We Do Whatever It Takes
We are a Magician & an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist and we do whatever it takes to have a thriving marriage. We have tips and tricks to help you do the same! (Disclaimer: this is not therapy and Kimberly is not acting as your therapist on this podcast. If you need therapy, please seek professional help from your mental health provider).
Episodes
63 episodes
S5:E10- Grace vs. Rescuing
In this episode, Danny and Kimberly unpack the powerful difference between grace and rescuing. Grace means loving with truth—while rescuing means taking responsibility for someone else’s growth. Together they explore what happens when our motiv...
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Season 5
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Episode 10
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23:20
S5:E9 Joe and Traci Castaneda The Power of Intentional Grace
In this special first-ever interview on We Do Whatever It Takes, Danny and Kimberly sit down with longtime friends Joe and Tracy Castañeda to talk about the real, everyday ways grace shows up in marriage. From high school sweethearts t...
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Season 5
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Episode 9
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32:20
S5:E6—Grace Reloaded: Daily Forgiveness and Fresh Starts
Grace isn’t a one-time drop—it’s a daily reload. In this lively, practical, and hope-filled conversation, Danny (magician and pastor) and Kimberly (associate marriage & family therapist) explore how to give and receive fresh grace every day...
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Season 5
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Episode 6
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26:38
S5:E5—Transforming Conflict into Connection
Danny Ray (magician & pastor) and Kimberly (AMFT) unpack what real, costly grace looks like in marriage — and why “cheap grace” (Bonhoeffer’s warning) often masquerades as forgiveness while bitterness quietly grows. Drawing on 29 yea...
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Season 5
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Episode 5
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20:59
S5:E4—How Forgiveness Resets a Marriage
Welcome back to We Do Whatever It Takes! 🎙️ Danny (magician & pastor) and Kimberly (associate marriage & family therapist) share real-life lessons from 29 years of marriage—plus one very messy paint story—to show how unexpec...
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Season 5
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Episode 4
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20:11
S5:E3 Forgiveness On the FrontLines
In this episode of We Do Whatever It Takes, Danny and Kimberly unpack what it means to practice forgiveness right in the middle of conflict.Last week we explored how Grace Grenades can disarm fights before they explode. Th...
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Season 5
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Episode 3
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19:46
S5:E2 Grace That Disarms: Turning Conflict into Connection
In this episode of We Do Whatever It Takes, Danny Ray and Kimberly dive into the power of Grace Grenades—intentional acts of love and forgiveness that defuse conflict and reset the atmosphere in your marriage.Theme: You c...
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Season 5
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Episode 2
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16:09
S5:E1 Grace Grenades: Choose to Pull the Pin
After a season-long pause, Danny and Kimberly return with fresh energy for Season 5 of We Do Whatever It Takes—and they’re bringing something explosive: Grace Grenades. In this kickoff episode, they unpack the id...
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Season 5
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Episode 1
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21:16
S4:E2 Marriage Metaphors: Marriage is Like an iPhone
Discover the secret to a thriving marriage with a twist—imagine your relationship as an iPhone in need of regular updates! Join us, Danny Ray and Kimberly, as we navigate the complexities of wedded bliss with laughter and lessons alike. We prom...
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Season 4
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Episode 2
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25:36
S4:E1 Marriage Metaphors: Building A Thriving Marriage
Discover the untapped strength within your marriage as we embark on a journey through the rich landscape of marriage metaphors, set to transform the way you view your partnership. Imagine erecting a structure of love and commitment brick by b...
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22:12
What's Your End Game For Marriage?
Ever wonder how a magic show can teach us about the secrets to a flourishing marriage? Danny Ray, a magician with a twist, and his wife Kimberly, a skilled associate marriage and family therapist, captivate us with their magical formula f...
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28:43
S3: E7- The Power of Fine Tuning Your Marriage
Have you ever considered that a successful marriage might just be like perfecting a spellbinding magic act? Allow us to enchant you with our insights as we, Danny Ray, a magician with a knack for the extraordinary, and Kimberly, an insightful a...
