
Becoming Wilkinson
When I started this podcast, I thought it would be the story of my journey from married man with three sons, involved in ministry in the NW, to my current life as a gay man in Palm Springs, CA. I'd weave in interesting interviews with amazing people whom I've met along the way. But as the podcast has evolved, I realized that interacting and hearing other people's stories has changed me. The Universe always sends me just the right person at just the right time to guide me along my own journey of "Becoming". Join me as I have conversations with these fascinating people and share this journey with you.
Episodes
173 episodes
"Authenticity and sexual expression VS the impact of shame and repression" with Patrick Prohaska.
Chapters00:00Introduction and Personal Journey04:45Spirituality and Consciousness Expansion09:14The Shift from 3D to 5D Thinking13:45Authenticity and Sexual Expression17:47The Impact of Shame and Repressi...
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Episode 71
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43:23

Author David Wichman discusses his new book "The Four Rooms" which explores the intersections of shame, desire and self-acceptance with fearless vulnerability.
In this engaging conversation, David Wichman discusses his latest book, "The Four Rooms", which explores themes of sexual freedom and wellbeing, particularly for queer men. The discussion delves into the concept of the 'Four Rooms,' a framework...
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Episode 170
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53:46

Matt Nightingale shares his journey of self-discovery as a gay man raised as a fundamentalist Christian.
Chapters00:00Introduction and Background of Matt Nightingale02:05Understanding Identity and Early Realizations05:57Marriage and the Struggle with Sexual Orientation10:00Coming Out and the Journey of Acceptance
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Episode 169
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38:14

The Life and Loves of John Gordon...
In this conversation, John Gordon shares his life experiences, including his journey of self-discovery as a gay man, his relationships, and the challenges he faced with fear and personal growth. He reflects on his past relationships, the impact...
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Episode 168
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30:46

Dale Allen-Rowse: Not your average shaman!
In this engaging conversation, Dale Allen Rowse shares his multifaceted journey from a successful ballet dancer to a real estate trainer and author. He discusses his struggles with a debilitating neurological disorder, his healing journ...
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Episode 167
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48:32

Steve Balderson: Successfully Directing 20 Films Away From the Mainstream and Doing it His Way!
Filmmaker Steve Balderson discusses his diverse filmography, the challenges of blending genres, and the complexities of distribution and marketing in the film industry. He reflects on the provocative nature of his work, particularly in 'Watch O...
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Episode 166
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1:06:50

JEROME COURSHON: Getting independent film into the marketplace via an ethical means.
JEROME COURSHONIn this week's episode of the Becoming Wilkinson podcast, my guest is Jerome Courshon. I met him a few weeks ago when Steve Balderson's film "Sex Love Venice" was distributed and shown at the Palm S...
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Episode 166
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42:26

Filmmaker and author Steve Balderson: "Find something to love in every person you meet".
In this engaging conversation, Wilkinson and Steve Balderson explore themes of personal growth, sexuality, and the journey of becoming a filmmaker. Steve shares his unique upbringing in Kansas, his awakening to his identity, and the pivotal exp...
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Episode 165
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45:59

Coming out as gay to his macho Marine dad, performing in adult films & finding a home on stage.
In this engaging conversation, Ronny Borrelli shares his personal journey of coming out, navigating life as a gay man in various environments, and his experiences in the adult film industry. He discusses the challenges he faced growing up in La...
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Episode 164
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41:04

Disconnecting from the chaos in order to reconnect with ourselves through nature.
A short message recorded in Joshua Tree National Park, CA on February 2, 2025.
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Episode 163
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1:43

After two months missing in action on the podcast, Wilkinson explains what's been going on and he looks ahead to 2025!
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Episode 162
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11:41

The adventures of James Jardine. From Banker to Online Content Creator!
In this engaging conversation, James Jardine shares his transformative journey from a corporate banking career in Southern California to embarking on adventurous road trips and working on a fishing boat in Alaska. He discusses the challenges an...
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Episode 161
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39:09

Jonathan Brett: The Adventures of a gay high school theatre teacher.
Jonathan Brett is a Performer, Director, and Teacher (Credentialed in English/Theatre with a Master’s Degree in Social Emotional Learning). He is a proud member of Sag Aftra. Some of his favorite theatrical ...
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Episode 160
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34:23

