there's nobody's expecting you to do anything, and by virtue of the fact that you've done anything is incredible.

Speaker 1 8:49

Yeah, truly, I'm trying to let go. I feel like that's. I'm in the era of my life of letting go, of letting go of having to be perfect. I think for all of my career I was this like homemaker, they like, I'm saying they.

Speaker 2 9:02

Secret? She's not. This is a scam. I haven't even painted anything. She's given me no instruction and I'm so cold. It's true, this is nothing. I've been stirring this cup for 15 minutes and I don't even know what's in it, but it tastes awful. We'll get to it.

Speaker 1 9:19

I feel like for my whole career I have been placed in this bubble of being this like Susie, homemaker, and my friends are like this is such BS. Like we know you have the mouth of a truck driver, we know that you do curse a lot.

Speaker 2 9:34

I was shocked because, having only spoken to you in person maybe three times, I was horrified. How many times. When I arrived at your home and all the weird sexual art you have in the bathroom.

Speaker 1 9:46

They're going to blur it out, so you'll see it. But seriously, like I feel like now as I get older, I'm just going to be who I am and if you like it, you like it, if you don't, you don't. I feel like now as I get older.

Speaker 2 9:56

I'm just going to be who I am and if you like it, you like it. If you don't, you don't. I feel like you are who you are Off camera. I feel like you have a lot of friends that are awful to you Really, because you're talking about like someone who judged you for this or that.

Speaker 1 10:05

No, that wasn't a mommy group, that wasn't my friend.

Speaker 2 10:07

No, yeah, we can. I don't know what woman actually has the time to put another woman down. No, I have time for that. But to genuinely care, or like judge, like we're all just doing, aside from like, if you're feeding your kids cigarettes, like maybe I'll say something Other than that, like I have, like two kids, a career, and like social causes I care about, like I don't have the time to care, like who breastfed best or at all. Right, we did a little bit, it was really hard for both of us.

Speaker 1 10:35

Yes, um, we know. Nobody ever talks about how hard breastfeeding is.

Speaker 2 10:39

Yeah, I mean, we can talk about that. Is that what you want?

Speaker 1 10:47

Yeah, this is why I wanted to do this show, because I wanted to sort of show a different side of myself, the real side of myself, my friends, the people that I look up to I look up to you so much Really, I do. I mean you really make me laugh all the time, especially on an airplane with the music Like that's. It never gets old to me.

Speaker 2 11:01

Well, I will just tell you, I don't believe in having people in my life that I, that I don't look up to in some respect, like I always want to be surrounded by people that are say better than me or do things that I don't do. So I always like looking at your Instagram and you're always, you're so motivated, you always are doing something beautiful or something. I hate the word crafty. I love a craft, I love it, every woman loves a craft but you're always and you always look great, thank you. And you always look chic and you always look pretty, thanks.

Letting Go of Perfection

Speaker 1 11:29

But another thing about, too. I've watched you now have two children, beautiful children. And then you also are honest about your fitness journey and you doing, you know, like Pilates and your body's amazing, but like how long it took. You're honest about that, you, you're. You're so honest about your real life. And another thing my best friend, trish, which you know, trish, sir, told me that you like, that you have always been so kind to her and that, like you, inspired her too to be a woman in this, in this business.

Speaker 2 12:06

That's crazy Cause she inspired me and I told her that, um, when I first saw her. But I will just say this like I think there's a big part of of womanhood and feminism that talks the talk about supporting women that are in business, that women that try, and then there's the part that actually like walks the walk. But you're okay, look it, you're here and I just believe you cannot support every woman and every person for their choices, but I am genuinely drawn to women who do things well and who are genuinely good at what they do and genuinely shine Like. It really does motivate me.

Speaker 1 12:36

But you are here, like you're here at my house, you're supporting me now, like this obviously shows your true heart and your soul that you took the time and you're doing your special with your children, with your family, doing you know, being on tour and you took the time out to be here to support me. I did, you did, I got up at 7.30.

Speaker 2 12:55

I didn't ask you to do that Like no one's impressed, they're like that's a normal time.

Speaker 1 12:58

By the way, it's like 1 o'clock in the afternoon right now.

