Seven Steps to Smile
We're all trying to lead happier lives. But what does that mean? Join me as I archive the lessons I learn while navigating the nuances of my life. Who knows? We may have more in common than you could imagine!
Episodes
12 episodes
12. How to Use Compassion as a Superpower
Compassion often gets framed as being soft, forgiving, or endlessly patient. That’s not what this episode is about.This is a conversation about compassion as a practical skill — one that makes your life calmer, your relationships cleaner...
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Episode 12
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14:31
11. How to Make the Bad Days Count (Low-Capacity Strategy)
Some days, you just don’t have the same energy, focus, or emotional space that you usually do. You still care. You still want to show up. But everything feels much harder than normal. You're not alone... we all have our low-capacity days. ...
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Episode 11
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17:40
what to do when you're doing enough (it doesn't feel like it)
There’s a strange place you can end up in where you are genuinely trying. You’re showing up more often than not, doing what you said you would do, and still… it doesn’t feel like much. No real sense of progress. No satisfaction.Is th...
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Episode 10
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15:13
How to Trust Yourself Again (After You've Broken Promises to Yourself)
At some point, we waver in the belief of our own plans.Not because we don’t care — but because we’ve made promises to ourselves we couldn’t keep, and we lost the ability to trust ourselves.This episode is about rebuilding self-trust ...
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Episode 9
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21:29
Stop Asking ‘What Should I Do This Year’ (Ask This Instead)
Every January we ask the same question: What should I do this year?New goals. New plans. New pressure.This episode explores why that question sets us up to fail (and what to ask instead) Join us as we unpack how identity dri...
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Episode 8
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18:03
The Mental Bandwidth Problem
Feelings of overwhelm and scarcity hijack our thinking all the time. When we feel like we don't have enough time, money, love, or anything that we value, it affects every part of our lives. But there's a way to beat this problem, a simple 5-ste...
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Episode 7
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17:37
Becoming the Best You (The Identity Loop)
The person that you believe you are is the person that you become. The stories that we keep telling about ourselves give meaning to our behaviours and our lives. Learn how to take control of your identity and become the best version of yourself...
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Episode 6
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17:00
When to Ask Why?
Asking "Why" is how we make sense of the world; it's how we find meaning and make connections within our uncertain world. But asking "Why" too much can lead to rumination, anxiety, and inaction. Join me as we break down how we can be more...
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Episode 5
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13:17
Win with Less Effort (The Effort Heuristic)
We love to overvalue things that feel harder. That's the effort heuristic. Join me as we learn more about how this mental shortcut is secretly shaping our decisions, and what we can do to manage it.
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Episode 4
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21:47
The Hidden Costs of Loss Aversion
A short, powerful episode on how we are being limited by a hardwired aversion to loss. Makes sense right? Nobody likes losing! But it could be holding you back. Join me as we talk about what the problem is, and how we can overcome our mental pr...
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Episode 3
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16:08