That Makeup Gal
It’s me, That Makeup Gal!
A business girlie who tripped over all the “shoulds,” tore up the script, and started fresh in her 30s after life took some very unexpected turns.
Grief shook everything I thought I knew. My perspective, my priorities, and the way I moved through the world. This podcast is about the growth that came from those hard lessons and the chaos of navigating some very unfamiliar paths.
After over 15 years in the makeup industry, I’ve seen the highs of running a creative business and the lows of when it all feels like it’s falling apart.
Deep lessons, fun chats with other business owners, and stories that hit home.
Never polished, always real, and that’s what makes it relatable.
Whether you’re here for beauty, business, or just a good story, grab a coffee (or a marg), and let’s rip in!
LUVYA!
Stevi x
Episodes
27 episodes
#27 - Childfree, Not Carefree
In this episode, we speak openly about being childfree in your late 30s, the grief that can sit beside freedom, and the strange ache of realising life didn’t unfold the way you thought it would.This is not an episode about regret, and i...
#26 - When everything changes (including you)…what now?
For episode 26, I sat down after a conversation and a bit of a spiral, to be honest, and just hit record. I didn’t have a structure, or a clear point, I just had a lot of thoughts that felt like they needed somewhere to go.Thi...
#25 - Are you actually ready to be dating?
Well folks, this one came out of nowhere!I sat down to record something completely different and ended up talking about something I have spent a lot of time thinking about recently…which is that a lot of people are da...
#24 - The Refinement Era
Episode 24 starts as an ad-lib yap and turns into a deep dive into communication, grief, refinement and the uncomfortable shift from survival mode into actually showing up again.After spending much of 2025 in a quiet season of...
#23 - Unbecoming to Become (again and again and again...)
This one goes straight into the reality of what happens when life shifts under your feet.The losses, the identity shifts, the grief that hits in waves, and the way you rebuild when you don’t recognise yourself anymore.I...
#22 - Love bombing or obsessive cycle? The truth about modern dating patterns
We talk about love bombing like it’s something that just happens to us. But what if it’s not that simple? In this episode, I’m unpacking why I believe “love bombing” isn’t as simple as one manipulator and one victim, it’s often two ...
#21 - Anchors for the days that try to take you under
This isn’t a list of clichés or Pinterest quotes.It’s the real, messy, practical stuff that got me through some of my darkest times. In this episode, I share the points I jotted down, the reminders, habits, and mindset shifts that helped...
#20 - Soft Hearts, Strong Boundaries
In this solo episode, I’m unpacking something I think most of us feel but rarely admit out loud.The weird unwritten rule book of connection in 2025.What it means to try to build something honest with people in a time where everyth...
#19 - Standing in your MF'n power!
This one’s for the moments when you feel like you’re crumbling under self-doubt, when you’re second-guessing, people-pleasing, or trying to soften your edges to be more palatable.In this episode, I unpack what it really looks like to sta...
#18 - The heart can’t read the fine print…
We’ve created a culture where every feeling is expected to fit into a tidy label, every connection into a clearly defined category, and every emotional response into a neat little box. But real life? It rarely works like that....
#17 - Remember who the f**k you are (and why their story isn’t yours)
What happens when you stop making their experience the main storyline and instead make it about yours?This episode isn’t about a guy, it’s about what happened when I finally started taking my own advice.It’s about showi...
#16 - It’s dating, it’s not that deep (the triggers might be though)
In this episode, I talk about what happens when dating bumps up against abandonment wounds, unresolved grief, and your need to feel chosen.But don’t worry, it’s not all heavy. I also get into the difference between love and li...
#15 - If I hurt me first, you can’t: A conversation on Emotional Self-Sabotage
Ever feel like you’re dating with one hand on your heart and the other on the eject button? Same. In this episode, I’m talking sabotage, specifically, how I’ve masterfully self-destructed potential relationships before they had a ch...
#14 - Dating as a growth tool (no, seriously)
Look. Digital dating is weird. We all hate it a little. But what if it could actually be… useful?Stay with me.In this episode, I’m talking about how to actually get something out of the talking stage (yes, even when it fizzles), a...
#13 - When healing feels like hell (but you’re still doing it)
Bit of grief, bit of heartache, bit of stress… basically, a classic Tuesday.This episode gets real about the things we don’t post with an aesthetic filter. The parts of ADHD, anxiety, heartbreak, and burnout that aren’t cute, “relatable,...
#12 - The myth of perfection and the power in saying 'no'
In this episode we’re tearing up the imaginary rulebook on “perfect” because spoiler alert perfection doesn’t exist. It’s just another way we keep ourselves small and silent.We talk about how our obsession with being flawless ...
#11 - Accountability, identity, and moving forward
This one’s all about accountability—why it matters, why it’s uncomfortable, and why it’s the only way forward. I share some personal stories and touch on something I think a lot of people will relate to: the identity crisis that can...
#10 - Let them (by letting yourself first)
Double digits! Episode 10 is here, and this one took me by surprise. I’m talking about the “Let Them” theory. The idea sounds great in theory—just let people do what they want, and don’t take it personally. But is it real...
#9 - Change, storytelling, and taking the leap
Quick heads-up—this episode sounds a little different because my usual recording setup glitched, so I had to use a backup mic. Bear with me, though, because there’s some good stuff in here. Hopefully, I’ll be back to normal next recording! ...
#8 - Battles, breakthroughs, and the beauty in chance encounters
This episode gets heavy, but it’s a conversation worth having. I share one of my darkest moments and the profound realisation that followed: the weight of life isn’t always as crushing as it feels in the moment. If we can hold on and make it th...
#7 - Acceptance vs Forgiveness: finding peace before the next chapter
A multi topic episode linking back to the overarching topic of acceptance vs forgiveness. Grief can steal time, leaving relationships and moments unattended. In this episode of That Makeup Gal, I reflect on reconnecting with ot...
#6 - Setting boundaries in business to make way for change
In this episode, I dive into the tough reality of making changes within a small business when life itself is already turbulent. From overcoming the fear of change to facing the courage it takes to set boundaries, I share my own journey of growt...
#5 - Embracing solitude and prioritising healing in your 30s
Another deep dive into why choosing to stay single in your 30s is more than okay—it’s often an essential step on the path to self-understanding and healing. Reflecting on the influences of growing up in the 90s and the generational baggage many...
#4 - Unlearning hyper-independence: finding strength in vulnerability
In this episode, we’re diving into the often overlooked journey of unlearning hyper-independence. For anyone who’s been fiercely self-reliant, you know that finding comfort in vulnerability isn’t just hard—it can feel like breaking down walls y...
#3 - Growing up, facing fear, and moving forward
I dive into the tension between fear and growth—especially as we navigate adulthood and all the pressure that comes with it. We’re constantly told to stay youthful and fight against aging, as if growing up means losing something es...