Brother Sister Whatever
A sibling podcast for Gen X + Xennials about midlife, nostalgia, and everything adulthood forgot to warn us about.
Real talk, retro vibes, and weekly chaos — every Thursday with Lisa & Josh.
Subscribe to join the sibling spiral and pull up a seat on the couch!
Episodes
30 episodes
90s Halloween: More Fun or Just Less Supervised?
Lisa didn’t grow up celebrating Halloween. James was the kid with a pillowcase and a plan. In this episode we unpack why Halloween feels so good, the psychology of “fun fear,” what it’s like to grow up outside the party, and how that past shows...
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Season 2
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Episode 5
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33:31
Family Dynamics: Golden Child vs. Scapegoat
We unpack the family roles we never asked for and why Gen X kids grew up in what was essentially a live-in social experiment, exploring how birth order impacts everything from our place in the family to our adult relationships.• Birth o...
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Season 2
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Episode 4
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30:12
Friendship Fades: Were 90s Connections Real or Just Convenient?
We dive into the evolution of friendships from childhood to adulthood, questioning whether our 90s connections were genuinely deep or merely convenient based on proximity. Through personal stories and listener questions, we explore how friendsh...
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Season 2
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Episode 3
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35:56
The Dark Side of HUSTLE Culture: Work Life Balance is BULLSHIT
Did having it all actually just mean running on empty for 30 years straight? This question hits at the heart of our exploration into the Gen X hustle myth and why an entire generation traded play for productivity.Growing up watching par...
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Season 2
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Episode 2
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38:09
Childhood Memories of the 90s: The Truth (and the Lies) We Still Tell
Childhood Memories of the 90s—take a trip back to when photo albums were the real cloud storage, Dunkaroos were currency, and siblings could live the same day but remember it completely differently.In this episode, Lisa and Josh dive de...
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Season 2
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Episode 1
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43:51
Start Here: 90s Nostalgia, Sibling Sass & Midlife Realness
Welcome to Brother Sister Whatever — the podcast where growing up GenX or Xennial meant chasing streetlights, drinking from the hose, and emotionally imprinting on after-school specials.Hosted by real-life siblings Lisa (the bu...
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Season 2
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Episode 1
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0:48
Sibling Reflections: Finding Our Podcast Voice
We made it. 24 episodes later, Season One is officially a wrap. What started with Lisa’s fear of recording and Josh’s “let’s just wing it” energy has grown into something real: a structured (but still chaotic) sibling podcast built o...
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Season 1
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Episode 24
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25:26
The Weekly What If: A Beautiful Mess Ends
Josh and Lisa say goodbye to their most chaotic segment ever, the Weekly What If, revisiting six favorite questions and debuting two brand new ones to open and close this beautiful mess.• Josh would choose to live in Dragon Ball Z as Go...
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Season 1
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Episode 23
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25:19
The Lies We Tell Ourselves – A Candid Rewatch
What’s the lie you tell yourself the most? “I don’t care what people think”? “I’ll do it later”? “I’m fine”?In this reflective rewatch of our most-downloaded episode ever, Lisa and Josh revisit The Lies We Tell Ourselves—and thi...
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Season 1
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Episode 22
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24:15
Self-Care or Self-Indulgence? A Candid Rewatch
What’s the difference between real self-care and just...numbing out? In this rewatch of one of our most popular episodes, Lisa and Josh break down the blurred line between authentic self-care and self-indulgent habits that leave y...
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Season 1
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Episode 21
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22:13
90s Summers: Bikes, Mosquitoes, and No Cell Phones
Remember when summer meant biking until the streetlights came on, catching fireflies, and dodging the neighbor’s terrifying dog? In this nostalgia-heavy episode, we’re throwing it back to the 90s—when summer was sticky, chaotic, and absolutely ...
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Season 1
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Episode 20
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18:26
Best of the Best: Comfort Edition - Real Talk, Cozy Chaos
Lisa and Josh explore their favorite comfort items, foods, smells, and sounds while debating what makes something truly comforting in this cozy episode.• Weekly What-If: What if every comfort item became illegal – what would you smuggle...
