Rewrite Her Voice
A podcast where we uncover and rewrite the voice of your inner mean girl.
She’s loud. She’s critical. She knows exactly how to hit where it hurts. But what if your inner mean girl isn’t your enemy… what if she’s just misunderstood?
We’re taking a compassionate and curious look at your inner critic—the voice that tells you you’re not enough, not ready, or just plain wrong. Instead of silencing her, we’re learning to listen, understand where she came from, and rewrite her story.
✨ What you’ll walk away with:
- How to identify the true voice of your inner mean girl (hint: it might not even be yours!)
- Why she’s not trying to hurt you—but protect you in a misguided way
- Practical tools to help you give her a name, personality, and even a little love
- The powerful shift that happens when you respond with curiosity instead of resistance
This isn’t about toxic positivity or pretending the voice isn’t there. It’s about turning inward with empathy, rewriting the beliefs she’s holding onto, and showing her (and yourself) a new way forward.
💬 When you stop fighting her and start understanding her, you unlock one of the most powerful forms of self-healing. Let’s make peace with your inner mean girl—and start telling a better story together. Let's rewrite her voice!
Episodes
61 episodes
What If Being Present Has Fewer Rules?
What does it actually mean to be present?We hear “be present” all the time... be present with your kids, in your relationships, at work, in your life...but somewhere along the way, I think we turned presence into another thing we’...
When Your Brain Turns One Small Problem Into a Mountain
Have you ever started with one tiny task...and somehow ended up mentally trying to solve your entire life?Yep. Me too.Recently, my mom moved in with us as she officially entered retirement (WOOHOO!), which meant combining two hous...
The Should Trap
Have you ever noticed how often the word should influences the way you show up in relationships?I should be easier to love.I shouldn't need reassurance.I should be more confident.I should be the one who reaches out.<...
4 Things I Tell Women on Repeat (Because We Keep Forgetting)
There are certain truths I find myself reminding women of over and over again, not because they aren’t smart enough to know them, but because we live in a world that constantly teaches us the opposite.In this episode, we’re talking about...
When Growth Feels Like an Uphill Climb
Growth often feels like climbing a hill. Your breathing changes, your legs get tired, and every step asks a little more from you. But when you're walking, running, or biking, you would never sit down at the bottom of a hill and decide, "This is...
The Rock in Your Shoe
Episode DescriptionHow often have you recognized a pattern in your life but kept living with it anyway?In this episode, I share a simple experience from a recent run that turned into a powerful reminder: awareness alone doe...
Who Told You Your Body Wasn't Enough?
Episode DescriptionWhere did your body insecurity actually come from? Is it truly your voice... or is it a collection of expectations, comparisons, and messages you've absorbed over the years?In this episode, we're explorin...
What the Heck Is an Identity Ceiling? (And Why You Keep Hitting It)
Have you ever wondered why you keep falling back into old patterns, even when you know what to do?In this episode, we're unpacking the idea of an identity ceiling... the invisible limit your current self-beliefs plac...
Why You're Not Lazy: What Your Brain Might Really Need
Have you ever felt mentally exhausted, overwhelmed, or unable to focus, and immediately assumed you needed to push harder or chug down some caffeine?In this episode, I'm sharing a simple experience that led me down a fascinating rabbit h...
The Thing I Almost Missed Because I Was Embarrassed
What if the things you're most afraid to try are the very things that could change your life?In this episode, I'm sharing a personal story about how embarrassment and fear of judgment kept me from discovering my love of running and weigh...
What If You Stopped Waiting to Be Chosen?
We all want to be chosen. Chosen by friends, partners, family, employers, clients, and communities. It's a deeply human desire.But what happens when we spend so much energy waiting for someone else to choose us that we forget t...
Why Tiny Changes Matter More Than You Think
What if the breakthrough you're looking for doesn't require a complete life overhaul?In yoga, weightlifting, and running, tiny adjustments in form can reduce pain, increase strength, and completely change the outcome. Personal ...
Why You Procrastinate Even When You Really Want the Result
The difference between short-term comfort and long-term fulfillment. Have you ever noticed that sometimes the thing that feels best in the moment isn't actually the thing that makes you feel best in the ...
You’re Allowed to Want More
Have you ever felt guilty for wanting more?More peace.More money.More support.More rest.More joy.More fulfillment.If so, you're not alone.In this episode, we're unpacking the guilt that so many women car...
The Fear of Being Fully Seen
Why does being seen feel so uncomfortable...even when it's something you deeply want?In this episode, we're unpacking the fear of being fully seen and how visibility wounds, rejection wounds, and nervous system patterns can quietl...
The Real Reason You Keep Self-Sabotaging
Have you ever called yourself lazy when deep down… you actually felt emotionally stuck?In this episode, we’re unpacking the real reasons forward movement can feel so difficult, and why it often has nothing to do with motivation.We...
The Silent Exhaustion of Being the Dependable and Strong One
What happens when being “the strong one” becomes your entire identity?In this episode, we’re talking about the silent exhaustion of always being the emotionally responsible one...The one who holds everything together, carries ever...
How do I trust myself again after constantly letting myself down?
How do I trust myself again after constantly letting myself down? If this question speaks to your soul, you're in the right place!If you’ve been feeling disconnected from yourself, constantly second-guessing your decisions, struggling wi...
Emotional Maturity vs Emotional Suppression: How to Stop Bottling Up Emotions & Build Healthy Emotional Regulation
What if the way you’ve been taught to “handle” your emotions isn’t actually helping you at all?In this episode, we’re breaking down the powerful (and often misunderstood) difference between emotional maturity and emotional suppression, a...
Why You Feel Unmotivated (It’s Not Laziness—It’s Your Nervous System)
If you’ve been wondering why you feel unmotivated, stuck, or unable to start, this episode will help you understand what’s really going on.We’re breaking down motivation vs. emotional blocks, burnout, and nervous system shutdown so yo...
The Inner Mean Girl Isn’t the Villain
That critical voice in your head might feel like the thing holding you back...but what if she’s actually trying to protect you?In this episode, we’re reframing the “inner mean girl” as a protective response, not a personal flaw. Y...
Outgrowing Your Old Self (Why Is It So Uncomfortable?)
Feeling stuck, lost, or disconnected from who you used to be? You are definitely NOT broken, or alone.... you might be evolving... and experiencing some growing pains too.In this episode, we talk about identity shifts, emotio...
The Part We Don’t Want to Admit: How We Contribute to Our Resentment
Resentment doesn’t just come from what others aren’t doing…Sometimes, it also grows in the patterns we don’t realize we’re creating.In this tender and honest episode, we gently explore the part of resentment that’s harder to face, th...
The Quiet Resentment We Don’t Talk About
There’s a kind of resentment many women carry… but rarely say out loud.Not because we’re ungrateful.Not because we don’t love our families.But because being the one who holds everything... the planner, the rememberer, the emotion...
Coming Back to Yourself: My First 5K in 7 Years
I ran my first 5K in seven years… and it changed more than just my pace.In this episode, I’m sharing the honest story of what it looked like to come back to something I once loved, after injuries, self-doubt, and years of believing I cou...