Speaker 2 13:01

So I don't know I had to put. I had to, like, do my hair before I got here so that they could make it even more normal looking, and I really believe in supporting people who are trying. I know how hard it is to book one of these shows and I love that you're doing this, and even when you told me about it, I was like, yes, she deserves a daytime show. So many people don't. I think that what's stressful is this mandate that all women support each other all the time. No, pick the girls that you think are doing something incredible, that you actually care about and that sparks something in you and you, like your people. Yeah, we don't ask men to love all men. That's true All the time. That's true, even though they, like, naturally support each other. And so I don't know, you're pretty, you're a mom like I am, and you do something that I can't and don't do Same, and so I can't do that, what you do, and I look I can't, I can't.

Speaker 1 13:51

But I also support how hard you work. I support the mother. I love that you're so present with the kids and then you're so present at work. You juggle it all and you look good doing it.

Speaker 2 14:04

We don't film the parts where you don't look good.

Speaker 1 14:05

No, you always, we don't show. I've seen your hair, your natural hair.

Speaker 2 14:11

Oh boy, I like your curly hair. Why don't you?

Speaker 1 14:12

like your curly hair. Why don't you like your curly?

Speaker 2 14:14

hair. I don't have enough of it. You sure I'm positive, I don't have enough.

Speaker 1 14:20

What are we doing today? So this is paint pouring. Have you ever seen it Like where it looks like slowly.

Speaker 2 14:26

And then the artist is like I did that. You're like, did gravity do it or did you do it?

Speaker 1 14:29

Well, you're going to do it. You're going to do it, all right, what do I do? So you could pick any colors, any colors together, and you just put a little bit and you kind of it's called the dirty pour.

Speaker 2 14:37

Okay, so just color, dirty pour, just any colors Usually involves more olives than that. But okay, oh, you just do it. Okay, all into. Okay, all into.

Speaker 1 14:47

Okay, well, and really there's just no rhyme or reason to which colors work. Okay, and then you just pour it onto the canvas and then you're going to be able to take this home and you can put this in your living room. Oh, I can take this home. Oh, cool, Okay, okay, okay, I'll wait until it dries and I'll deliver it to your house.

Speaker 2 15:05

So what is under this? Is this a suit? Okay, this is like an Ann Taylor business suit.

Speaker 1 15:11

Why are you putting so much in there? I don't know. Oh, my god, oh no, oh, no.

Speaker 2 15:22

What are you doing, oh?

Speaker 1 15:22

no, are you crafty? I was, I thought I was, and then I got here and you cup shamed me. It really doesn't matter when you pour it. Just a little bit, though. It'll be swirly on the canvas here. I'll do mine first, so you pour, and then all the colors once it dries. You could make it like a little wait, wait. She's a homemaker, a craftsperson this isn't supposed to look like this. Wait, no, this is going to look good. Wait, is it no?

Speaker 2 16:01

no, it's not, it's not going to look good. And there are women that would be like, oh my God, that looks so good. And if you sold it, people would be like, yeah, I guess this is what it's supposed to look like Wait.

Speaker 1 16:16

You wouldn't buy this. I wouldn't steal that.

Speaker 2 16:19

Oh my god, I wouldn't give that away. Let me try. Okay, you shamed my full cup method. What you said, wait, you said you wanted people to see playful side look at that real big.

Speaker 1 16:32

Come on, dries. It's going to look so much better. It wasn't supposed to look like this. I've done this before. You know what. I don't know what happened. I think, no, look at that. Look at, look how pretty that looks. No, you're not. You're not wrong. It looks like an agate, right?

Speaker 2 16:50

Agate, that's really good. No, it's women supporting women. That looks great. Mama Bear, you go. Girl, look at all the oh look. It's writing a message. It's saying throw me away. It's revealing itself. I can't. It's revealing, okay, no, what happened? All the silicone CLA? Don't overdo the silicone, I swear. When it dries it's going to look different. Even the paint is running away from the canvas. That's how bad this looks. The paint is like call my agent, you cannot be seen here. Okay, let me try. Okay.

Paint Pouring Craft Attempt

Speaker 1 17:28

I have a better one after this. You know, the thing about art is like Tell me.

Speaker 2 17:35

Please educate me.

Speaker 1 17:37

It's like it doesn't. It's not about perfection, it's about you know. It's just about you coming over and doing a craft Totally. But I think you know art really is it's in the eye, like beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I'm holding two of them.

