Coffee with Gays™: Every Sip Is A Story
🎙️ Coffee with Gays™: Season 4
New episodes every Thursday
We’re not your typical gay podcast we’re the gay best friends you always wanted. You don’t have to be gay to hang with us. We don’t talk about pronouns, we’re not a “safe space,” and we’re definitely not here to pander.
Coffee with Gays™ is about being real again unfiltered, funny, and honest. We talk about life, politics, relationships, and culture from our perspective as gay men who think for ourselves. We’re over the echo chambers and the outrage Olympics.
👋 Meet the hosts:
🎯 Blaine — Center-right, sharp, unafraid to say what others won’t.
📖 Reed — Independent thinker, hasn’t voted yet (shame… but not really).
We’re here to remind you that the gay community isn’t one voice — it’s a chorus of diverse opinions, lived experiences, and hilarious stories over coffee (or maybe wine).
This isn’t just a podcast.
It’s a conversation. A movement. A mirror.
Pull up a chair — you’re invited to the table.
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Episodes
23 episodes
Do Straight Bachelorettes Belong in Gay Bars? Reading Hate Comments | Coffee with Gays Ep. 26
New episodes every Thursday | Hosted by Blaine & ReedWe took Coffee with Gays on the road — and straight into controversy.After one viral clip sparked hundreds of comments, Blaine and Reed sit down (in Reed’s c...
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Episode 26
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The Gay Coming-of-Age Novel You Didn't Know You Needed — Our Interview with Robert Raasch | Ep 25
🎙️ New episodes every Thursday | Hosted by Blaine & Reed ☕ A Coffee with Gays First-Ever Author SpecialYes, Blaine was starstruck. And yes, we left that in.In our first-ever author interview, we welcome novel...
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Episode 25
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59:27
He Started with Love Bombing, He Put Me in the ER | Ep. 25
🗓️ New episodes every Thursday | Hosted by Blaine & ReedBlaine opens up about a relationship that nearly cost him his life.What began with over-the-top romance — flowers, gifts (include a cadillac SUV), nonstop t...
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Episode 25
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56:44
Because of Them: Pride Then, Pride Now | Pride Arc Finale | Ep 23
🎙️ Because of Them: Pride Then, Pride Now | Pride FinaleNew episodes every Thursday | Hosted by Blaine & ReedThis episode is a love letter to the icons who made Pride possible—and a truth check on what it means t...
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Episode 23
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Life After Coming Out at 60: Matt Starts Over (Part 2) | Ep 22
Life After Coming Out at 60: Matt Starts Over (Part 2) – At 60, Matt’s life took a dramatic turn when he was outed, abruptly ending a 35-year marriage. In Part 2 of his story, Matt opens up about starting over as an openly gay man...
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Episode 22
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Not Everyone Comes Out on Their Own Terms: Matt’s Story (Part 1) | Ep 21
New episodes every Thursday | Hosted by Blaine & ReedWe’ve kept this conversation in the vault for nearly a year—because it’s that important.After 35 years of marriage, Matt was outed overnight. Part 1 captures the imme...
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Episode 21
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1:10:20
🎙️ Before It Was Safe: The Lives That Made Pride Possible | Ep 20
New episodes every Thursday | Hosted by Blaine & ReedThis episode kicks off our Pride Month arc with a truth bomb:Pride didn’t start with rainbow merch—it started with people who had to survive silence.
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New Year New Beginnings: Cheers to Change and Growth | Ep 19
💡 Key Discussion Points:Blaine, Ryan, and Reed kick off the New Year with a candid recap of the holidays, including the ups and downs of Friendsgiving, New Year's Eve drama, and a hilarious White Elephant gift exchange. 🎁The cre...
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Episode 19
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1:09:37
Election Clash: Bullying, Boys in Girls’ Sports, Gender Care for Minors, & LGBTQ+ Advocacy S4 Ep18
Note: This episode was recorded on October 27, 2024, before the JD Vance interview with Joe Rogan. We’re intrigued to see that many topics we discussed were also covered. Share your thoughts below!We’re encouraged by a Republican ...
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Episode 18
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57:46
🌈 "Coming Out to Ourselves: The First Step to Being Open" 🎙️ | Episode 17
ChatGPT🌈✨ In this episode of "Coffee with Gays," Blaine, Adam, Ryan, and our special guest hottie Reed open up about our coming out journeys, emphasizing the crucial step of coming out to ourselves before friends and family. These he...
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Season 3
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Episode 17
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1:08:05
Never Growing Old: Navigating Peter Pan Syndrome in the Gay Community 🧚♂️✨ | Episode 16
Description:Dive into a thought-provoking discussion on the "Peter Pan Syndrome" 🌈 that seems to pervade not just the gay community, but society at large. Join Blaine, Ryan, and Adam as they explore the allure of eternal youth, t...
