My Friend the Friar
A podcast where we learn about our faith and share what it takes to live a Catholic Christian life through conversations and contemplations with my friend the friar, a Discalced Carmelite Priest.
Episodes
110 episodes
Learning Mental Prayer (Season 3 Episode 45)
We explore mental prayer through a Carmelite lens, moving from definitions and methods to the lived experience of silence, distraction, and trust. The theme is simple and demanding: prayer is a relationship, not a performance, and silence is wh...
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Season 3
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Episode 45
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1:03:52
Saint Rita of Cascia (Season 3 Episode 44)
Saint Rita of Cascia’s winding path moves from a violent marriage and family feuds to quiet holiness, peacemaking, and steady fidelity that outlasts grief. We wrestle with God’s will, cultural narcissism, and how endurance can be wiser than esc...
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Season 3
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Episode 44
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59:07
Obedience and Mutual Surrender Transform Marriage (Season 3 Episode 43)
What if obedience in marriage isn’t about control, but about love that aims at the common good? We dig into the heart of a Catholic marriage through the living model of Christ and the Church—where respect means honoring dignity, headship means ...
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Season 3
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Episode 43
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1:05:02
How Christian Obedience Restores Dignity And Builds Trust (Season 3 Episode 42)
We explore respect and obedience through the lens of Christian discipleship, tracing how honor, office, and conscience intersect and how obedience, purified of fear, can lead to real freedom. Stories from religious life ground the theology in d...
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Season 3
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Episode 42
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1:19:36
Finding Your Center In Seasons Of Change (Season 3 Episode 41)
What if your feelings didn’t get the final say on your choices—especially when life is in flux? We open up about seasons of upheaval: a child leaving for college, grieving a parent, cancer scares, and the low hum of uncertainty that follows big...
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Season 3
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Episode 41
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38:26
Sanctity and Justification Compilation (Season 3 Episode 40)
A compilation of previous episodes exploring sanctity, holiness, justification, and righteousness. Theology of Sanctity (Season 1 Episode 4)Catholic and Protestant Views on Justification (Season 2 Episode 21)
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Season 3
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Episode 40
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1:41:49
The Blessed Virgin: Mother, Model, and Mediator (Season 3 Episode 39)
Father Stephen and John dive deep into Chapter 8 of Lumen Gentium, exploring Mary's unique role in salvation history and addressing common misconceptions about Catholic Marian devotion.• Mary's maternal role toward humanity doesn't dimi...
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Season 3
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Episode 39
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59:28
Life Update: God's Goodness Remains
A quick life update and request for prayers.
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Season 3
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Episode 38
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5:22
Suffering, Faith, and Mary's Enduring Influence
In this episode, Father Stephen brings his profound insights into how aligning our struggles with Christ's can be a transformative experience, offering both psychological relief and spiritual growth. Together, we explore the idea that suffering...
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Season 3
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Episode 37
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43:35
Mary's Spiritual Significance in the Pilgrim Church
Can understanding the role of Mary change your perspective on the Church? Join me and Father Stephen Sanchez as we navigate the profound teachings of Lumen Gentium, focusing on the essential yet often misunderstood role of Mary. We promise this...
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Season 3
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Episode 36
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51:22
A Quick Life Update and Request for Prayers
A Quick Life Update and Request for Prayers.
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Season 3
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Episode 35
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8:08
Exploring the Universal Call to Holiness
Join us for an engaging conversation with Father Stephen Sanchez, a Discalced Carmelite priest, who recently attended a Congress meeting in Boston. Father Stephen shares his experiences, from the joyful talks on the saints of Carmel to the cama...
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Season 3
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Episode 34
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57:36
The Priesthood of the Laity
In this episode, we dive deep into the critical role of the laity within the Church, inspired by Lumen Gentium. We discuss how both men and women are essential to the Church's mission, working alongside clergy and religious members. Our discuss...
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Season 3
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Episode 33
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57:20
The Primacy of Christ in the Catholic Church
In this episode, Father Stephen and John discuss the centrality of Christ in the Church and its mission as a sacrament of God's love. Drawing insights from Sacrosanctum Concilium and theologians like St. Cyprian, they explore how the Church, as...
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Season 3
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Episode 32
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55:06
Lumen Gentium and The Mystery of the Church
In this episode, John and Father Stephen explore Pope John XXIII's vision of the Pilgrim Church as detailed in Lumen Gentium, emphasizing the Church's ongoing mission away from a triumphalist view. They reflect on the veneration of saints, with...
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Season 3
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Episode 31
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50:16
Vatican History and Lumen Gentium
In this episode, John and Fr. Stephen delve into the historical context of Vatican II.Take a walk through history with us as we revisit the abrupt end of the First Vatican Council in 1870 and the unresolved issues it left behind. Fast f...
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Season 3
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Episode 30
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47:39
Dead for Seven Minutes with Robert and Steven Dominguez
Prepare yourself for an emotionally charged episode as the co-hosts from the Bigfoot Club podcast, Robert Dominguez and his nephew, Steven Dominguez, step in for Father Stephen Sanchez. Robert recounts his terrifying health ordeal — fro...
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Season 3
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Episode 29
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1:16:03
Ancient Sources of Truth for Modern Faith with Chris Colleps
In this episode, John and Chris go on a profound journey into the intricate world of biblical translations, specifically comparing John 14:12-28 in the NIV and Catholic versions. You'll learn the deeper significance behind Jesus' repeated use o...
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Season 3
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Episode 28
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57:20
Drops of Ink with Chris Colleps
In this episode, John and Chris consider ink as a metaphor Chris developed in a song he wrote after dropping off his oldest daughter at college.Our upbringing and relationships significantly shape us, much like ink colors a page. Drawin...
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Season 3
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Episode 27
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55:43
Alien Life, Mary's Assumption, and Divine Encounters with Mark Gansle
In this episode, John and Mark's discussion ranges from the philosophical themes inspired by "Groundhog Day" to pondering whether intelligent alien species would be considered children of God. Can the gospel be preached to alien beings? What ar...
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Season 3
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Episode 26
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1:00:00
An Integrated Faith and Intimacy with God with Mark Gansle
In this episode, John and Mark Gansle continue their conversation and take a heartfelt look at the unique challenges and blessings that come with being a deacon's wife. They discuss how growing closer to God can enhance intimacy, promoting pati...
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Season 3
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Episode 25
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57:24
Joy and Discerning God's Will with Mark Gansle
In this episode, John and Mark Gansle ponder the profound distinction between happiness and joy through Mark's experience so far a year into his discernment to become a Catholic deacon. They consider the thought that while happiness is a fleeti...
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Season 3
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Episode 24
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50:07
Understanding Typology in Sacred Scripture
In this episode, Father Sanchez emphasizes the necessity of understanding the sacred authors' intentions in their historical and cultural contexts, and we explore how metaphors like the good shepherd or parables like the sower and the seed reve...
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Season 3
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Episode 23
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50:18
Fashion, Faith, and Resilience with Anthony Alexander
In this episode, John and Anthony discuss the importance of open, respectful conversations in a world increasingly divided by differing beliefs. Anthony shares the inspiration behind his innovative clothing brand aimed at making the elegant spo...
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Season 3
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Episode 22
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30:56
Fatherhood and Legacy with Anthony Alexander
In this episode, John is joined by Anthony Alexander for a heartfelt conversation about fatherhood. Navigating blended families and past relationships can be a minefield, and Anthony candidly shares his experiences with these challenges. They t...
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Season 3
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Episode 21
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48:10