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23:59
S3E6: 7 Questions that Connect You Deeply to Each Other
Celebrate a milestone with us as we mark our 51st episode by engaging in some of the most transformative questions that can solidify and direct the dreams shared within a marriage. Our conversation unveils how setting aside "dream days" is a cr...
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31:47
S3: Ep5: 10 One Minute Ideas that Create A Big Impact in Your Marriage
Have you ever marveled at the magic of a well-crafted illusion and wondered if that same sense of awe could be infused into your daily life? My partner in crime, Kimberly, and I, Danny Ray, are beyond excited to bring you a very special 50th ...
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Season 3
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Episode 5
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27:57
S3: E4- Planning, Executing and Learning Forgiveness (and other stuff) in Our Marriages
Have you ever been captivated by the seamless execution of a magic trick, wondering how such a perfect performance came to be? That's the magic of practice and refinement, and my wife Kimberly and I, Danny Ray, are here to reveal how these prin...
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21:41
S3: E3 The Magic of Intentional Moments: Strengthening Bonds in Marriage
Imagine finding joy in the smallest things—like the unexpected gift of rhino socks—just because someone remembered you mentioned rhinos once. That's the kind of magic we, Danny Ray, a magician and pastor, and Kimberly, an associate marriage and...
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22:54
S3 E2: Morning Rituals that Improve Your Marriage
Waking up groggy and famished, we didn't let our late start stop us from diving into a heart-to-heart about the transformative power of morning rituals in marriage. If crafting the ideal beginning of each day sounds like a puzzle, we're here to...
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17:56
S3: E1- Making 2024 Your Best Marriage Year Ever
Embark on a transformative journey with us as we tackle the enchanting quest of creating magic in our marriages. Imagine a year where every day begins with a shared laugh, a prayer, or a moment that binds; that's the heart of our third season, ...
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22:15
S2: Ep 10 (Part 2) 10 Ideas for Reducing Stress & Enhancing Communication during this season
Do you feel a twinge of stress creeping up on you as the holidays approach? We've got your back! Our conversation today is all about managing holiday stress and evolving family dynamics. We share personal experiences and practical tips on how t...
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27:00
S2: Ep 9: 10 Ideas for Reducing Stress & Enhancing Communication during this season (Part 1)
Struggling to keep the joy and peace in your Christmas celebrations amidst all the bustle? We promise to help you navigate the holiday season with tips that will manage stress and expectations. This episode takes you through a journey of 10 sig...
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Season 2
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Episode 9
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33:07
Season 2 Ep 8: Avoiding Family Drama During the Christmas Season
Christmas is the season of joy, love, and...drama? Let’s face it, the holidays can sometimes bring out the worst in our families. We've all been there - from Uncle Larry's incessant political ramblings to the simmering tension between your sist...
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Season 2
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Episode 8
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25:37
Venturing into the Unknown: Navigating Uncertainty and Finding Strength in Faith
Imagine finding yourself at the crossroads of life, unsure which path to take. Whether it's launching a new ministry or navigating choppy waters in relationships, we've all been there. In this heartfelt exchange, we share our personal experienc...
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Season 2
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Episode 7
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22:14
Navigating Life's Big Moments: Why Couples Fight Before Big Moments
Have you ever wondered why fights and arguments often precede the most momentous events in our lives? Remember the time when we recently flew to Colorado for a Focus On The Family staff marriage retreat? The anticipation was high, and so were o...
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Season 2
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Episode 6
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25:28
Strength in Vulnerability: How Mental Health Strengthened Our Marriage
What happens when the blissful journey of marriage collides with the unexpected thorny path of mental health, particularly depression? In our podcast, we unravel our personal experiences, discussing how depression unexpectedly sneaked into our ...
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Season 2
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Episode 5
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24:50
Season 2 Episode 4: The Art of Trust-Building in Marriage: Part 2 of 2
Are you yearning for a deeper connection with your partner? Craving a relationship built on authentic trust, understanding, and commitment? Join us on a transformative journey as we dive into the heart of genuine relationships. We shed light on...
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Season 2
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Episode 4
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37:39