Coming Up for Air
Your post-breakup survival guide in podcast form. I healed from my breakup, now I want to help you heal yours
This podcast is your go-to guide for rebuilding your confidence following a breakup, and stepping into your best self. No sugar-coating—just real talk, mindset shifts, and the tough love you need to heal, grow, and thrive.
Because moving on isn’t just about forgetting them—it’s about remembering you.🩷
Episodes
145 episodes
Liminal Space - The Messy Middle of Heartbreak
This episode explores the in-between phase after heartbreak, when the old version of you no longer fits and the new one hasn’t arrived yet. I talk about identity loss, emotional waves, nervous system regulation, loneliness, and prac...
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Breakups - Taking Your Dreams Back.
This episode is for anyone who’s realised they’re spending more time thinking about their ex than actually living their own life. We talk about how heartbreak quietly hijacks your attention, how “waiting” can become a way of life, and why obses...
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53:05
What Love Shouldn’t Cost You Post Breakup.
This episode explores the quiet, unspoken costs of staying in relationships that slowly erode your peace, self-trust, and sense of self. We talk about the things love should never ask you to sacrifice, how to recognise when hope becomes s...
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How To Slow Down In January To Make Sure 2026 Is Big.
This episode is for anyone who’s healing, starting over, or quietly rebuilding their life. We’re talking about levelling up without pressure, rushing, or forcing change. Instead, this is about slow, meaningful growth, nervous-system safety, and...
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56:39
Happy New Year - Goal Setting & How To Set The Tone For 2026.
Happy new Year to you all. Whether you are going into the New Year still healing from something that happened in 2025 or even before that I have got you. A gentle episode to catch up talk a little bit on goals and one big piece of advice ...
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Christmas After a Breakup: The Year You Didn’t Collapse.
This episode is for anyone who made it to Christmas after a breakup and is wondering why it still feels a little unsteady.I talk about why Christmas can bring emotions back up even when you’ve been healing, why missing someone doesn’t me...
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51:47
The Decisions You Make After Your Breakup Will Shape Your Entire Future.
After a breakup, it’s not the ending that shapes you it’s the decisions you make next. In this episode, I talk about the quiet, everyday choices that either keep you stuck or slowly set you free. The boundaries you set, the habits you build, th...
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Four Years of Single Seasonal Reflections
In this episode, I open up about being single for four years and how every year of that journey reshaped me. From the heartbreak of my first Christmas alone, to rebuilding my life, losing my job, finding clarity, and finally choosing myself ove...
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Your New December Rituals That Have Nothing To Do With Christmas - Single Edition.
In this episode, I’m flipping December on its head. Instead of slipping into nostalgia or repeating old rituals, I’m sharing how I build future-facing, identity-shaping traditions that support the version of me I’m becoming.I dive into w...
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1:02:34
Do Not Dread December - Single Edition.
In this episode, I’m talking about what it’s really like to go into December single not the Instagram version, but the honest, emotional, surprisingly empowering reality of it. I share the deeper mindset shifts, the things people never sa...
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52:56
Your Self Worth Following A Breakup.
In today’s episode, I’m opening up about the deeply personal journey of rebuilding my self-worth after being broken down by someone I loved. I talk about the difference between who I truly am and what someone else once made me feel, and how I’v...
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My Yearly Birthday Reflection Episode. Going Into Being 33 Single & Aligned.
Every year I do a birthday episode. This year has been interesting and hard but I have managed to reflect on why its been a tough year. I also knew that my 32s were going to be a year of growth in every area of my life. I have had t...
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Blocked Not Broken. When Your Ex Blocks You.
In this episode, I’m talking about what it really means when someone blocks you the confusion, the silence, and the way it can shake your sense of worth. I’ll share my own reflections and what I’ve learned about the psychology behind it why peo...
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1:02:01
*Halloween Edition* What Is Scarier Than Being Single?...
This Halloween, I’m not talking about ghosts, I’m talking about something scarier: being with the wrong person. In this episode, I open up about what it feels like to be used, overlooked, and underappreciated and why that’s so much more h...
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58:03
Your Husband Isn't On Hinge.
I know how deflating online dating can be especially as we head into winter, Christmas, and New Year so I want to catch you early before you put all your effort into online dating and forget what you really deserve. This episode is my reminder ...
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How Do You Know You Are Dating The Right Person Following Heartbreak.
In this episode, I talk about what it really feels like to be with the right person not on paper, but emotionally. After heartbreak, it’s hard to trust yourself again or to know what calm, healthy love actually feels like. I share how I learned...
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58:55
Trusting Love After Heartbreak: Healing, And Knowing the Right Person Is Coming.
Breakups can leave you wondering if you’ll ever find the right person - but healing is proof that love is still possible. In this episode, I explore fresh, uplifting ways to move forward: from voice notes to your future self and love archetype ...
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Things I Am Not Scared of Being 30 & Single.
I’m 30, single, and surprisingly calm about a lot of things that used to terrify me. Specifically: I’m not scared of meeting the wrong person again, I’m not scared of judgment, I’m not scared of starting a family later in life, and I’m not scar...
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Reframing Thoughts About Your Ex and Their New Partner.
It’s easy to get caught in the mental loop of imagining your ex doing all the same things with their new partner that they once did with you. Those thoughts can feel overwhelming, painful, and hard to escape. In this episode, we dive into how t...
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54:40
The Lessons I Didn’t Expect to Learn While Being Single (But Needed More Than I Knew)
In this episode, I’m sharing the unexpected and honestly, lessons I’ve learned during my time being single. From learning to love my own company, to realising I don’t miss my ex, to feeling proud (not apologetic) when I say I’m single… this sea...
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52:55
When Your Boundaries Are Being Disregarded Pre & Post Breakup.
In this episode, I want to take you on a journey of courage. We’ll talk about what happens when your boundaries are broken, the fear of leaving, the deep importance of respect, how to find the strength within yourself, and most importantly, wha...
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48:49
How To Stop Thinking Your Ex Has Found Someone 'Better'
In this episode I am talking about one of the hardest things to face after a breakup that feeling when your ex moves on and you think they’ve found someone better than you. It can hit you like a punch in the chest you’re scrolling on Instagram,...
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Going No Contact After A Breakup - The Mental No Contact.
We’re told: block them, delete them, unfollow, cut them out. But here’s the thing. You can remove someone from every physical part of your life and still have them living rent-free in your head. And that… is the part no one teaches you how to d...
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51:01
Moving Back Home After A Breakup.
In this episode I am diving into something so many of you have messaged me about and that is the experience but often feel shame around: moving back home after a breakup. Whether it's your childhood bedroom or a spare room at a parent’s house, ...
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56:23
Bravery After A Breakup & How To Find Yours.
This episode has sat with me for a while. It’s about something we’re told to be from a very young age, but we’re never actually taught how to do it. Today we’re talking about being brave. Especially when everything’s crumbling. Especially when ...
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