Cafecito and Chaos
Hey Amiguis, welcome to —Cafecito and Chaos the podcast for every oldest daughter and oldest son who somehow became the family’s unpaid assistant, emergency contact, translator, parent, and full-time crisis manager.
Cafecito and Chaos
Latest Episodes
Mas allá de la Tradición
What does it mean to choose love — and family — at the same time?In this powerful episode, Dina and Monica share their journey as a Mexican American lesbian couple who have been together for nearly 14 years. Their story is layered with c...
One Last Cafecito with a Side of Chaos…FOR NOW!
This one feels different… because it is.For our season finale, we sat down and really talked about what this journey has meant to us—what we’ve learned, how we’ve grown, and all the moments we didn’t see coming. What started as an idea t...
Love Without Borders
In this episode of Cafecito and Chaos, we sit down with Tori and Vero—a Black man and a Mexican American woman—to talk about what it really means to build a relationship across cultures.Their story goes beyond love at first sight. It’s a...
Part 2 And Now a Word from Our Spouses: The Middle Child Finally Speaks
They told us about their childhood… now it’s time to talk about marriage.In Part 2, our spouses open up about what it’s really like being married to two first-gen eldest children. From responsibility and control to communication and fami...
Part 1: And Now a Word from Our Spouses: The Middle Child Finally Speaks
In this episode, we’re passing the mic to our spouses — two first-gen middle children who are finally telling their side of the story.Part 1 is all about their upbringing. We dive into what it was like growing up in first-gen households,...