Coming Up for Air
Your post-breakup survival guide in podcast form. I healed from my breakup, now I want to help you heal yours
This podcast is your go-to guide for rebuilding your confidence following a breakup, and stepping into your best self. No sugar-coating—just real talk, mindset shifts, and the tough love you need to heal, grow, and thrive.
Because moving on isn’t just about forgetting them—it’s about remembering you.🩷
Episodes
151 episodes
Why 'Focus on Yourself' Feels Impossible After a Breakup.
Struggling to move on after a breakup? Especially when you were the one who got left?In this episode, I break down why 'focus on yourself' feels so hard after being dumped. If you’re overthinking, replaying memories, missing your ex, or ...
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The Pace of Your Healing After a Breakup Is a Sign of Your Strength.
Healing after a breakup doesn’t have a deadline and the pace you’re moving at? It says more about your strength than you think. In this episode of Coming Up For Air, I am talking about why slow healing is still powerful, how to stop...
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Coping When Your Ex Moves On Quickly and Stays There.
What happens when your ex moves on quickly… and the relationship actually lasts?In this episode, I share my perspective three years later and talk about the emotions that come with watching someone you once loved build a long-term relati...
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Post Breakup & Your Life No Longer Looks Like Your Friends.
There’s a quiet pain in feeling like life has moved on without you.In this episode, I talk about what it’s like to be left while everyone around you seems to be moving forward. Friends at different life stages, a future that no longer ex...
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The Year of the Horse - Breakup Healing.
2026 is the Year of the Horse , a year of freedom, courage, and forward motion. In this episode, I explore how the Horse’s energy can help you move past heartbreak, restore your vitality, and reconnect with your true self. Learn practical ways ...
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Single on Valentine’s Day? Congratulations. You’re Doing It Right.
Single on Valentine’s Day? Congratulations, you’re doing it right. In this episode, we reclaim the day for yourself, celebrating independence, self-love, and the power of choosing your own joy. We explore meaningful ways to honour your life, yo...
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Liminal Space - The Messy Middle of Heartbreak
This episode explores the in-between phase after heartbreak, when the old version of you no longer fits and the new one hasn’t arrived yet. I talk about identity loss, emotional waves, nervous system regulation, loneliness, and prac...
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Breakups - Taking Your Dreams Back.
This episode is for anyone who’s realised they’re spending more time thinking about their ex than actually living their own life. We talk about how heartbreak quietly hijacks your attention, how “waiting” can become a way of life, and why obses...
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What Love Shouldn’t Cost You Post Breakup.
This episode explores the quiet, unspoken costs of staying in relationships that slowly erode your peace, self-trust, and sense of self. We talk about the things love should never ask you to sacrifice, how to recognise when hope becomes s...
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How To Slow Down In January To Make Sure 2026 Is Big.
This episode is for anyone who’s healing, starting over, or quietly rebuilding their life. We’re talking about levelling up without pressure, rushing, or forcing change. Instead, this is about slow, meaningful growth, nervous-system safety, and...
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Happy New Year - Goal Setting & How To Set The Tone For 2026.
Happy new Year to you all. Whether you are going into the New Year still healing from something that happened in 2025 or even before that I have got you. A gentle episode to catch up talk a little bit on goals and one big piece of advice ...
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Christmas After a Breakup: The Year You Didn’t Collapse.
This episode is for anyone who made it to Christmas after a breakup and is wondering why it still feels a little unsteady.I talk about why Christmas can bring emotions back up even when you’ve been healing, why missing someone doesn’t me...
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The Decisions You Make After Your Breakup Will Shape Your Entire Future.
After a breakup, it’s not the ending that shapes you it’s the decisions you make next. In this episode, I talk about the quiet, everyday choices that either keep you stuck or slowly set you free. The boundaries you set, the habits you build, th...
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Four Years of Single Seasonal Reflections
In this episode, I open up about being single for four years and how every year of that journey reshaped me. From the heartbreak of my first Christmas alone, to rebuilding my life, losing my job, finding clarity, and finally choosing myself ove...
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Your New December Rituals That Have Nothing To Do With Christmas - Single Edition.
In this episode, I’m flipping December on its head. Instead of slipping into nostalgia or repeating old rituals, I’m sharing how I build future-facing, identity-shaping traditions that support the version of me I’m becoming.I dive into w...
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Do Not Dread December - Single Edition.
In this episode, I’m talking about what it’s really like to go into December single not the Instagram version, but the honest, emotional, surprisingly empowering reality of it. I share the deeper mindset shifts, the things people never sa...
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Your Self Worth Following A Breakup.
In today’s episode, I’m opening up about the deeply personal journey of rebuilding my self-worth after being broken down by someone I loved. I talk about the difference between who I truly am and what someone else once made me feel, and how I’v...
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My Yearly Birthday Reflection Episode. Going Into Being 33 Single & Aligned.
Every year I do a birthday episode. This year has been interesting and hard but I have managed to reflect on why its been a tough year. I also knew that my 32s were going to be a year of growth in every area of my life. I have had t...
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Blocked Not Broken. When Your Ex Blocks You.
In this episode, I’m talking about what it really means when someone blocks you the confusion, the silence, and the way it can shake your sense of worth. I’ll share my own reflections and what I’ve learned about the psychology behind it why peo...
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*Halloween Edition* What Is Scarier Than Being Single?...
This Halloween, I’m not talking about ghosts, I’m talking about something scarier: being with the wrong person. In this episode, I open up about what it feels like to be used, overlooked, and underappreciated and why that’s so much more h...
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Your Husband Isn't On Hinge.
I know how deflating online dating can be especially as we head into winter, Christmas, and New Year so I want to catch you early before you put all your effort into online dating and forget what you really deserve. This episode is my reminder ...
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How Do You Know You Are Dating The Right Person Following Heartbreak.
In this episode, I talk about what it really feels like to be with the right person not on paper, but emotionally. After heartbreak, it’s hard to trust yourself again or to know what calm, healthy love actually feels like. I share how I learned...
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Trusting Love After Heartbreak: Healing, And Knowing the Right Person Is Coming.
Breakups can leave you wondering if you’ll ever find the right person - but healing is proof that love is still possible. In this episode, I explore fresh, uplifting ways to move forward: from voice notes to your future self and love archetype ...
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Things I Am Not Scared of Being 30 & Single.
I’m 30, single, and surprisingly calm about a lot of things that used to terrify me. Specifically: I’m not scared of meeting the wrong person again, I’m not scared of judgment, I’m not scared of starting a family later in life, and I’m not scar...
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Reframing Thoughts About Your Ex and Their New Partner.
It’s easy to get caught in the mental loop of imagining your ex doing all the same things with their new partner that they once did with you. Those thoughts can feel overwhelming, painful, and hard to escape. In this episode, we dive into how t...
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