Getting Out With Jesse Xander
Raw, unfiltered, conversations and interviews filled with laughter.
Getting Out is Hosted By Me, Jesse Xander, Im a singer/songwriter, musician, and audio engineer…..oh yeah, I’m also an ex con and a recovering addict. I spent 3 years in prison, during the covid pandemic and locked down 24 hours a day for the majority of my time. So every day is a gift that I have to remind myself to even open.
I spent most of my young life in the Entertainment industry. I had the privilege to work with artists such as The Sugar Hill Gang, Biz Markie, Poppa Don, Inner Party System, Ty Wiz and many others but before I knew it I was in sooo deep I didn't think id ever be able to GET OUT, let alone repair all the damage I caused. But I’m alive and I’m free.
I started Getting Out to tackle topics such as addiction, mental health and Prison Life-which comes with stories of loved ones passing and a lot of pain. But also stories of redemption and over coming. GETTING OUT gives us a chance to look at ourselves our past mistakes, and hopefully help someone that is dealing with something similar.. Or maybe you’re just interested in what prison life is like and want a good laugh? We got you.
Learn to laugh at the person you were, use your mistakes as your personal super power.
So lets get out together!
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New VIDEOS every week so if you don’t see it here check our YouTube! But I will be posting a lot more audio only content in the years to come. Thank you all for listening and watching, the show wouldn't exist without your support!
A Say I wont Production
Episodes
73 episodes
When A Scam Goes Off The Rails
A phone scam doesn’t usually end with sirens, a body cam, and a courtroom verdict, but that’s exactly where this story goes. We start with an elderly Ohio man calling 911 and admitting he shot a woman outside his home, convinced he’s being targ...
Unmasking The Epstein Files
The doors swung open on more than three million “unredacted” files, and what we found was a maze: survivors named in full view while alleged co‑conspirators stayed cloaked behind fresh black bars. People are not taking this sitting down and man...
How Slavery Survived & What Prison Labor Reveals About America
Slavery didn’t vanish—it moved behind prison walls. We pull back the curtain on the 13th Amendment’s punishment clause, the economics of captive labor, and why a system built on coercion and deprivation keeps people cycling back inside. Through...
Why We Laugh At Disaster And Marvel At A Bridge Carved Through A Mountain
We react to a couple hilarious police clips, talk frankly about choices and consequences, then hold a QUICK mirror to U.S. healthcare. After we take a tour a record breaking, mountain-splitting Chinese megabridge that doubles as a tourist magne...
Exposing A Corrupt Cop
A badge can feel like a promise: safety, order, truth. Tirzah thought she found all three when a detective slipped her his number under the guise of neighborhood safety. What followed was a masterclass in manipulation—love-bombing, boundary tes...
From Traffic Stop To Power Trip: How Policing Breeds Distrust
We examine a couple of traffic stops, like an older driver who refuses field sobriety tests yet offers to take a breathalyzer, but the cop refuses. He’s a little unsteady, his words slur a bit, and his life experience shows in his posture. BUT!...
Timbaland's New A.I. Artist TATA
We return after loss and health scares to unpack a storm in music tech: AI tools that help creators versus AI “artists” that replace them. From layered kicks to lawsuits, we draw a line between inspiration and extraction and make a case for hum...
From Candy To Kung Fu: When Halloween Turns Into A Jackie Chan Appreciation Party
A Halloween episode that trades jump scares for jaw‑dropping stunts—we swap costume nostalgia for a watch‑along deep dive into Jackie Chan’s legendary craft. From knives and fans to breakaway chairs and wire work, we peel back how choreography,...
Getting Out #65 Diddy or Diddy Not Get Exposed By Kat Williams?
Is the entertainment industry a web of deception, or are we simply not looking closely enough?" Join us for a deep dive into the shadowy corridors of fame, where ethical dilemmas and rapid rises to stardom seem to dance hand in hand. Drawing fr...
Getting Out #64 Are You A Racist? Sweet Baby Inc Will Tell You?
Adam and Johnny are back! take a seat or stand up and join us as we talk about the stark contrasts between the American and British education systems. We can't help but voice our concerns for the current state of U.S. public schools, calling fo...
Getting Out #63 Black Mirror, Trippy Stories! "Life Is Like Watching TV"
"Black Mirror" on Netflix and the game-changing "Bandersnatch" choose your own adventure episode! Or The episode that started it all! The recording eyes! You know what I mean if you know what I mean! Join us as we bring the Goosebumps and...
