SUITT & BOOT
SUITT & BOOT: Standing Up in Truth & Transformation / Breaking Out of Trauma
From Scorpion to Eagle to Phoenix, this isn’t just a podcast — it’s a movement.
Hosted by Tshai N. Wright, Esq., attorney, storyteller, and survivor, SUITT & BOOT is where silence shatters and stories rise. Each episode dives into the hidden layers of trauma, resilience, and rebirth — from childhood wounds to adult awakenings — showing how pain can become purpose and truth can set us free.
Through unfiltered conversations with survivors, visionaries, and change-makers, Tshai explores how we break generational patterns, rebuild self-worth, and rise stronger from the ashes.
💬 Real stories.
🔥 Real healing.
🕊️ Real transformation.
Because standing up in your truth isn’t weakness — it’s freedom.
And when we speak, the chains break.
SUITT & BOOT — Breaking the chains of silence, one story at a time.
Episodes
24 episodes
You’re not the only woman in that relationship. S2 Ep8
You’re not the only woman in that relationship.In this episode of SUITT and Boot, we break down the mother wound in men and how unresolved family dynamics show up in love.If you’ve ever felt like you were competing f...
S2 Ep7- From Father Wound to Mother Wound: The Pattern That Keeps You Stuck
In this episode of SUITT and Boot (Standing Up In Truth, Transformation, and breaking out of trauma), we close the loop on the father wound—and step into a deeper truth:The father wound may be why you chase it… but the...
How Your Father Wound Is Costing You Money (Mine Cost Me $144,000)
What if your trauma isn’t just affecting your relationships… but your income?In this episode of SUITT and Boot, Tshai Wright shares how her father wound showed up in business—and led to $144,000 in unpaid invoices. From ove...
Daddy’s Little Girl, No More: How to Break the Father Wound Cycle | SUITT and Boot S2 Ep5
You don’t have a “relationship problem.” You have a pattern.In this episode of SUITT and Boot, I close the father wound series by showing you exactly how the cycle keeps repeating—and more importantly, how to break it.
STOP BLAMING "BAD MEN", YOUR FIRST LOVE SET THE STANDARD
In this episode of Suitt & Boot, we delve deeper into daddy issues how they frame relationships. From the first man who taught you what love looks like…to the relationships you keep repeating…to the moment you finally w...
SE EP3 “You Don’t Have Trust Issues… You Have a Father Wound (The Truth About Daddy Issues)”
There is a wound that doesn’t look like a wound. It looks like love. It looks like protection. It looks like “daddy’s little girl.”But what happens when the first man you trusted… is the one w...
Season 2 Ep 2 -From Betrayal to Power: How I Took My Reign Back
What happens when the identity you’ve built your life on… breaks?In this deeply personal episode of Suitt & Boot, Tshai shares how hidden truths about her father, her marriage, and her family forced her to confront something...
Season 2 Episode 1: Survival vs Sovereignty — Teck Back Your Reign
Many of us believe we are in control of our lives.But what if the instincts guiding your decisions were built in survival mode?In this Season 2 premiere of Suitt & Boot, Tshai Wright explores the powerful difference bet...
Episode 12B – The Scorphenegle Reflection (Season 1 Finale)
There is no guest this week.Only integration.In this powerful Season 1 finale, Tshai reflects on every story shared throughout SUITT & BOOT — through the Scorphenegle framework:Scorpion. Eagle. Phoenix...
Episode 12A: Melissa Wilson — From Survival to Sovereignty
At five years old, she prayed every night for her father to come home.She thought if she was a “good girl,” he would return.In this episode of Suit & Boot: Standing Up in Truth & Transformation, Melissa Wilson — a...
Episode 11- The Origins of Survival roles
Episode 11: The Origins of Survival RolesIn this episode, Tshai Wright traces the origins of the scapegoat, fixer, and people-pleaser roles back to their roots in generational survival systems.Rather than focusing on indivi...
Episode 10: After Awareness — When You Can’t Go Back
Once you realize you’ve been the scapegoated child, the fixer, or the people pleaser, there’s no going back.But what happens after that realization?In this episode of SUITT & BOOT, Tshai Wright explores the mos...
EPISODE 9 — The Invisibility Wound | When the Fixer Feels Unseen
In this solo Episode 9 of SUITT & BOOT, Tshai Wright explores the invisibility wound — the loneliness that forms when you grow up as the fixer, the scapegoated child, or the people pleaser.This episode examines what hap...
EPISODE 8-When Success Is a Trauma Response | The Father Wound, Survival Roles & Scorphenegle Healing
In Episode 8 of SUITT & BOOT, host Tshai Wright speaks with Jessica Carisse, founder of Carisse Consulting and host of Connecting the Dots, about childhood trauma, the father wound, and how survival often shows up as s...
Episode 7: The Scapegoated Child, the Fixer, and the Family System That Creates Trauma
In this episode of SUITT & BOOT, Tshai shares her lived experience growing up inside a family system where trauma wasn’t a single event — it was a pattern. This episode explores how children who grow up without...
After the Holidays: When Your Body Crashes but Nothing “Happened”
In this episode of SUITT & BOOT, Tshai speaks directly to the post-holiday emotional crash that so many people experience, especially those healing from family trauma, boundary violations, or unspoken relational tension. <...
You Don’t Owe Family Access
The holidays can be hard—especially when family dynamics are painful or triggering.This short SUITT & BOOT bonus episode isn’t about fixing your family. It’s about getting through the holidays with your nervous system intact...
Episode 6 | From Prison to Power: Susan’s Transformation Story
Episode 6 | From Prison to Power: Susan’s Transformation StoryIn this episode of SUITT & BOOT, host Tshai Wright sits down with entrepreneur, cultural curator, and survivor Susan Smallwood, joined by resident therapist Jianny,...
EPISODE 5 — Generational Trauma & Breaking the Cycle
EPISODE 5 — Generational Trauma & Breaking the Cycle 🔥 Get the 30-Day Guided Healing Journal: https://a.co/d/fDCUrBzIn this powerful conversation, Tshai and Licensed Mental Health Counselor Jianny Adamo
EPISODE 4-THE MOTHER WOUND, THE FATHER WOUND, AND THE PATTERNS WE KEEP REPEATING UNTIL WE HEAL
In this powerful episode of SUITT & BOOT, licensed mental health counselor Gianny Adamo returns to break down two of the most defining forces in our emotional lives: the mother wound and the father wound.
Episode 3 — How Unhealed Trauma Shows Up in Love, Family & Identity (with Jianny Adamo, LMHC)
Episode 3 — How Unhealed Trauma Shows Up in Love, Family & Identity (with Jianny Adamo, LMHC)“My 30-day guided SUITT & BOOT healing journal is LIVE! Order here:”
EPISODE 2 — Abandonment, Foster Care & Finding Identity: Darlee’s Truth
EPISODE 2 — Abandonment, Foster Care & Finding Identity: Darlee’s TruthIn Episode 1, we opened the door to betrayal trauma — the kind of wound that follows you into adulthood and shapes how you trust, love, and rise.