Women Cheat Too
Women Cheat Too is the podcast for women who’ve betrayed their partner, broken trust, and now find themselves lost in guilt, shame, regret, or total emotional confusion.
Created and hosted by Judith Nisenson, certified betrayal trauma coach and founder of WomensWRK, this show speaks directly to the women no one talks about. The ones who crossed a line. The ones who never thought they’d be that woman. The ones who are now asking, “What have I done? Can I fix this? Who am I now?”
This podcast is a space for hard truth and deep self-exploration, not excuses or shallow advice. With a blend of therapeutic insight and compassionate challenge, Judith helps women uncover what really led to the betrayal, understand the wreckage it caused, and begin rebuilding a relationship with themselves that’s rooted in integrity and emotional growth.
Whether the betrayal was emotional or physical, whether your partner knows or not, whether you're still in the relationship or everything has already fallen apart, Women Cheat Too offers a path through the aftermath. One built on honesty, accountability, and the belief that your worst moment doesn’t have to be the end of your story.
Subscribe now. Step into the work. Because facing the truth is the first step toward becoming the woman you want to be. For more information visit: WomensWrk.com
Episodes
59 episodes
Ep: 55 – I Want to Be Trusted Again, Am I Trustworthy Yet?
One of the most important questions a woman can ask herself after betrayal is not whether her partner trusts her yet, but whether she is becoming trustworthy. While those two ideas are connected, they are not the same. Trust belongs to your par...
Ep: 54 – Learning to Be Emotionally Safe to Your Partner
After betrayal, many women focus on honesty, transparency, and rebuilding trust. While those things are essential, there is another layer of healing that often determines whether a relationship can truly move forward: emotional safety.In...
Ep: 53 – The Long Haul: Why Healing Takes Time
One of the most frustrating parts of betrayal recovery is feeling like you're doing everything right and still wondering why the healing process feels so slow. Months pass. Sometimes years pass. Yet difficult conversations, triggers, grief, and...
Ep: 52 – Reclaiming Integrity After Breaking It
One of the most painful consequences of betrayal is realizing that trust was not only damaged in the relationship, it was damaged within yourself. Many women discover that after betrayal, they are no longer questioning only the relationship. Th...
Ep: 51 – Who Am I Now That I’ve Betrayed?
For many women, the deepest pain after betrayal is not only the damage done to the relationship. It is the painful question that follows: Who am I now? When your choices no longer align with the image you carried of yourself, it can fe...
Ep: 50 – Letting Go of the Need to Be Understood
After betrayal, many women desperately want their partner to understand the emotional pain, loneliness, resentment, or disconnection that existed before the betrayal happened. That desire is deeply human. But in the aftermath of betrayal, the n...
Ep. 49 – From Victimhood to Ownership
Many women who betray their partner are carrying real pain long before the betrayal ever happens. Emotional neglect, loneliness, resentment, abandonment, trauma, and disconnection are all part of many betrayal stories. But there is a difference...
Ep. 48 – When You Can’t Stop Blaming Them for Your Betrayal
Blaming your partner after betrayal can feel emotionally relieving at first because it creates distance between your pain and your choices. But over time, blame becomes one of the biggest barriers to accountability and healing.In this ep...
Ep. 47 - Unlearning the Narrative That It Was All Their Fault
After betrayal, it is easy to organize the entire relationship story around what your partner did wrong. Every unmet need, every argument, every moment of disconnection can begin feeling like emotional proof that the betrayal makes sense.
Ep: 46 – How Denial Protects and Destroys at the Same Time
Denial is one of the most powerful psychological defenses after betrayal because it protects you from emotional collapse while also keeping real healing out of reach.In this episode of Women Cheat Too, Judith Nisenson explores h...
Ep: 45 – “It Wasn’t That Serious”… Until It Was
“It wasn’t that serious” is a phrase many women say when reflecting on how a betrayal started. And in the beginning, it may have felt true.In this episode of Women Cheat Too, Judith Nisenson explores the gap between how somethin...
Ep. 44 – The Subtle Ways We Justify and Minimize Our Past Actions and Choices
Justification and minimization are natural responses when something doesn’t align with how we see ourselves. But after betrayal, these patterns quietly block real healing.In this episode of Women Cheat Too, Judith Nisenson break...
Ep: 43 – How I Gaslit My Partner Without Realizing It
Gaslighting is often misunderstood as something intentional or extreme. But in the context of betrayal, it frequently shows up in subtle, reactive ways that many people do not recognize until later.In this episode of Women Cheat Too<...
Ep: S4 – Allowing Her to Heal
In this episode of Women Cheat Too, Judith explores the difference between accountability and punishment, and why many betrayed partners find themselves caught between wanting healing and wanting the person who hurt them to continue ca...
Ep: S3 – The Sheater: Why You Felt Like Two Different People
One of the most common things women say after betrayal is, “I felt like two different people.” And while that statement is often misunderstood, there is a very real psychological structure underneath it.In this episode of Women Cheat...
Ep: S2– The Sheater: Why You Needed to Feel Chosen
For many women, betrayal is not only about attraction or connection. It is about what happens internally when someone makes you feel seen, desired, important, or emotionally chosen in a way that feels intensely alive.In this episode of <...
Ep: S1– The Sheater: When You Don’t Know Who You Are Without a Role
Many women who betray their partner are not simply chasing excitement, attention, or escape. Underneath the behavior is often something much deeper, a fractured relationship with identity itself.In this episode of Women Cheat Too
Ep: 42 – Owning the Full Story, Not Just the Parts That Feel Safe
After betrayal, many people tell a version of the story that feels manageable, but not complete. And even when it sounds honest, your partner can often feel that something is missing.In this episode of Women Cheat Too, Judith Ni...
Ep: 41 – I Wasn’t Happy Either, But That’s Not the Point
Feeling unhappy in your relationship before betrayal is real. It matters. But it is not the starting point for healing.In this episode of Women Cheat Too, Judith Nisenson breaks down why bringing up your unhappiness too early in...
Ep. 40 – Why Apologies Alone Aren’t Enough
Many women believe that a sincere apology should begin to repair the damage after betrayal. You say you’re sorry, you mean it deeply, and yet your partner still feels angry, hurt, or distant.That disconnect can be confusing and discourag...
Ep. 39 – Helping Them Heal Without Losing Yourself
After betrayal, many women feel like their entire identity becomes centered around repairing the damage they caused. Every conversation revolves around the relationship, the pain, and the rebuilding process. Over time, that pressure can leave y...
Ep. 38 – When Your Partner Needs Space but You Want Closeness
One of the most painful dynamics after betrayal happens when your partner asks for space at the exact moment you feel desperate for connection.You want to talk. You want to repair. You want to hold them, reassure them, and prove that the...
Ep. 37 – Staying Present When Your Partner Is Triggered or Pulling Away
After betrayal, emotional triggers can appear without warning. A song, a memory, a quiet moment, or a simple question can suddenly bring your partner back to the pain of what happened. When those moments hit, many partners who caused the betray...
Ep. 36: Rebuilding Trust When You're the One Who Broke It
Rebuilding trust after betrayal is one of the most difficult challenges a relationship can face. When you’re the one who broke that trust, the path forward can feel uncertain, overwhelming, and painfully slow.In this episode of Women...
Ep. 35: Can This Relationship Be Saved?
After betrayal, one question rises above the rest: can this relationship survive? In this episode, Judith speaks honestly about what reconciliation really requires and why not all relationships recover. She walks through the pillars of rebuildi...