Speaker 2 17:50

And you know what it's, the destination, you try it, you try it, you try it. Okay, to be fair, you know what? I'm not a fair person, just put that other piece back.

Speaker 1 18:01

I don't think we should do two more. No, I'm not going to. Can I get a white one? Just put that one back. Okay, we get a wet rag. A wet rag. Okay, just leave that.

Speaker 2 18:21

Okay, just leave that. Okay, you don't have to touch it. Okay, can I just say something about it? Sure, on your side, in small people, like I, I get, like I get it. What if I just like put that piece out? You did like a little mouse portrait, I get it's like a very like um geode, yeah, surface, yeah try yours.

Speaker 1 18:31

Okay, here we oh that was so. Oh okay, that was a lot. That's a lot. Oh okay, okay, but look how pretty that is, yeah.

Speaker 2 18:40

I just think it's funny that, like you're giving me notes.

Speaker 1 18:45

I think you know what this is just about also having fun and making you know it's not about perfection. We were just talking about this. Yeah, it's not about perfection. It's about the joy of playing, and that's why I invited you over is to play. That's why I invited you over is to play. It's also about the joy of cleaning up. Yeah well, that's why the plastic's here Right. Look at that.

Speaker 2 19:07

Look how pretty that is. Now is the idea to move it around on the canvas or to it looked better. I feel like you keep promising that, like anyone's, You're really wow, oh okay, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry.

Speaker 1 19:24

All right, we're going to let these dry and I have one more project I want to show you. This one's a lot easier. I feel like this, this one, this craft, I'm going to get your, your like, I'm going to get my confidence back and you're going to trust me again.

Speaker 2 19:37

No, I'm proud of you, like, for actually attempting something else you like, for actually attempting something else.

Speaker 1 19:44

Something else, no, but watch, we're like, let's do it again.

Speaker 2 19:46

So I know Noah is obviously a chef.

Speaker 1 19:47

Who your husband is a chef, and so I have all these leftover tiles from other projects and clients. Oh yeah, so we're going to make trivets. Do you know what that is? Yeah, okay, so all we do they're like, aren't?

Speaker 2 19:57

these cute. Wait, a trivet is the thing that goes under the hot thing.

Speaker 1 20:01

Yeah, so if he makes like a really nice, what happens to a trivet? A nice plate and it's like a. Did you just call yourself a top?

Speaker 2 20:09

Nope, okay, I mean, look what I do for a living.

Speaker 1 20:12

No, that's awful. That's awful. So you just get felt pads, because these are concrete.

Speaker 2 20:17

You downgraded us to this. This is not a craft, this is like maintenance.

Speaker 1 20:21

No, Look at here. This is all you do. You just felt pads. They're already like self-adhesive. This is like remedial.

Speaker 2 20:28

This is for like, oh, like you've had some trauma, so let's have something soothing in the craft room on the Lido deck. You don't like this craft. I can't win with you. I would bring this to like inmates and be like okay, we couldn't bring anything sharp, but you could do this for my line. Okay, all right, all right, all right.

Speaker 1 20:47

Look at how cute that is. I'm looking. It's so cute. Come on, you don't think Noah would like this. This is how do you? It's about repurposing old like things that you might have around the house, like tile samples my husband no, I, yeah why.

Speaker 2 21:03

But like also like, why not like? Why go buy something else when you could do this?

Speaker 1 21:06

are you being honest? I'm actually being dead serious.

Speaker 2 21:08

I don't know if you're effing with me no, I think that we waste too much stuff in our society, and getting to repurpose materials that you already have, I think, is a huge step towards sustainability and also to not going broke buying garbage.

Speaker 1 21:20

I can't tell if you're being serious. I need a code word. When you're being serious, what's the code word? I don't know. We just need one.

Speaker 2 21:29

I'm being serious. Okay, I like this. I talk about this kind of stuff on my Instagram, just like not wasting, not buying stuff, and I think that it's easier said than done. Yeah, because we don't, you know, but just so. Is this Eliza approved? Yeah, this is totally Eliza approved. Okay, as the homemaker that we all know I am Famous for. Wait, do you want to take these home? Yep.

