The Therapy Gents
Therapy Gents is a mental health podcast with licensed therapists Michael Medley, LPC & Andy Newman, LPC. We discuss common issues we see our clients facing every day.
Episodes
91 episodes
090: Boundaries around the Holidays
In today's episode Michael and Andy discuss how to navigate setting boundaries with family and friends around the holidays! The holidays are meant to be a time of good cheer, not overwhelming resentment and stress. Naturally we'll have a little...
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Episode 90
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36:26
089: Questions about Trauma
In today's episode Michael and Andy discuss trauma, how to heal from it, and what the process of healing tends to look like. They also discuss the difference between single event and complex PTSD.
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Episode 89
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37:27
088: Q&A: Random Anxiety, Doom Scrolling and More
In today's episode Michael and Andy discuss several questions that we commonly get as therapists. Enjoy!
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35:40
To Parents of Neurodivergent Children (Autism, ADHD, etc)
Today's episode Michael and Andy discuss parenting neurodivergent children. What is neurodivergence? What are some misconceptions? What are some tips and tricks for boundary setting? How can you increase emotional expression and understanding? ...
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Episode 87
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48:06
086: Social Media Division & Outrage (Charlie Kirk Assassination Case Study)
In today's episode Michael and Andy discuss how damaging social media can be to our mental health and especially to our relationships when we allow outrage and division to permeate. They explore the recent assassination of Charlie Kirk and the ...
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Episode 86
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45:58
085: When Trust is Hard
In Today's episode Michael and Andy discuss how trust in relationships can be difficult... especially when it is broken.
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Episode 85
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41:02
084: K-Pop Demon Hunters From Two Therapist's POV
In today's episode Michael and Andy analyze all of the mental health parallels they noticed while watching K-Pop Demon Hunters!
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Episode 84
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38:26
083: Anger is NOT a bad emotion!
In today's episode Michael and Andy discuss anger as an emotion in all of its manifestations. Sometimes anger can be explosive and unhealthy, but it can also be very healthy to experience and express.
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Episode 83
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37:26
082: Fight Right by John & Julie Gottman: How Conflict can Bring You Closer to Your Partner
In today's episode Michael and Andy discuss the Gottman's new book "Fight Right." Conflict is often viewed as a negative aspect of relationships but we're here to back up the Gottman's research: conflict need not be negative and destructive. Le...
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Episode 82
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36:57
081: Resentment in Relationship
In today's episode Michale and Andy discuss resentment and how it affects relationships. They explore what makes it so corrosive in relationships and how to address it.
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Episode 81
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39:36
080: Mental Health Diagnosis
In today's episode Michael and Andy discuss the value of mental health diagnosis and what to watch out for in the day of social media and mental health TikTok.
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Episode 80
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40:19
079: Guidance for a Strong Marriage
In this episode Michael Medley offers some guidance and keys to help improve your marriage and relationships. There are some clear patterns that show up in intimate relationships, being able to recognize these patterns in yourself and your marr...
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38:50
078: Book Review - The 7 LOVE Agreements by Douglas Weiss
In this episode Michael Medley, LPC give a brief book review of The 7 LOVE Agreements by Douglas Weiss. These agreements will help to improve your relationship and increase intimacy. The 7 LOVE Agreements include: 1. Faithfulness, 2. Patience, ...
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077: How to Find the Right Therapist for YOU
In today's episode Michael and Andy break down several ways you can vet therapists to find the best fit for you! They cover the value of the free 15 minute consult most therapists offer, what questions to ask a potential therapist, red flags to...
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36:44
076: When Self Care Becomes Avoidance
In today's episode Michael and Andy discuss how valuable self care routines can be- but how they can also turn into something more like avoidance.
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Episode 76
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39:39
075: Guilt vs Shame
In today's show Michael and Andy unpack the difference between guilt and shame and more importantly- how to address your shame when you do experience it.
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Episode 75
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35:44
074: Emotional Regulation
In today's episode Michael & Andy break down emotional regulation and how to improve it in 5 steps!
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Episode 74
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48:49
073: EMDR Therapy
In today's episode Michael and Andy break down EMDR therapy- what it is, why it's so effective, and some common misconceptions about it. Enjoy!
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Episode 73
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45:56
072: Developing Assertiveness
What is assertiveness and how do I develop it in a healthy manner?Assertiveness is the ability to say what you need, want, feel, or think in a positive, direct manner without being too aggressive or passive. Assertiveness allow...
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31:35
071: Codependency
Technical/Psychological Definition:Codependency is a dysfunctional relationship pattern in which individuals develop an excessive emotional or psychological reliance on another person, often to the detriment of their own well-being. It i...
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43:22
070: Different Types of Separation
Ep. 070 Types of SeparationsWhat are some reasons people may think about separation? The “Deal Breakers” vs the Small Perpetual Problems. (Othen times the “deal breakers” we proclaim in ...
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Episode 70
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43:24
069: New Years' Resolutions
“What’s one thing you’d like to accomplish this year?”Common Pitfalls with ResolutionsUse the SMART framework (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant,Time-bound).Staying Engaged with GoalsTrack Progress:○ Use apps, j...
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Episode 69
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42:49
068: Phubbing
In today's episode Michael and Andy discuss the phenomenon of "Phubbing" aka: snubbing somebody in your real life because your attention is on your phone. They break down research, ways to be self aware and not lose sight of valuable human conn...
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Season 1
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Episode 68
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39:16