There Are No Gays In Montana
Coming out can be hard, especially in rural America. There Are No Gays In Montana is a lifestyle podcast hosted by husbands Isaac Hunter and Tyler Nelson. Listen as they release episodes every other week and talk all things growing up gay in a state with more cows than people, let alone gay people (or gay cows). They cover topics like country music queer icons, coming out at work, and attending Catholic high school, while sharing stories of how they went from straight, closeted, college best friends to husbands.
Episodes
28 episodes
27 - Poly Pocket Guide
Couples, throuples, comets, kitchen table, garden party… what does it all mean! Ariel, Isaac, and Tyler bring back Phil from season one to discuss poly relationships and modern dating.
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Season 2
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Episode 5
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1:16:10
26 - Eatin' Good In The Gayborhood
Isaac and Tyler explore discuss the history and significance of LGBTQ+ neighborhoods. From the origins in post-WWII America to vibrant communities like Seattle’s Capitol Hill and budding areas like White Center, they delve into why these spaces...
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Season 2
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Episode 4
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1:05:35
25 - Roll Those Sleeves Up!
The TANGIM crew welcomes their first straight guest! Welcome, Jordan, Isaac and Tyler’s BFF, ally, and wedding officiant. This week they talk what it means to be a good ally in 2025.
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Season 2
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Episode 3
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1:09:18
24 - Gaybe Lincoln
Was Abe Lincoln gay? The team sits down to discuss the gay “glow-up”, the joys of puberty, and the many metamorphosis(es) they have each gone through over the years.
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Season 2
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Episode 2
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1:00:49
23 - Turning Haight Into Love
We’re back! Hosts Isaac, Tyler, and Ariel catch up and highlight the new and improved podcast studio, expressing their excitement about returning for Season 2. The trio talk about plans for the season and the topics they want to focus on, inclu...
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Season 2
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Episode 1
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1:16:45
22 - Looking Both Ways
In this bonus episode, the team sits down for group therapy to talk about the presidential election. Hang in there everyone, we'll get through this together.
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Season 1
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Episode 22
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1:16:53
21 - Absolutely Hell Yeah
Happy Halloween! Ariel, Isaac, and Tyler sit down and recap a season full of laughs, top moments, and this year’s best Halloween costumes. But have no fear, the team will be back in early 2025!
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Season 1
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Episode 21
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1:04:21
20 - Theology Of The Body
Mom, you can go ahead and skip this one! The crew sits down with their friend Phil and tackles the tantalizing subjects of their own sexual actualizations, learning to own their personal sexual confidence post-coming out. Listen as they swap aw...
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Season 1
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Episode 20
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1:34:49
19 - My Husband Just Called Me Ugly
Isaac and Tyler sit down with Kyle and Kaleb, hosts of fellow Seattle gay podcast, Unfamously Unwell. They talk body image, the gay glow up, and what it means to be hot today.
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Season 1
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Episode 19
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1:07:28
18 - Am I The Gay Cousin?
The husbands sit down with Andy (Isaac’s youngest cousin) and Ethan, two twenty-something gay Montanans living in Bozeman. They discuss dating in small towns (think Grindr grids with 50+ mile radiuses), Montana gay nightlife, and the difference...
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Season 1
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Episode 18
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1:37:56
17 - Marching Band On Horses
Join Ariel, Isaac, and Tyler as they sit down with Ariel’s partner, Allison (Alli) and discuss growing up gay in Tucson, the best (and worst) of school lunches, and queer representation in the medical field.
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Season 1
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Episode 17
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1:31:22
16 - Slay And Pray
Can you be traditionally religious and an ally? Ariel, Isaac, and Tyler are back this week to dive into the complex relationship between organized religion and LGBTQ+ acceptance.
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Season 1
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Episode 16
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1:01:43
15 - General Sins
Hate the sin not the sinner! This week the team talks religion, growing up religious (and not), and of course the time-honored tale of being gay and religious.
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Season 1
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Episode 15
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1:24:31
14 - You’re Going To Paris!
Can sports be… gay? This week the team sits down with the boys’ kickball team captain, Brett, to talk sports. They discuss sports everyone played growing up, finding your queer community through sports, and something called naked dodgeball.
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Season 1
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Episode 14
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1:08:06
13 - My Big Fat Montana Wedding
The husbands sit down with Ariel and talk weddings, both gay and straight. They cover what’s in and out with today’s weddings, highlights from their own wedding, and finally lay The Cupid Shuffle to rest.
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Season 1
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Episode 13
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1:13:13
12 - Not Just A Parade
Happy Pride!!! The husbands dive into Pride month with Ariel and discuss their first Prides, what Pride is now, and hot topics around the gayest month of the year (besides Christmas). And yes, all bisexual women and their boyfriends are welcome...
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Season 1
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Episode 12
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1:32:09
11 - A Second Sapphic Moment
Welcome back for part 2! Ariel, Isaac, and Tyler jump back in where they left off with Kayla, starting with their coming out journey involving a booze cruise and a hot tub. The gang also answers the age old question: Is their beef between lesbi...
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Season 1
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Episode 11
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1:10:36
10 - A Sapphic Moment
Tyler and Isaac team up with Ariel and longtime friend, Kayla, to discuss what it's like for non-men to come out. They talk homoerotic friendships, the language of lesbians, and the extent we will go to suppress our gayness before we realize it...
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Season 1
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Episode 10
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1:15:38
09 - Awaywell
Join the husbands on location this week in spectacular Italy! They talk gay travel, best destinations, nightlife abroad, and dig into why gays love to travel.
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Season 1
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Episode 9
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1:10:32
08 - Professional Gays
Sadly, we live in a time where gay people still have to have jobs. This week the husbands chat with Ariel about their professional journeys and being out at work.
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Season 1
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Episode 8
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1:14:35
07 - Theater Kids With Power Tools
Isaac and Tyler join friends, Matt and Reed, as they share their high school experience while being gay and out at Catholic school.
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Season 1
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Episode 7
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1:23:15
06 - “No Homo”coming King
A prom king and a homecoming king walk into a high school dance… Join the boys this week as they talk high school sports, girlfriends, and dead deer on the bus.
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Season 1
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Episode 6
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1:15:07
05 - A Pint Of Coming Out Courage
Sometimes it just takes the tiniest bit of courage and a 16oz pale ale. In this week’s episode, Isaac shares his coming out story with Tyler and Ariel. The gang then breaks down best and worse responses to someone coming out, why it’s okay if...
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Season 1
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Episode 5
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54:54
04 - Countdown To "Out"
So you're together! Now what? Tyler shares his coming out story with Isaac and Ariel, divulging the details along the way. He covers counting down the seconds right before telling his parents and special moments with his siblings. The gang then...
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Season 1
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Episode 4
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1:03:05