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Season 1
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Episode 19
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25:17
We Tried to Heal. Now We’re Tired.
Ever wondered if all this self-improvement stuff is actually making us better—or just making us obsessed? Josh and Lisa dive headfirst into the complicated world of modern self-help, questioning when personal growth becomes a personality trait ...
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Season 1
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Episode 18
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31:41
Obsession Nation – Cosplay, Swifties & the Heroes Who Raised Us
Fandoms aren’t just about celebrities or fictional characters—they’re emotional homes where we process feelings, celebrate obsession, and find community through shared passion.In this episode, Lisa and Josh dive into the world of ...
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Season 1
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Episode 17
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31:03
The Radical Act of Doing Nothing
We explore the powerful concept of doing absolutely nothing—and why that might be the most revolutionary act of self-care in a world obsessed with hustle. From battling the guilt that creeps in when we rest to carving out sacred spaces for flop...
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Season 1
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Episode 16
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25:39
FOMO: The Emotional Cocktail We Can't Stop Drinking
We dive deep into the psychology of FOMO, exploring why we feel it, how it impacts our mental health, and whether we're actually missing out or just falling for an illusion fueled by social media. This conversation reveals universal truths abou...
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Season 1
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Episode 15
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26:42
Regrets: The Silent Ghosts That Follow Us
We take a deep dive into regrets that have shaped our lives, exploring the moments that haunt us and the lessons they've taught us along the way. From financial missteps to spending too much time on other people, we share personal stories about...
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Season 1
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Episode 14
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19:24
Touch Grass, Save Your Brain: Our Wild Outdoor Confessions
We explore our complicated relationship with the outdoors, sharing personal stories about camping, swimming fears, and the surprising psychological benefits of reconnecting with nature.• Weekly “What If”: Could we survive a week complete...
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Season 1
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Episode 13
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22:00
Tiny Irritations, Big Reactions
Ever wonder why certain tiny behaviors can trigger such a disproportionate emotional response? From the person who places their phone face-down during your conversation (a sign of respect or subtle disrespect?) to the maddening habit of leaving...
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Season 1
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Episode 12
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19:10
The Art of Leisure: Exploring Personal Passions and Creative Outlets
What transforms a simple activity into a meaningful hobby? Is it the joy of creation, the thrill of skill-building, or perhaps the escape it provides from everyday pressures? In this thought-provoking episode, we peel back the laye...
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Season 1
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Episode 11
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34:05
Introvert, Extrovert, or Something In-Between?
Are you truly an introvert, extrovert, or something else entirely? This captivating exploration of personality types ventures beyond simplistic labels to uncover the fluid nature of our social batteries and how they shape our interactions.<...
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Season 1
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Episode 10
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19:38
The Lies We Live: Self Deception Uncovered
Have you ever considered the powerful effect of the lies we tell ourselves? In this enlightening episode, we explore the insidious narratives that creep into our daily lives, often clouding our self-perception and preventing us from realizing o...
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Season 1
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Episode 9
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21:28
Skills, Aging, and the Pursuit of Wisdom
What if you could instantly become a master of any skill, just like in "The Matrix"? Join us as we entertain this tantalizing thought experiment on "Brother, Sister, Whatever." Lisa dreams of mastering kung fu and jiu-jitsu for the empowerment ...
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Season 1
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Episode 8
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23:56
When Technology Meets the Dinner Table
Have you ever wondered how technology might be quietly altering the fabric of your family life? Join us, Lisa and Josh, on "Brother, Sister. Whatever" as we unpack this pressing question, sharing personal stories and insights along the way. We'...
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Season 1
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Episode 7
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31:52
Balancing Wellness with Simple Joys
This episode delves into the fine line between self-care and self-indulgence, exploring how we can nurture ourselves meaningfully without falling into the trap of excess. With personal insights and discussions on the impact of social media, we ...
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Season 1
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Episode 6
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17:29