You Have the Power - The Road to Truth, Freedom and Real Connection
What if the life you were taught to want isn't the life you actually want?
For most of our lives, women are handed a script: Find the right man. Build a life together. Get married. And if you're single? Keep looking.
But what happens when you stop looking?
Hosted by Darla Ridilla, You Have the Power is an unapologetic exploration of permanent singlehood, women's voices, freedom, connection, and what becomes possible when a woman stops building her life around whether a man shows up.
After three marriages, an abusive relationship, years of healing, and trying to date differently, Darla finally asked the question that blew the whole damn thing open:
Why am I dating at all?
Her answer was to choose permanent singlehood - on purpose.
This podcast explores what comes after that choice: the freedom, the grief, the conditioning, the friendships, the solitude, the creativity, the adventure, and the real connection that becomes possible when partnership is no longer the destination.
This isn't about convincing women to stop dating or get divorced.
It's about questioning the hell out of the rules we were handed.
Who told you marriage was the goal?
Who told you being single meant something was missing?
Who told you a woman needed romantic partnership to have intimacy, connection, security, or a full life?
And most importantly:
What do YOU actually want?
Because being single isn't a waiting room.
Your life is happening now.
And it already belongs to you.
You Have the Power - The Road to Truth, Freedom and Real Connection
Latest Episodes
111: Red Pill Men Are Giving Women Another Reason to Stay Single
Red pill men have a lot to say about what women should want, how women should behave, and what will happen to us if we refuse to play along.But there's something they don't seem to understand.The harder you try to control a woman,...
110: What If Marriage Is the Lie We Were Sold?
What if marriage isn't the prize?What if some of what we've been taught about love, commitment, family, and what makes a woman's life complete deserves to be questioned?I know. I went there.After spending most of my life be...
109: What Happens When a Woman Finally Stops Looking?
What happens when a woman stops looking for a man?Not because she’s taking a break from dating.Not because she needs time to work on herself.And not because she’s secretly hoping the right man will show up the moment she st...
108: I Quit Dating - and I’ve Never Felt More Free
What if giving up on dating isn’t giving up at all?For almost two years, I stayed open. I met men online and in person. I was specific about what I wanted. I worked on myself, held my standards, vetted men, and continued building ...
107: We’re Not Giving Up on Men - We’re Done Abandoning Ourselves
What if women aren’t giving up on love? What if we’re finally giving up on abandoning ourselves to have it?For years, I made decisions around one question: Will he choose me?I gave up things I loved. I made my life smaller....
