We Need To Talk with Harry and Shade
Welcome to The Harry & Shade Show, where a real married couple sits down, keeps it 100, and talks about everything your relationship group chat is too scared to bring up. Harry and Shade don't have it all figured out. They have four kids, strong opinions, and a whole lot of real-life experience, including the arguments, the laughs, the hard seasons, and the moments that make it all worth it. From communication and finances to keeping the spark alive when you're raising ages from 7-year-old to a 20-year-old under the same roof, nothing is off-limits, and nothing is sugarcoated. This isn't a highlight reel. It's the real story of two people choosing each other, parenting together, and figuring it out as they go with humor, honesty, and zero filter. New episodes drop weekly. Come for the relationship talk. Stay for the chaos.
We Need To Talk with Harry and Shade
Latest Episodes
Episode 5: We Need To Talk About the Dollars Between Us | Money, Marriage & the Real Conversations Most Couples Avoid
Money ends more marriages than cheating.Not because couples don't love each other —but because they never had the real conversation about it.In Episode 5, Harry and Shade go all the wayin on finances. The money mind...
Episode 4: We Need To Talk About How We Talk | Communication, Triggers & Breaking Old Patterns
Most couples think they have good communication problem. But what if the real problem is not HOW you communicate, but WHAT is actually driving the conversation without your permission?In Episode 4, Ha...
Episode 3: When the Bedroom Goes Quiet. The Intimacy Talk Nobody Wants to Have
This is the episode most podcasts won't make.Harry and Shade get completely vulnerable about something millions of couples go through and almost nobody talks about out loud — intimacy challenges, body changes,...
Episode 2: Trust Part II — We Finish What We Started | We Need To Talk W/ Harry & Shade
We said we weren't done with Trust — and we meant it.Episode 2 picks up right where we left off. Harry and Shade finish answering the Top 10 most common trust questions couples actually ask and as always, we d...
Episode 1: Meet Harry & Shade — 20 Years, 4 Kids & a Real Talk About Trust
Welcome to We Need To Talk with Harry and Shade the podcast where a real married couple sits down, keeps it 100, and has the conversations most people avoid.We're Harry and Shade Farquharson. Twenty years married, four kids ranging from...