Swinger University™ - The Swinger Podcast for Education, Lifestyle & Travel
After 12+ years in the swinging lifestyle, we've learned what works, what doesn't, and what no one tells you before you start. We're Ed and Phoebe, and Swinger University is the podcast where we share ALL of it — the real talk, the awkward moments, the lessons, and the laughs.
165+ episodes covering everything from your first conversation about swinging to navigating clubs, cruises, resorts, jealousy, boundaries, and sexual health. Whether you're brand new or years into the lifestyle, we're the couple at the bar buying you a drink and giving you the honest advice you won't find anywhere else.
What You'll Learn:
- What no one tells you about swinging (from couples who've actually lived it)
- Communication and boundary strategies that actually work
- Honest reviews of lifestyle cruises, resorts, clubs, and events
- How to navigate jealousy, consent, and relationship dynamics
- Practical advice for ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships
Featured guests include Toronto Unicorn, Strictly Anonymous, Dr. Tiffany K., Curious Girl's Diaries, and more.
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Swinger University™ - The Swinger Podcast for Education, Lifestyle & Travel
Latest Episodes
Delayed Ejaculation in Ethical Non-Monogamy: Causes, Impact & Solutions
Premature ejaculation gets the commercials and the jokes. Delayed ejaculation? Crickets. Yet this condition affects millions of men and their partners—and it matters more than you think. In this episode, we're breaking the stigma around delayed...
Finding Your Voice: How to Set Boundaries in an Open Relationship
When you finally find your voice in the lifestyle, everything changes. In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore one of the most transformational shifts couples make in ethical non-monogamy: moving from "going along to keep the peace" to confident...
Dirty Vanillas Are Ruining Swinging (Or Are They?)
There's a real debate happening in the lifestyle community: Are "dirty vanillas" (people showing up to swinger events but not actually swinging) ruining the experience? Or is the real problem something we've completely misunderstood? In this ep...
You're Asking The WRONG Question About Sex Frequency (Here's What Actually Matters)
How often are you really supposed to be having sex? Spoiler alert: You've been asking the wrong question.Society pushes a "magic number" for sexual frequency that's causing more harm than good. The truth? Th...
Why Can't You Stop Thinking About Last Weekend?
Why does a piece of chocolate trigger the same brain chemical as meeting someone new at a swinger party?This episode reveals the surprising neuroscience behind New Relationship Energy, dopamine addiction, and why the swinging life...