Repurposing Tiles into Trivets

Speaker 1 21:46

Okay, all right, want to do that last one I'm dying to, I'm doing it and they're like nice and hardy, yeah, they are.

Speaker 2 21:56

It's a hardy piece of tile you want to use the.

Speaker 1 21:58

You know he's the big one or the little one, doesn't matter, he's the big one, okay, and then I'm going to set up for last craft, last craft. Do you ever do crafts with sierra?

Speaker 2 22:08

she's a little, she's almost three, she's just like it's just, it's just me cleaning up. Yeah, every time I think it's gonna be like a special moment. She's like what if I put it here and they're like, oh, that's, that's a sharpie so, but we will, you know you get sharpie out.

Speaker 1 22:20

No, I actually don't. Hairspray, oh or uh. Rubbing alcohol, oh okay, it never gets on anything on your skin or just like on, like something.

Speaker 2 22:28

Oh, I didn't know that.

Speaker 1 22:29

Yeah, there you go now. I'm glad I came and like crayon. If it gets on the floor a tennis ball, just rub it on the crayon, it comes right. I didn't know that, just call me next time okay all right, look at that.

Speaker 2 22:40

Look how pretty that is. Look at that.

Speaker 1 22:43

I would buy this Look how hardy it is. That's what you're looking for Give it to me. Okay, last one, okay, this one you're going to want to take home.

Speaker 2 22:53

You keep threatening me with like you're going to take this home and you're going to frame it. Come on, come over. I see it.

Speaker 1 22:57

Look at how pretty these scarves are. They look like art, don't they? They look like the trivets. They look like art.

Speaker 1 23:07

But we're going to make them art. Okay, you know what? Next time I'm just going to cook, I'm just going to cook for you. Yeah, I'm ready to see what we're going to do. We're going to make them art. Well, yeah, so we're going to just basically hot glue them in the corners to the frame, the backing. So we're going to just use this backing that came with the frame, okay, and we're just going to hot glue the silk.

Speaker 2 23:32

Have you ever looked at your clothes and thought this would be better behind glass on my wall?

Speaker 1 23:37

But you know, I feel like people. Art is really hard for people and it's expensive. So I'm just trying to come up with really creative ways, like if you have an Hermes scarf, don't you guys have that?

Speaker 2 23:50

I actually do. I made my husband buy me one and I've never worn it.

Speaker 1 23:53

I could not see you. What are you going to do with it? That's exactly right. We should say that, yeah, because I can't see you. I mean, I wouldn't like. We're too young for that.

Speaker 2 24:03

On the Sopranos he bought his wife an Hermes scarf and I was like I want one. And now I have it. It's just in your closet Now. It's going to be on my wall soon, thanks to this, so I flip this over.

Speaker 1 24:14

Yeah, we're going to flip it over, okay, and then I'm just hot gluing.

Speaker 2 24:20

No, that's not right. That's the glass. What, oh oh, this is going to what's happening. Yeah, that's it. No, this is the glass. No, I don't.

Speaker 1 24:30

The family's going to be there. Oh no, I know We'll flip it around. Oh, got it, okay, okay.

Speaker 2 24:44

That's just like a kid poking out the top. Just some like bearded man. Okay, can you come over all the time? Yeah, I can. Now that I know how close we live, I'm here all the time. Maybe our kids can play together. Okay, olivia is a really good babysitter, is that true, olivia?

Speaker 1 24:54

How are you? Where'd she go? She couldn't stand to see me screwing up another craft.

Speaker 2 24:58

She's like I can't see you. Like this Mom, I've never seen a cordless hot glue gun, Isn't it cool? Now I know you're serious about this whole lifestyle. Look at this Now. But people should know. To put the glue on the scarf, I would put the glue on the backing.

Speaker 1 25:13

but that's fine. She's like actually no, do you want to like? Do you like this?

Speaker 2 25:17

I love it. Did I do this right? Yeah, I'm the kind of person who does not check. My work does not spell check, and then everything behind glass has like a crease in it and I'm like, oh well, that's what it looks like. I feel like you have a better eye for those types of polished things.

Speaker 1 25:41

You know, yeah, I got to get it in there.

Speaker 2 25:44

Is there any room in your house?

Speaker 1 25:45

this could go in.

Speaker 2 25:45

Yeah, we have like this room where we can buy old stuff, the shed. It's not so much a room as a baby you.

