There Are No Gays In Montana
Coming out can be hard, especially in rural America. There Are No Gays In Montana is a lifestyle podcast hosted by husbands Isaac Hunter and Tyler Nelson. Listen as they release episodes every other week and talk all things growing up gay in a state with more cows than people, let alone gay people (or gay cows). They cover topics like country music queer icons, coming out at work, and attending Catholic high school, while sharing stories of how they went from straight, closeted, college best friends to husbands.
Episodes
49 episodes
48 - Drunkapalooza (Part II)
Tyler sits down with Isaac and Ariel and shares the story behind his decision to stop drinking. We talk about recognizing a problem before hitting “rock bottom,” the shame that can come with asking for help, and what sobriety has looked like ov...
47 - Drunkapalooza (Part I)
How does someone decide to stop drinking? In this episode, we explore the drinking culture that shaped our lives—from Montana weekends and high school parties to college and queer nightlife—and how alcohol became tied to so many milestones. Thi...
46 - Delete Your Browser History
Consider us starstruck! Join the crew as they sit down with gay adult film star, Drew Valentino. They discuss changing careers in your thirties, reducing the stigma around sex work, and of course what makes a good scene!
45 - Pride 'Til The Cows Come Home
Wow you did it ya’ll, made it through Pride 2026. Tune in as Ariel, Tyler, and Isaac discuss their experiences at Missoula Pride and feature several interviews that took place. Happy Pride ya’ll!!!
44 - A Throuple Check-In
So you’re all three dating? Tyler and Isaac sit down with Zack, Jordan, and Matt to discuss multi-partner relationships and dynamics. They share the story of how they all three came together and how they navigate the many challenges that come w...
43 - Stay Together For The Gays (Part II)
We’re back for part two of Isaac and Tyler’s interview with Adam, tackling the topic of divorce. They discuss the importance of therapy, both for individuals and couples, how family impacts divorce, and what’s next after it’s all done.
42 - Stay Together For The Gays (Part I)
Tyler, Isaac, and Ariel catch up on travels, Tyler’s skydiving adventures in Hawaii, and deep tissue massages. Tyler and Isaac then sit down with their friend Adam and tackle the topic of divorce. They discuss the reality of relationships endin...
41 - We Were On A Break!!!
Annnnnnnd we’re back for our regularly scheduled programming with the season 3 premiere! Join Ariel, Isaac, and Tyler as they catch up on what’s been happening the last few months, including what’s coming up this season, the gayest things they’...
40 - Halloweason Finale
It’s the gayest time of the year! In this Halloween special and final episode of Season 2, Ariel, Tyler, and Isaac don their costumes, share hilarious stories, and reveal their favorite spooky movies. Highlights include a thrilling horror movie...
39 - A Gaggle Of Gays
Ariel returns! The gang sits down to talk about friend groups under the LGBTQIA+ umbrella. They dive into initial perceptions of gay friend groups, different friend group dynamics, and finding gay friends in your area.
38 - Two Acres And Some Chickens
Tyler and Isaac sit down with Karen, a real estate agent in Missoula, Montana and discuss the unique challenges and needs for LGBTQ+ people when buying a home. They dive into what makes Montana unique for queer living, what home trends are here...
37 - A Pop Star Will Be Assigned To You At Birth
Every gay boy is assigned a pop star at birth to relentlessly support throughout her career. In this special episode, Tyler discusses all things pop music, including why we love it, who are his favorites, and the tie between queer culture and p...
36 - Good Things Come In Threes
They say god doesn’t give with both hands, but sometimes he gives with all three! Tyler and Isaac sit down with Libby, Greg, and Karl, three queer siblings from middle America. They discuss the queer sibling bond, queer family dynamics, and gro...
35 - Our Millennial Backs Hurt
The gang sits down and talks Millennialism - the good, the bad, and the cringe. They discuss the age of dial up, millennial stereotypes, and the relationship with other generations.
34 - True Life: MTV Made Me Gay
Tyler and Isaac welcome Ariel back and discuss influential queer TV and movies. They cover what’s been happening lately, including Ariel preparing to go back to school and Isaac and Tyler’s Cowboy Carter experience.
33 - Two Houses Down (Part II)
Welcome back for Part II as Isaac and Tyler continue their conversation with Dominic, including advice for allies and parents! Dominic was also gracious enough to answer several listener questions!
32 - Two Houses Down (Part I)
Tyler and Isaac are joined by Dominic, a trans man who grew up in Billings, Montana. They discuss Dominic's experiences of coming out as a trans-masculine individual, his early encounters with queer media, and the support from his family. Domin...
31 - Missoula Pride
Join Isaac and Tyler as they provide Ariel with a recap of Missoula Pride!
30 - Pride Is The New Black
Happy Pride! Isaac and Tyler discuss why Pride feels different this year, what they want to get out of Pride this year, and check in with a special guest at World Pride.
29 - Maneater
The team sits down to discuss toxic masculinity, what it means, how it impacts the queer community, and most importantly how it continues to rear its ugly head in society today.
28 - Are You Mad At Me?
We’ve all seen it. Swarms of bride tribes storming gay bars to let us all know “SHE’S GETTING MARRIED!” That’s right, this week Isaac and Tyler sit down with friend-of-the-pod and current bride-to-be, Lex, to discuss the ins and outs of bachelo...
27 - Poly Pocket Guide
Couples, throuples, comets, kitchen table, garden party… what does it all mean! Ariel, Isaac, and Tyler bring back Phil from season one to discuss poly relationships and modern dating.
26 - Eatin' Good In The Gayborhood
Isaac and Tyler explore discuss the history and significance of LGBTQ+ neighborhoods. From the origins in post-WWII America to vibrant communities like Seattle’s Capitol Hill and budding areas like White Center, they delve into why these spaces...