Everyday Life: After Dark
****Mature Audiences ONLY!****
**New episodes every Friday **
This is the content we can't talk about on Everyday Life: Conversations Over Coffee.
This is the Adult side of things, where we discuss where we met, what we actually did and the weekly (if not daily) craziness we faced.
We also will be discussing tips and tricks to make your After Dark time a little more spicy!
Artwork:Silence by geralt
Episodes
33 episodes
An Intimate Definition
Jen and Dagda explore the true meaning of intimacy beyond sex. After a miscommunication with her partner, Jen defends her perspective that intimacy exists in all relationships—with friends, family, customers, and partners. They discuss close pe...
The Power of No
Jen and Dagda dive deep into the power of no—setting boundaries, dealing with people who won't take no for an answer, and learning to say no for yourself. This is a raw, honest, and deeply personal conversation about consent, bo...
Tantra Thoughts
Jen and Dagda explore the true meaning of Tantra—far beyond its popular association with sex. This episode dives into Tantra as a holistic spiritual practice focused on self-mastery, balance, and weaving together all aspects of life....
Kama Sutra : Principles
Jen and Dagda wrap up their Kama Sutra deep dive by exploring the four sutras (rules of philosophy): Dharma (code of conduct, societal rules, moral duties), Artha (wealth, career, financial security), Moksha...
Kama Sutra : Intimacy
Jen and Dagda continue their Kama Sutra deep dive, this time focusing on intimacy, foreplay, and the difference between intimacy and sex. They explore the eight forms of embraces (four non-sexual for mutual love/respe...
Kama Sutra : Courtship
Jen and Dagda return after a 3 week break to dive deep into the Kama Sutra—and no, it's not just a sex manual! Jen spent a week researching the ancient Hindu text penned by Vatsyana, revealing it's actually a comprehensive g...
Cause To Pause
Jen and Dagda pop in for a short but important episode to explain why After Dark is taking a brief hiatus. Between Patreon flagging their BDSM history episode over content warnings, both hosts landing new jobs, and th...
Good Vibrations
From snow in March to sex toys in the 1800s, Jen and Dagda take you on a wild, NSFW tour of the history of vibrators and how a serious medical tool became a cultural lightning rod.They start cozy and chaotic with:Mid-M...
Legally Brotheled
Sinus hell, sleep paralysis demons, and a serious question: what if brothels were legal and regulated instead of shoved into the shadows?Jen and Dagda return to AfterDark after an intense BDSM history run and dive into:
Oh Gooner, Why Art Thou?
Jen and Dagda take a hilariously unfiltered ride from irrational tooth-based paranoia to the bizarre online world of sexting, gooning, and coded internet slang.They start with childhood trauma, crunchy snacks that crack teeth, and...
Sade De Sacher-Masoch: Their Stories
In this eye-opening episode, Jen completes her deep dive into the origins of sadomasochism, exploring the fascinating and disturbing histories behind the terms. She begins with Leopold Ritter von Sacher-Masoch, the 19th-century Austrian writer ...
Disciplined By Submission
Jen and Dagda conclude their deep dive into BDSM by exploring the discipline and submission aspects of the lifestyle. This episode covers critical safety warnings for suspension and self-bondage, the importance of mental health awareness, and h...
Bound By Curiosity
Jen and Dagda continue their deep dive into BDSM education with a comprehensive exploration of bondage practices. This episode breaks down the different types of bondage—from purpose bondage and decorative bondage to torture bondage, film bonda...
Spanks For AssKing
Jen and Dagda dive headfirst into the world of BDSM in this educational and surprisingly hilarious episode. From breaking down what BDSM actually stands for (bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism) to exploring the roles of tops, bottoms, switc...
Just a Gigolo
Ever wondered about the real history behind the term "gigolo"? In this fascinating After Dark episode, Jen takes Dagda (and listeners) on a wild research journey exploring the evolution of gigolos from elegant dance companions in the 1920s to m...
Bad Romance
Ever wonder where romance novels really came from? Spoiler alert: they're way older (and way dirtier) than you think! After being called a "book nerd," Jen dives deep into the fascinating history of romance literature—from ancient Greek tales i...
Tourist Trap
What started as innocent research into the sex positivity movement took a wild detour when Jen stumbled upon the world of female sex tourism—and now the FBI might be watching! In this eye-opening episode, Jen and Dagda explore the surprising ph...
Hello Dolly!
Join Jen and Dagda for a fascinating and hilariously unfiltered exploration into the world of sex dolls. From the 17th-century "Dutch wives" used by sailors to the high-tech, AI-responsive "Robo-Dolls" of today, this episode tracks the evolutio...
Slippery Slope
Join Jen and Dagda for an educational and hilariously candid conversation about personal lubrication. From ancient China's seaweed extract in 600 BC to the Greeks' olive oil experiments, discover the fascinating (and sometimes questionable) his...
What's Under There
Join Jen and Dagna as they dive into the fascinating and hilarious history of underwear! From ancient loincloths to modern jock straps, discover how undergarments evolved through the centuries. Learn about Lady Duff-Gordon's emotional gow...
Dil Doul
Join Jen and Dagda as they dive deep into the hilariously educational history of dildos! From prehistoric discoveries dating back 12,000-50,000 years to the Hohle Fels Cave in Germany, this episode explores humanity's long-standing relationship...
Agnes, Mabel and Beckie
Ever wonder why that romantic beach scene isn't so sexy in reality? Jen and Dagda kick things off discussing the impracticality of sand, food, and intimacy before diving deep into the surprisingly fascinating history of condoms. From Gabriele F...
Behind the Blue Movie
Jen and Dagda explore the evolution of adult cinema from stag films to the Golden Age of Porn. This episode examines Andy Warhol's groundbreaking "Blue Movie" (1969), which accidentally got its name from using the wrong film stock, and cost onl...
Merry Christmas Molly Mouse!
In this special holiday episode listen in as Jen presents an adult re-imagining of a Christmas story. Molly Mouse eagerly awaits Santa's arrival on Christmas Eve, but when the jolly man in red shows up, the evening takes an unexpect...
Porno Graphein and a little Obscene
Join Jen and Dagda as they explore the fascinating and often surprising history of pornography, from 35,000-year-old cave paintings to early 20th-century cinema. Drawing on their experience running a porn shop, the hosts trace how society's rel...
