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Off Mute: The Podcast is Dr. Dee and Oscar—a Black couple navigating love after 40, faith without the filter, and everything in between. From dating and purity culture to trending topics and matters of the heart, these two bring real conversations from their living room to your earbuds. No scripts. No sugarcoating. Just honest talk about relationships, God, and the stuff nobody else is saying out loud.
New episodes drop every other Sunday.
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Episodes
5 episodes
Let's Talk About Sex
Let's talk about sex. Or more specifically—why we're waiting.Dr. Dee and Oscar are both over 40. Both have been married. Both have had children. And both have made the decision to wait until marriage—again.In this episode, they break do...
The State of Black Dating in 2026
What does success really look like in the dating pool — and who gets to define it?In Episode 4, Dr. Dee and Oscar unpack the trending conversation about dating Black men in 2026. From the hidden economy behind dating successful people to...
Called to Preach But CHAOTIC at Home?!
This week Dr. Dee and Oscar are pulling back the curtain. We're unpacking a viral reel that exposed what too many people are living but nobody wants to say out loud: How can you be called to preach and still be completely chaotic at home? Why i...
Praying With Bae is Wrong? Let's Talk About It
In this episode, they break down why spiritual maturity and alignment matter before marriage, and why praying together might be one of the most revealing things you can do while dating. Is it too intimate? Does it create a false connection? Or ...
