Becoming Wilkinson
When I started this podcast, I thought it would be the story of my journey from married man with three sons, involved in ministry in the NW, to my current life as a gay man in Palm Springs, CA. I'd weave in interesting interviews with amazing people whom I've met along the way. But as the podcast has evolved, I realized that interacting and hearing other people's stories has changed me. The Universe always sends me just the right person at just the right time to guide me along my own journey of "Becoming". Join me as I have conversations with these fascinating people and share this journey with you.
Episodes
180 episodes
Why are Blake Allwood's MALE TO MALE ROMANCE NOVELS so popular with so many FEMALE readers?
Chapters00:00Introduction and Background01:29Coming Out Journey03:50First Experiences and Relationships07:55Finding Love and Long-Term Partnership11:46Becoming an Author14:43Writing Themes and Aud...
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Episode 178
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24:35
Brad Ward: From Trauma to Triumph to Joy via Mindfulness, Presence and Authenticity!
Chapters00:00Introduction and Background02:39Coming Out Journey04:44Navigating Family Dynamics06:59Spiritual Awakening and Identity09:32Career Transitions and Purpose14:33...
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Episode 177
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41:15
SAMUEL MOFFATT: His early life in a Southern Baptist family, surviving conversion therapy and transitioning to acting on stage.
Chapters:00:00Introduction and Background01:12Theater Experience and Personal Growth01:55Coming Out Journey07:07Family Dynamics and Relationships07:45Boy Scouts and Early Trauma12:37Path to Acting...
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Episode 176
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32:06
Matt Moran: The need for meaningful connections in the gay community led him to create The Gay Men's Collective.
Chapters00:00Introduction and Background03:02Life in California vs. Nashville05:59Growing Up in Minnesota08:51Coming to Terms with Sexuality11:45Experiences with Conversion Therapy
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Episode 175
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56:00
A journey of self-discovery, coming out and navigating love and loss within the gay community, with author John Giarelli.
CHAPTERS:00:00Introduction and Setting the Scene03:03John's Journey of Self-Discovery06:07College Life and Relationships08:55Love and Loss: The Story of Ted12:11Reflections on Coming Out14:58Life ...
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Episode 174
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40:10
John Smid: Multiple marriages to women and decades in the "Ex-gay" movement didn't change a thing. He's gay!
Chapters00:00Introduction and Community Life03:03John's Early Life and Struggles05:54Coming Out and Embracing Identity08:58The Journey into Ex-Gay Ministry11:48Family Dynamics and Healing15:01The ...
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Episode 173
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53:20
Playwright Steven Druckman: on love, acceptance & the complexities of navigating life as an artist in today's world.
Chapters00:00Introduction and Connection02:26Real Estate Dreams and Retirement Plans04:48Adoption Story and Family Background07:27Understanding Sexuality and Identity09:54Coming Out and Family Dynamics
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Episode 172
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44:34
"Authenticity and sexual expression VS the impact of shame and repression" with Patrick Prohaska.
Chapters00:00Introduction and Personal Journey04:45Spirituality and Consciousness Expansion09:14The Shift from 3D to 5D Thinking13:45Authenticity and Sexual Expression17:47The Impact of Shame and Repressi...
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Episode 71
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43:23
Author David Wichman discusses his new book "The Four Rooms" which explores the intersections of shame, desire and self-acceptance with fearless vulnerability.
In this engaging conversation, David Wichman discusses his latest book, "The Four Rooms", which explores themes of sexual freedom and wellbeing, particularly for queer men. The discussion delves into the concept of the 'Four Rooms,' a framework...
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Episode 170
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53:46
Matt Nightingale shares his journey of self-discovery as a gay man raised as a fundamentalist Christian.
Chapters00:00Introduction and Background of Matt Nightingale02:05Understanding Identity and Early Realizations05:57Marriage and the Struggle with Sexual Orientation10:00Coming Out and the Journey of Acceptance
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Episode 169
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38:14
The Life and Loves of John Gordon...
In this conversation, John Gordon shares his life experiences, including his journey of self-discovery as a gay man, his relationships, and the challenges he faced with fear and personal growth. He reflects on his past relationships, the impact...
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Episode 168
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30:46
Dale Allen-Rowse: Not your average shaman!
