The Queen of Pep Talks
Hosted by mindset coach, motivational speaker and lifestyle influencer, Jessica Battle; "The Queen of Pep Talks" is a podcast for women who are ready to lose their bullsh*t excuses and start showing up in their lives to the best of their ability. Each week Jessica will bring you a series of pep talks, value packed episodes and beautiful conversations with clients and guests. Through Jessica's practical advice, she helps women improve their mindsets so they can become happier, healthier and more successful than ever before. This show is a must listen for the woman who is ready to get out of her own way and step outside of her comfort zone into the greatness she's meant for. XO
The Queen of Pep Talks
(#475) You Teach People How to Treat You.
In this episode of The Queen of Pep Talks, Jessica Battle breaks down one of the most important principles in self-worth and relationships: you teach people how to treat you. She explores how the standards you hold, the boundaries you honor, and the consistency you show yourself become the blueprint for how others show up in your life.
Jessica dives into the difference between expectations and standards, why early effort in relationships means nothing without consistency, and how self-betrayal often leads to resentment, disappointment, and feeling unseen. She shares the patterns women fall into—overgiving, people-pleasing, ignoring red flags, or hoping someone will “change”—and teaches listeners how to reclaim their power by embodying the treatment they want to receive.
With her signature tough love and compassion, Jessica guides listeners through building sustainable self-standards, communicating needs confidently, and choosing relationships that reflect their worth. This episode is perfect for women ready to deepen self-respect, strengthen relationship dynamics, and finally stop accepting the bare minimum.
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