The Dating Chit
A story-driven podcast that explores dating dilemmas, relationships, and the search for true soulmates through conversations with quality singles—revealing a vibrant mosaic of modern love that challenges assumptions, dismantles stereotypes, and brings clarity to the emotional chaos of dating. This podcast exists to help you date smarter—with emotional fluency, clarity, and confidence.
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Episodes
13 episodes
The Nice Guy Detox: Unleashing the Power of Vulnerability and Confidence for Real Chemistry (w/Jason L.)
If you’ve ever wondered why “being a good guy” still isn’t leading to the relationship you want, this conversation puts language to the problem and a roadmap to the solution. I sit down with Jason Lange, a men’s embodiment coach and certified <...
The Intentional Alpha: From Financial Freedom to the Chaos of Modern Love (w/Ed)
I sit down with Ed, a Berkeley and Stanford trained engineer who had a startup exit ($8 Billion project), retired early, and is now rebuilding love after a long marriage while staying on great terms with his ex-wife. He is thoughtful, active, a...
How A Great Matchmaker Sees Compatibility, Insights From Matching Thousands of Couples (w/Dara Rahill)
Today, I am joined by Dara Rahill, a former top-ranked premium matchmaker at the country's largest matchmaking platform, and now the founder of Dara Rae Matchmaking, to reveal what actually predicts a healthy long-term relationship when you loo...
What Dating Bay Area Engineers Really Feels Like (w/Violina)
Dating a Bay Area engineer can look perfect on paper… but feel unexpectedly lonely in real life.In this episode, we get brutally honest about what it’s actually like dating engineers in Silicon Valley—the parts that feel safe and stable,...
Bay Area Alert!! A Growing Number of Men Are Quietly Avoiding Dating Here - Why? (w/Mike)
In this episode, we explore dating situations in the Bay Area, why some single men are not feeling great about it, and what happens when someone changes their dating “ecosystem.” My guest Mike—a thoughtful, twice-divorced tec...
Where Are the Good Men? Here’s What Real Masculinity Actually Looks Like (w/Mo)
What does real masculinity actually look like today? In this episode, Tea sits down with her friend Mo to talk about the kind of strength that doesn’t need to be loud—quiet confidence, emotional steadiness, and showing up when it truly matters....
High-Quality Beauty With a Grounded Checklist—The Type Of Girl You've Been Complaining That Doesn't Exisit Anymore (w/Violina)
Men often complain that Bay Area women are “too much”—too picky, too hard to impress, too into billionaires. But this episode may just challenge that narrative.Meet Violina: a globally raised, Thai-born professional whose beauty, grace, ...
What Kind of Woman Makes a Guy Feel Like He’s Hit the Jackpot? A Story About A Couple Played Zero Games From the Start! (w/Steve)
Turns out, the strongest relationships are built in the small, everyday choices—calling back the same day, asking for the number with a shaking hand, raising the hard topics early, and repairing fully when it gets messy. Steve joins us to share...
The ROI of Love: The Compounding Power of Choosing Each Other — 25 Years of Practical Wisdom (w/Pie)
What if the biggest upgrade in love isn’t a grand gesture—but a brave sentence said at the right time?In this episode, we sit down with Pie—a nurse, a seasoned relationship wellness coach, mom of two, and partner of 25 years—to unpack th...
About The Show
Hosted by Tongalag Liu (aka Tea), The Dating Chit is a story-driven podcast that slows dating down—cutting through the chaos of swipes and mixed signals. Each episode dives deep into the emotional realities of dating today, featuring emotionall...
How To Date A Rockstar Without Getting Played By The Groupies (w/Randy)
Dating gets easier when you stop pretending you’re not afraid and start telling the truth. We sit down with Randy, the magnetic frontman of a long-running Neil Diamond tribute band, to unpack what dating looks like for a self-aware, grounded ma...
Successful Tech Founder with Traditional Values Who Respects Modern Femininity — Would You Swipe Left? (w/Michael)
What if the “cold Russian” stereotype is really just a different way of measuring trust? We sit down with Michael, a Russian-born, Israel-raised, Silicon Valley CEO and devoted dad, to unpack how culture, character, and presence shape modern da...
Effort Over Ego in a Swipe Culture: A Grounded Gen Z Take on Modern Dating (w/Carter)
Dating doesn’t have to feel like a numbers game or a performance review. Tea sits down with Carter, a grounded Gen Z with “golden retriever energy,” to unpack why connection is harder to find online, how speed dating actually feels from the ins...