Randy Brenner: From child performer to successful Director & Actor (And raising awareness & funds for AIDS through innovative theater productions)!
RANDY BRENNERIn this engaging conversation, Randy Brenner shares his journey from a child performer in Philadelphia to a successful actor and director in theater and television. He discusses the challenges and joys of performing,...
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Episode 159
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36:23

Filmmaker/Executive Dr. Robert Philipson on the intersectionality of Race, Music, & Sexuality. Plus he discusses his beautiful new film THE KNOWING about interracial relationships and AIDS.
Dr. Robert PhilipsonFilmmaker/ExecutivePhilipson is a former academic professor of African-American studies with a passion for Jazz & African art. A published author and Harlem Renaissance historian, he has produced multiple fil...
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Episode 158
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29:20

Working for and riding in AIDS/LifeCycle to raise money and awareness for people living with AIDS & HIV
IN BRETT'S OWN WORDS:I initially did the Ride in 1999 because, at the time, I thought I had only months to live. It was my sixth anniversary of being HIV. Medications were limited and toxic. My health was struggling greatly, so I wan...
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Episode 157
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42:39

As a six year old, he was told by his religious father that his mother's death was "God's will" and he was not to question it.
Daniel StewartAfter the death of his mother when he was only six years old was when his father said it was "God's will" and he was not to question it. That was only the beginning of his problems that went on for decades. Dani...
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Episode 156
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39:44

Dr. Sean Ferri, PsyD : This has to be one of the best coming out stories you've ever heard!
Dr. Sean Ferri, PsyD is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist in California (#34510) and New Jersey (#35SI00737900). He currently serves as the Senior Manger, Clinical Support and Clinical Psychologist at the LGBTQ Community Center of the Desert in ...
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Episode 155
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43:12

The Adventures of a Jewish Gay Guy raised as a Muslim in Morocco. He Definitely Has Stories!
I'm very happy that my friend Amine came by and we recorded this podcast episode. It's a definite eye-opener!Contact Amine here:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aminerai...
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Episode 154
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43:28

From Lawyer to Internet Personality & Content Creator! Meet Ryan St. Michael: a.k.a. Seersucker Stud!
Ryan St. Michael is a full-time content creator based out of Palm Springs, CA. After graduating from the University of South Carolina in his home state, he moved to Cape Town, South Africa for fourteen months to study in a Masters in Pub...
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Episode 153
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46:58

Today he's a successful Realtor in the Palm Springs area. But what about that velvet & satin sailor suit that Uncle Tubby bought him? Or all those Dance classes? And how about all those sailors when he was in school?
In Shaun's own words:As a young boy, growing up in Virginia, I used to pour over house plan books from the local library for hours! I was fascinated with interior design, architecture, and what HOME represents to all people. I found ...
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Episode 152
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53:47

AARON FURY: Coming out to your ex-military father and pursuing an acting and modeling career.
Aaron Fury is an actor, model and medical professional. Born and raised in Washington state, Aaron’s small town charm and creative flair have served him well, engaging in a variety of entertainment roles including show producer, gogo dan...
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Episode 151
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31:34

How Does One Turn Adversity into Something Positive?
Trent Blanchard, M.A. is a human being in search of the true meaning of life! He’s spent over half of his life studying, attending endless workshops and being therapatized up the yin yang to understand his own internal struggle to figure it out...
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Episode 150
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30:18

STEVEN DREW AUERBACH: Shifting gears to become involved in two LGBTQ non-profits...
STEVEN DREW AUERBACHSteven Drew Auerbach is a recognized International Business Consultant specializing in Brand Marketing/Management for over 30 years. His work has taken him around the world, and he has brought numerous luxury b...
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Episode 149
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32:49

What makes a man give up a cushy corporate job in order to create Play Lounge & Cafe in Palm Springs?
In Matt Irby's own words:When the pandemic hit, I was working a corporate job in Seattle and was given the opportunity to work from home and live where I pleased. My first thought? Palm Springs! I moved here in late 2020, made a ...
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Episode 148
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32:48
