Not Your Strong Black Woman
Here we welcome softness, tears, vulnerability, weakness, authenticity, peace, love, and joy.
Not Your Strong Black Woman
Latest Episodes
3 Easy Ways to Believe in Yourself
Do you struggle to believe in yourself?In Part 3 of the Lock In series, we’re talking about self-reliance and why believing in yourself matters more than you think. If you’ve ever told yourself “I can’t do this,” “I’m not disciplined,” t...
How to Build Discipline Without Motivation
Self-discipline is not about punishing yourself.It’s about learning yourself.In Part 2 of the Lock In series, Nassimbwa Ruffin shares the truth about self-discipline nobody talks about. In this episode, we discuss:...
Part 1: 3 Easy Ways to Stop Living on Autopilot
Are you ready to finally stop living on autopilot?In this episode, I’m sharing the first step of my SELF Framework to show you how to lock in and take control of your future. This is self-improvement that actually works because it starts...
4 Easy Ways to Prevent Burnout (REST)
In today’s episode, we’re talking about something many women desperately need but rarely feel allowed to do… restAfter hearing another Mother’s Day message about “being strong,” I started thinking:Why don’t we talk about rest too?
3 Easy Ways to Stop Fighting Your Feelings
Have you ever felt like you were "doing it wrong" because you couldn't just choose to be happy? I’m sharing the one secret to finding peace that nobody talks about: how to embrace the paradox of feeling two things at once.In this video,...