Speaker 1 25:53

I remember when you were buying that house. That's when you and I met. That is actually how we met.

Speaker 2 25:57

We were on that show together and I was trying to buy this house and I was texting the realtor the number I was willing to pay and he was like this is cute, but you actually have to put in like a real offer with a bank.

Speaker 1 26:08

And I was like, oh, you can't just buy a house via text message and then I told you I wanted you could use all my discounts for furniture.

Speaker 2 26:14

Yes, you were so nice you were so shiny and bubbly.

Speaker 1 26:18

Oh, and Leslie was on that show with us too. What, jordan, I can't. I know Mine was hard too here. Let me turn around for the review.

Speaker 2 26:25

You don't have a hack for this.

Framing Scarves as Art

Speaker 1 26:26

Here Switch. I'll do yours. You just close up the little latches I did. Oh wait, you did. What happened? No, you got to.

Speaker 2 26:43

Oh, it didn't go in the. Okay, let's see. Look at the toned arms. She's doing it so hard. She's got, like Linda Hamilton, arms in like Terminator, like when you're holding on to that chain link fence. She was like get the arm work, do the full extension. That's how you get long, that's how you get length and your tricep.

Speaker 1 26:55

Oh my God, okay, there, there it's in, it's in. Can I have mine back? Yeah, go. Okay. You ready for the big reveal? Uh-huh, okay, I'll show you. You show me yours, I'll show you mine, okay.

Speaker 2 27:10

What do you think? That looks great, and you know what I was.

Speaker 1 27:14

Especially if you you know what Next time we should iron them.

Speaker 2 27:19

We should have ironed it, but you know, but that's okay, I think you went somewhere, you got something, I think, framing it as like a memory of like, the time I went to the oh, mine's not even in the middle. I went to this Urban Outfitters and I got this scarf Yours isn't enough.

Speaker 1 27:32

I do like that point If it like oh my God Does.

Speaker 2 27:37

Maybe you were having an imperfect trip when you bought this scarf from a mercantile and so you framed it your way. No one's going to come into your home and tell you that that looks bad. Yes, they will, yeah you met my mother.

Speaker 1 27:50

You know what Yours looks better. I'm really proud of you and look it matches your outfit. Yeah, Do you want to actually take it out and wear it With the glue on it?

Speaker 2 27:58

And just glue it on. That way, your scarf never flies off. You should just give insane tips like that Drink lead-based paint. That way, you always have a reason to visit a cute doctor. I love you so much. I love you. This is. It's very cute and this could be anything Like. It doesn't have to be a scarf, it could be any like memento.

Speaker 1 28:19

Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're picking up what I'm putting down.

Speaker 2 28:22

I totally. I mean you'd have to be an idiot not to get the concept. I don't think anyone at home is like I don't know what we're going to. I don't get it. It's too. It's too liberal, it's too California.

Speaker 1 28:35

Yours looks great.

Speaker 2 28:36

You take that home.

Speaker 1 28:37

You're not going to wear something. Look at infinite dreamer. Good vibes.

Speaker 2 28:42

Think of all the things that you maybe purchased that were keepsakes. Like I have a lot of t-shirts that I buy in places and I can't wear all of them, but a way to like memorialize things that you don't have an actual use for and to decorate your home with things that you've done and accomplished. There you go, when you were like a little tipsy but you were like this will be cute. Do you want to co-host?

Speaker 1 29:00

the show with me.

Speaker 2 29:05

Every episode. Yeah, you make me look good.

Speaker 1 29:06

That's one thing I love, because these crafts, I love crafts. You know, I think at the end of the day, it's not about the craft, it's about spending time with the people that you love. That's true. Yeah, and that's it. Now you can take these home. Okay, you guys said that we were going to have lunch. No, we don't have time for lunch. I do have pancakes, though. Do you want a?

Speaker 2 29:22

pancake For my husband's segment from three hours ago. They're cold but they're delicious. Watch the Sabrina Soto show every day.

Speaker 1 29:31

Thank you so much, Eliza. This is so fun. It was so fun Okay.

Speaker 2 29:35

I'll see you soon.

Speaker 1 29:36

Okay, Bye, Sabrina Wait you forgot your arms, it's okay.