Getting Out #62 Adam & Johnny From Pork Pies To Staten Island Slices
Meet Adam and Johnny, 2 brothers from England, with a Staten Island accent! The Outcast family keeps getting bigger! SO tune in as Adam shares his recent hospitalisation, and his unexpected admiration for hospital food, im sorry Staten Islands ...
Getting Out #61 Breaking The Cycle & Creating Inner Wealth w/ Miles Santo
From Dentist to Shaman: How after spending 8 years in school chasing a degree and building up his fathers Dentist Office. He’s decided to leave that all behind in search of a bigger and brighter pursuit….The pursuit of happiness. The real ameri...
#60 Sock Mix-Ups, & Cleaning Insights " Trump Socks"
Let's clean the Studio! Its Make Over Time!From modern cleaning gadgets to nostalgic TV marathons, we’ve got your interests covered. We rave about a vacuum-mop hybrid that’s as powerful as Amsterdam's Red Light District! We can't ...
Ep 59 Topgolf, A Rich Mans Game? UPDATE:Glenwoood Health Hurdles
KDGs first time at Top Golf! Where every swing comes with a story and a "PING". KDG turns a Driving Range outing into a fierce competition. Full of mulligans and of course his own rules. While Jesse explains why he is afraid to hit off of a rub...
Ep 58 | Getting Out, On The Couch! Im Gonna Be An Uncle!!
This week we are on the couch and hopefully by th end of the week, you'll be able to find us where ever else you'd like to listen or yes watch us, EVEN SPOTIFY Video. So Thank You ALL so much for sticking with us for the last few months as we h...
Ep 57 | Personal Growth is Dipping Cold Pizza in Hot Coffee! Life Changing!
This episode we kick things off with a lighthearted debate on color perception and the quirky origins of words and last names. personal reflections, where I commend KD for his incredible focus on personal growth and staying drama-free. You'll h...
EP56 Clairvoyant Dreams, Using Comedy to Get Through Traumatic Times w/ Special Guest
What happens when you blend comedy, trauma, and a dash of clairvoyance? You get an episode jam-packed with emotional highs and lows, where we start by laughing about the social perceptions of weed and the differences between looking high and ac...
Ep 55 Laughing Through Life’s Challenges and Hidden Dangers
Being one of the lucky ones, battling through addiction and coming out the other side, I try to look at it like I was rewarded with a rare percpective and an even more invaluable toolkit of life skills. We get real about the struggle, the trium...
Ep54 LIFE Lessons: Just Because you Haven't Been to Jail Doesn't Mean Your A Good Person
I’m gonna start this with a quote from my wise Co-Host “Some people are really good actors until you hit record.” Drs are some of the best……”Here try this, see how you feel and come back in a month" you go home look up the side effects fo...
Ep53 We Should All Be Watching These Octopus's, Is Antarctica Hiding Something?
Welcome to Getting Out the Podcast, where we turn dumpster dives into....well dumpster dives. Oh and is it Octopuses or Octopi ?🤷♂️ So many celebrity scandals going on you know we had to join in on these juicy gossip sessions. Ever find a chai...
Ep 52 Redefining Reality with Terrence Howard & ChatGPT4o
What if everything we learned about math was wrong? Terrence Howard, the guy from 'Empire' and 'Hustle & Flow,' seems to think so. Join us as we dive into his wild and controversial ideas about math and energy. Can he really change our unde...
Ep51 How My Mother Met My Father/A Chance Encounters on the B Train
Twists of fate and chance encounters shape our stories, just as they shaped my mothers astonishing 45-year marriage, which all started with a glance on the B train. Join us as we explore the unpredictable nature of life, from the eerie reco...
S02EP50 FINALLY Jesse Gives Us A Sneak Peak From His Upcoming EP
We made it! 50 episodes! Next week we have our Mothers day Special, and we celebrate our 52nd episode which means a year worth of episodes!!! This week I sit down with my right hand man, ride or die Mr KDG!!! We talk about what to expect in his...
S02Ep49 Robots, Taking Over A Drive-Thru Near You, Time Travel, & Are You A Racist?
Ever found yourself laughing at the idea of a robot handing you your burger at the drive-thru? Well, that's exactly where we start our latest episode—dissecting the AI revolution in Texan fast-food joints, and how it's indicative of the chang...