The Bone Zone
The Bone Zone
Episodes
28 episodes
Episode 28: Stop the Dating Groundhog Day
In this episode, inspired by the dating experience of one of our friends, we talk about why you tend to end up in repeating dating patterns with people who don’t make an effort, disrespect you, or tend to lose interest.The modern dating...
Episode: 27 Polarity play
In this episode, Sara talks about her journey to find the balance between the masculine and feminine within. And Richard shares his journey stepping into his masculine.Women are often taught from a young age to be strong, independent go-...
Episode 26: The Three Hour Sex Date
Within our relationship, we implemented the practice of the 3-hour sex date once a week.Barring some periods of falling off the wagon, we have more or less stuck to it for almost 2 years.Sex and intimacy are like anything else. If...
Episode 25: Till Sickness Do Us Part? The Raw Truth About Love And Chronic Illness
This episode was inspired by an insight that cropped up during our weekly date night.During long, loving relationships – whether they be family, friends or romantic partners, there will be times when the people you love will need support.
Episode 24: Monogamish?
In this episode, we talk about open relationships, poly-amory and other types of non-monogamous relationships.These types of relationships characterised by agreement between the parties concerned have been glamourised and offered as a solut...
Episode 23: The Manosphere
We couldn’t not watch the Manosphere. Join us for this episode where we rant, analyse and share some of our key takeaways from the Louis Theroux documentary and what it says about masculinity, femininity and relationships.In this epi...
Episode 22: How Good Are You At Arguing?
Arguments within a relationship are not a bad thing.The problem is where arguments remain unresolved, where things said in the heat of the moment are weaponised or where they linger on for weeks affecting the relationship....
Episode 21: Death By Silence
In this episode, we challenge the belief that arguing and conflict within a relationship is “bad”.We talk about something far more insidious that can spell doom for a long-term relationship. And that is non-communication or silence.The ...
Episode20: Fun With Imaginary Homosexual Pigeons
Today, we’re talking about the problem with taking life (and relationships) too seriously! The older we get, the more we hear phrases like “grow up” – but what if we used play strategically to make every aspect of our life better (a...
Episode 19: How Whole Are You?
People throw around the term “integrity”, but what does it mean and how does it show up within a relationship?Unfortunately, in a world where we have a lot of high-profile examples of toxic masculinity, it can be hard to pinpoint the qua...
Episode 18: Lets Spend More Than 5 Minutes a Day Talking To Eachother!
There are some shocking statistics out there about how much couples actually talk to each other over the course of a week! No wonder relationships fail – because whether you’re happy or not, unless you put time, attention and effort...
Episode 17: Keeping score in your relationship? Here’s how to approach “fairness”.
When I say the words “fair exchange” – what do you think of? For a lot of people, the first thing that comes to mind is money.While you may think that’s less true in relationships than say work, money undoubtedly can become a bone of...
Episode 16: How Many Orgasms??? with Intuitive Sex and Intimacy Coach Jake Kelly
In this episode, we talk all things female orgasm, with intuitive sex and intimacy coach, Jake Kelly.It’s easy to think that it’s all about the clitoris, when it comes to female pleasure. But this is the tip of the orgasmic iceberg.&nbs...
Episode 15: Blocked In The Bedroom? The Problem Lies Outside Of It
Having trouble getting into sex and climaxing? It can be easy to write it off as just one of those things, and tell yourself: “well, that just happens sometimes.”But how we feel in our relationship and other areas of life shows up in the be...
Episode 14: Happily Ever After, A Modern Day Fairy Tale
There seems to be two polarised schools of thought in relation to dating, romantic relationships and marriage.The deeply cynical view that relationships get worse over time and the opposite: fairy tale love.We don’t advocate settlin...
Episode 13: Sorry, Not Sorry, You're You
This episode is a part 2 to “sorry, not sorry for being me”. If you are going to be yourself in a relationship, the other side of that is allowing your partner to be themselves in the relationship.They say that men get married hoping their ...
Episode 12: Sorry, Not Sorry For Being Me
There is a lot of bad relationship advice out there – some of which talks about “do’s and don’ts” – don’t be too successful; don’t be too loud; don’t talk about this...The reality is that if you want to find a soulmate relationship, ...
Episode 11: Things Are Going Great… Quick, Ruin It!" – A Story of Upper Limiting
Things Are Going Great… Quick, Ruin It!" – A Story of Upper LimitingWhy is it that when something seems to be going well for us, somehow something happens and it seems to fall to shit? Often through us engaging in self-sabotaging behaviours...
Episode 10: The Real Reason You're Fighting Over Meaningless Shit
As a couple, it’s inevitable that you will disagree. However, if you find yourself consistently fighting about banal, everyday shit; that’s not really the issue! It’s indicative of a deeper problem that many don’t take the time ...
Episode 9: Feminine Embodiment and Sexual Healing with Intuitive Sex & Intimacy Coach – Jake Kelly
The term feminine embodiment is not all about the “woo woo” things you might hear out there. For those of you that could never identify with the woo woo, this episode is for you!We also talk about how and why women tend to have “low”...
Episode 08: Fall Apart To Rise!, How Letting Yourself Crumble Leads To Rebuilding Stronger
"Fall Apart To Rise" How Letting Yourself Crumble Leads To Rebuilding StrongerIn this end of year episode, Sara shares insights from the end of a challenging year and her intuitive downloads.In this episode, we talk about:...
Episode 7 "The Ex-Files", Shitty Relationships and Using Them as A Tool for Growth
Episode 7"The Ex-Files", Shitty Relationships and Using Them as A Tool for GrowthIn this episode, we talk about our past relationships and what they taught us.It can be easy to write off love and relationships after years of bad rel...
Episode 6: Brainwashed in Bed! Escape the Conditioning that's Sabotaging Your Pleasure
Episode 6Brainwashed in Bed. Escape the Conditioning that’s Sabotaging Your Pleasure.In this episode, we talk about common belief systems about sex, men and women; that have been ingrained in us by society, family and culture.
Episode 5: Putting yourself first no matter what (without being a selfish bastard)
Putting Yourself First No Matter WhatWe have a potentially triggering episode topic today – putting yourself first no matter what!This is one of the keys to happy relationships (and a happier life).This doesn’t ...
Episode 4: The Lies We Tell Ourselves in the Bedroom (& What to Do About It)
In this episode, we encourage you to develop a reflective approach to have more and better sex within a long-term relationship!It’s easy to believe that sex, romance and passion fades over time. Everyone tells us that’s what to expec...