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Season 3
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Episode 16
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45:58
Gay Dating Unhinged 🤪: Navigating Gay Dating's Ups & Downs | Episode 15
Dive deep into the wild world of gay dating with Adam, Blaine, and Ryan in Season 3, Episode 16 of "Coffee with Gays." From heartfelt breakups to the thrilling chase of new connections, this episode uncovers the raw truths of dating within the ...
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Season 3
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Episode 15
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1:09:56
🌈✨Interview with a New Lesbian: Ashliegh's Bold Coming Out at 32 | Episode 14
We chat with Ashliegh, who courageously stepped into her truth as a lesbian at 32! 🌟 After a life-changing decision to leave her heterosexual marriage of 8 years, Ashliegh's journey is a powerful testament to finding happiness at any age. 🏳️🌈💖...
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Episode 14
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27:37
Take Me to #Church 💒 | Our honest take on faith and being gay 🌈✨🕊️ | Episode 13
Dive into a candid conversation with Adam, Blaine, and Ryan as they explore the intersection of faith and gay life. From Southern Baptist roots to Catholic conundrums, they're not holding back on their personal journeys and the challenges they'...
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Episode 13
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45:14
☕️🌈 Filtering Out the Phonies: The dangers of fake social media profiles 📸💅 | Episode 12
Gurl, join us on 'Coffee with Gays' as we spill the tea on social media fakes! 🎉 We're dissecting FaceTune fails, influencer lies, and those 'too perfect' online lives. 🤳✨ From 'Never Have I Ever' to diversity talks, we're keeping it real and h...
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Episode 12
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48:27
Fake Profiles, Real Problems: Pissed About Outdated Legislation That Isn't Protecting Us 🛡️ | Episode 11
Kick-starting Season 2 of "Coffee with Gays," we've revamped our pod and we're here with a fresh look, new artwork, and a mission to break the mold of what a gay podcast can be. Diving into online deception, calling out social media giants and ...
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The Dark Side of being a Gay Man: Mystery Drownings & Dating App Dangers? 🌊📱🔍 | Episode 9
Dive into a chilling exploration of the unsolved drownings in Austin, Texas, and the looming dangers within the world of dating apps. In this captivating episode, we attempt to unearth the truth behind the mysterious drownings the police are ca...
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Episode 9
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34:23
GenZ, Come for Us! 😲 | Millennial Gays Dive into in & Share Our Unsolicited Advice to GenZ! | Episode 8
Hey Sippers! ☕️🌈 Got your mugs ready? We're diving straight into a not-so-little confession. Yep, a certain incident in Homosassa got slightly tipsy – and it's every bit the glorious chaos you’re picturing! 😂But we aren’t just here to s...
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Episode 8
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S1 Ep 7 | The HEARTBEAT of the Gay Community: The Chosen Family | Coffee with Gays 🌈
What if your family wasn't the one you were born into, but the one you chose? Dive into another steamy cup of "Coffee with Gays" as Blaine, Adam, and Ryan are back to spill the beans on the concept of 'Chosen Family' within the LGBTQ+ co...
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Episode 7
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S1 Ep 6 | ☕️🌈 Coffee with Gays: From Portugal to "Port-u-Gur" in Sitges, Spain 🌍✈️
Buckle up, gurs! 🎢 Blaine and his guest co-host and best friend Christopher are taking you on a wild ride through their European escapades. From coining the term "Port-u-Gur" in Portugal to dealing with some less-than-friendly attitudes towards...
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Season 1
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Episode 6
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S1 Ep 5 | Love Takes Flight: The Unforgettable Proposal feat. Ryan and Bradley | Coffee With Gays Podcast 💍🚁💥
Join us in this love-filled episode of Coffee With Gays! 🌈☕️ Our co-host Ryan and his now fiancé Bradley recount their enchanting love story that leads up to an unforgettable proposal, complete with a drone mishap! 🚁💥 We also dive into li...
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Episode 5
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55:51
S1 Ep 4 | 😴 'Woke Up' or Hit Snooze? 🛌 - We're Dissecting 'Woke' Culture in Gay America
We're challenging the status quo and daring to speak out about the journey of being "woke" in the LGBT community. Hear how our day-to-day lives are shaped by stories of mixed showers, morning routines, and Adam's vibrant revelations. Buckle up,...
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Episode 4
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S1 Ep 3 | RECLAIMING OUR RAINBOW!💪🌈🏳️🌈 - The Unfiltered Truth About Pride 2023 - Coffee with Gays
Hey fabulous listeners! 🌈☕ We want to start by saying a HUGE thank you for all your amazing feedback on our first two episodes. We've taken it to heart and made some changes that we hope you'll love. No more talking over each other, Ryan's step...
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Episode 2
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