Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler
Episodes
156 episodes
Nobody Wins When the Family Feuds
When relationship conflict plays out like a war, nobody wins — because defeating your partner is sabotaging yourself. You can’t win with someone you’re against. Your partner/spouse is your teammate, not your opponent!In this episode of <...
Sinking Relation-ships: 4 Drains and How to Plug Them
Culture sells the idea that intimacy is easy and connection is effortless — at least if they’re the ‘right one’ for you. The truth is, every relationship creates friction. Two distinct people coming together to share life is no easy feat.
Fantasy Sells: The "Prosperity Gospel" of Relationships vs. Principles for Quality Connection
Why the idea of an "easy" partner is a trap—and what it actually takes to build a relationship that lasts.In this episode, Taylor Chandler LMFT breaks down the illusion of effortless love and shares three foundational principles for co-c...
The Inescapable Truth of Relationships: 3 Ways to Shift a Downward Spiral
Most people handle conflict in ways that breaks the relationship down instead of building it up -- and that's why they stay stuck.In this episode, Taylor Chandler LMFT shares 3 focus points that will change the trajectory of your relati...
Love is Blind Pre-Reunion Breakdown (Season 10)
My Love is Blind Season 10 Pre-Reunion Breakdown.Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/Reattach Course: https://payhip.com/b/rdBRF00:00:57 Alex00:03:23 ...
The Disempowered Man - Entitled Woman Dynamic (this is what Kevin Samuels exposed)
The Disempowered-Man and Entitled-Woman dynamic is a problematic pair, where the man sinks into a powerless role and the woman takes over. The masculine frame has broken down. The woman tries to become the man she wanted from the beginnin...
The Overfunctioner-Underperformer Dynamic: Doing Too Much and Feeling Like You're Not Enough
This is about the Overfunctioner-Underperformer Dynamic, where one partner consistently carries the majority of the load, while the other partner fails to show up in a way that truly progresses and deepens the relationship.We’re not blam...
The Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic 2026 (Short and Sweet)
You know I love talking about Attachment! This is a major key to unlocking yourself and your relationships. Mastering my Attachment Style was a big part of my journey. I’m grateful for all I learned and how much it helped me.For a few ye...
2026 Foresights about Dating and Relationships: Critical thinking, sharper discernment, and a return to courtship
Hey y’all, I’m giving my foresights on what I think we’re going to see this year of 2026 in the dating and relationship lane. Just my thoughts! I’ll give a brief overview in the beginning of what we’ve seen in recent past.Check out the t...
Renewal of the Mind Pt. 3: Mindset
The final part of the Renewal of the Mind Series — Mindset. I’m talking about 5 core aspects of Mindset in a way that makes it easy to understand and take action on. The more positive core aspects you have, the higher quality of life you will h...
Renewal of the Mind Pt. 2: Mind Control
Part 2 of the Renewal of the Mind Series — Mind Control. I’m expanding on this principle: the quality of your thoughts directly affects the quality of your life. Mind control is a skill that is more important now than ever (if you don’t do it, ...
Renewal of the Mind Pt. 1: Identity
This is for people who are determined to separate from the noise and shift to a higher level. In this episode, I’m talking about Identity, the foundation of a Renewed Mind. As we grow, we have to keep upgrading our system — and the internal sys...
Dating in a New Season (Intentional Dating)
If you’re a man or woman intentionally dating or want to start dating that way, this one is for you. Rather than focusing on how rough it is out there, let’s talk about what you can do to make it a whole lot better. I’m also sharing a bit about...
It's a New Season (and I need to talk about Jesus, again)
I have a major update for you. I know this isn't going to fly with some people, and I've wrestled with this myself, but I know what I need to do. I'm ready to share it with you.In this video, I'm talking about:1. The answer to your ...
High Effort, Low Return: When you’re doing the work for two
I illustrate the over-functioner/under-performer dynamic. These are high-effort people who get low returns in their relationships. The markers of the dynamic are clearly laid out as well as the consequences of allowing this problem to persist. ...
Cardi B & Offset: What They Teach Us About Cheating & Modern Relationships
I’m not here to talk celebrity gossip — I’m here to talk principles.In this episode, I use Cardi B and Offset as a case study for real-life relationship patterns: cheating, accountability, influence, and responsibility. Their story reveals ...
How the Perception–Reality Gap Destroys Connection (and More on the SER Framework)
I’m sharing one of the most important models in self and relational development — the Perception–Reality Model — and connecting it back to the SER Framework.The P-R concept is a simple, powerful, and a major key to understanding why con...
4 Things Every Woman Needs to Get Right
In this episode, I’m breaking down four key areas every woman needs to get right — fitness, friendships, media, and attitude.These aren’t random tips — they’re about how you show up in your life, your relationships, and your commu...
8 Models to Evaluate Yourself and Relationships
In this episode I walk through 8 practical models I use as a licensed marriage and family therapist and personal development coach. These frameworks are designed to help you evaluate yourself and your relationships, make better decisions, and g...
The Cost of Delay: A Case for Preventative Maintenance
The longer you wait to address problems in your relationship, the higher the cost to solve them. Just like ignoring the “check engine” light on your car, avoiding issues in your marriage or dating life only leads to bigger breakdowns later....
My Partner Needs HELP (High SER in relationship with Low SER)
Are you growing as a person but feeling like you’re growing apart from your partner? In this video, I break down the High-Low Dynamic—what happens when someone with high self-esteem, high energy, and high responsibility (High SER) pairs with so...
A Vital Conversation about Responsibility & Accountability
Responsibility is the “R” in my SER framework — and it’s one of the keys to a better life and higher attraction. In this video, I break down the gigantic miscommunication showing up in almost every couple, tell you the crucial difference betwee...
Shift These 3 Things for Higher Energy
Higher quality relationships start with your energy. Simple shifts improve your life and attract the RIGHT people. In this episode, I give you 3 Markers & 3 Pathways to Higher Energy. 08:28 The invisible th...
Not enough good matches: The link between self-esteem and bad dating experiences
The majority of people who want relationships say there aren't enough good people to date and marry. I agree. In this episode I talk about what to do about it.02:00 Scarcity of attractive matches in the dating market06:55 Biol...