In this engaging conversation, Dale Allen Rowse shares his multifaceted journey from a successful ballet dancer to a real estate trainer and author. He discusses his struggles with a debilitating neurological disorder, his healing journ...
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Episode 167
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48:32
Steve Balderson: Successfully Directing 20 Films Away From the Mainstream and Doing it His Way!
Filmmaker Steve Balderson discusses his diverse filmography, the challenges of blending genres, and the complexities of distribution and marketing in the film industry. He reflects on the provocative nature of his work, particularly in 'Watch O...
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Episode 166
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1:06:50
JEROME COURSHON: Getting independent film into the marketplace via an ethical means.
JEROME COURSHONIn this week's episode of the Becoming Wilkinson podcast, my guest is Jerome Courshon. I met him a few weeks ago when Steve Balderson's film "Sex Love Venice" was distributed and shown at the Palm S...
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Episode 166
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42:26
Filmmaker and author Steve Balderson: "Find something to love in every person you meet".
In this engaging conversation, Wilkinson and Steve Balderson explore themes of personal growth, sexuality, and the journey of becoming a filmmaker. Steve shares his unique upbringing in Kansas, his awakening to his identity, and the pivotal exp...
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Episode 165
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45:59
Coming out as gay to his macho Marine dad, performing in adult films & finding a home on stage.
In this engaging conversation, Ronny Borrelli shares his personal journey of coming out, navigating life as a gay man in various environments, and his experiences in the adult film industry. He discusses the challenges he faced growing up in La...
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Episode 164
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41:04
Disconnecting from the chaos in order to reconnect with ourselves through nature.
A short message recorded in Joshua Tree National Park, CA on February 2, 2025.
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Episode 163
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1:43
After two months missing in action on the podcast, Wilkinson explains what's been going on and he looks ahead to 2025!
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Episode 162
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11:41
The adventures of James Jardine. From Banker to Online Content Creator!
In this engaging conversation, James Jardine shares his transformative journey from a corporate banking career in Southern California to embarking on adventurous road trips and working on a fishing boat in Alaska. He discusses the challenges an...
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Episode 161
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39:09
Jonathan Brett: The Adventures of a gay high school theatre teacher.
Jonathan Brett is a Performer, Director, and Teacher (Credentialed in English/Theatre with a Master’s Degree in Social Emotional Learning). He is a proud member of Sag Aftra. Some of his favorite theatrical ...
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Episode 160
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34:23
Randy Brenner: From child performer to successful Director & Actor (And raising awareness & funds for AIDS through innovative theater productions)!
RANDY BRENNERIn this engaging conversation, Randy Brenner shares his journey from a child performer in Philadelphia to a successful actor and director in theater and television. He discusses the challenges and joys of performing,...
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Episode 159
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36:23
Filmmaker/Executive Dr. Robert Philipson on the intersectionality of Race, Music, & Sexuality. Plus he discusses his beautiful new film THE KNOWING about interracial relationships and AIDS.
Dr. Robert PhilipsonFilmmaker/ExecutivePhilipson is a former academic professor of African-American studies with a passion for Jazz & African art. A published author and Harlem Renaissance historian, he has produced multiple fil...
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Episode 158
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29:20
Working for and riding in AIDS/LifeCycle to raise money and awareness for people living with AIDS & HIV
IN BRETT'S OWN WORDS:I initially did the Ride in 1999 because, at the time, I thought I had only months to live. It was my sixth anniversary of being HIV. Medications were limited and toxic. My health was struggling greatly, so I wan...
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Episode 157
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42:39
As a six year old, he was told by his religious father that his mother's death was "God's will" and he was not to question it.
Daniel StewartAfter the death of his mother when he was only six years old was when his father said it was "God's will" and he was not to question it. That was only the beginning of his problems that went on for decades. Dani...
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Episode 156
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39:44
Dr. Sean Ferri, PsyD : This has to be one of the best coming out stories you've ever heard!
Dr. Sean Ferri, PsyD is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist in California (#34510) and New Jersey (#35SI00737900). He currently serves as the Senior Manger, Clinical Support and Clinical Psychologist at the LGBTQ Community Center of the Desert in ...
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Episode 155
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