The Cliteral Truth Podcast
Welcome to The Cliteral Truth-the podcast where we sit around naked and talk about sex, dating, and relationships.
We're Lexie and Ryan!
When we met, we quickly realized we share a passion for sex. We believe when it comes to sexual knowledge and performance, we're in the top 1%. Sex is our zone of genius. And after experiencing each other's aptitude and prowess, we gradually conceptualized our vision of helping others find that passion and master their own sexuality.
Website: thecliteraltruth.com
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Disclaimer:
The Cliteral Truth offers coaching and educational services focused on sexual wellness, intimacy, and similar topics. Our content is intended for adults and is provided for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or professional therapy services. Always consult your physician or mental health provider if you have concerns related to your physical or emotional health. Participation in our courses and coaching is voluntary, and we encourage respectful, trauma-informed engagement. No physical demonstrations or touch are involved in our offerings.
Episodes
102 episodes
102. Sexual Slang: What The Hell Does That Mean? (part 1)
Ever heard a sexual term and thought, Wait…what does that mean? Same.In this class of our sexual slang series, we’re bringing you the words, phrases, and slang people throw around when talking about sex and dating—and telling yo...
101. Separating Sex and Nudity
Nudity isn’t inherently sexual, and treating it that way is a problem.In this episode, we break down the difference between nudity and sexuality, why so many of us automatically sexualize naked bodies, and how culture, context, attractio...
100. Happy 100! Lexie & Ryan Recap Their Favorite Episodes!
We made it to 100 episodes! 🎉To celebrate, we each independently picked our 10 favorite episodes of The Cliteral Truth—the conversations about sex, dating, relationships, intimacy, attraction, communication, and love that have stuck with...
99. Cum As You Are
Sex is messy—and that’s part of the fun.In this episode, we tackle everything you want to know about female and male ejaculation. What’s the difference between orgasm and ejaculation? Can you have one without the other? Is squirting just...
98. The Secure Base Test: 3 Questions Every Couple Should Ask
Does your relationship make you feel emotionally safe—or simply keep you attached?In this episode, we introduce The Secure Base Test™: three revealing questions that can help you recognize secure attachment, emotional safety, and genuine...
97. Losing Your Virginity Isn't Losing Anything
Everyone talks about losing your virginity like it's a bad thing.In this episode, we challenge one of the most common—and most damaging—ideas about sexuality. Your first sexual experience isn't a loss. For many people, it's simply the be...
96. The Desire Gap: It's Not Your Libido (Here's What's Really Happening)
Is it really a low libido or is it something else?One of the biggest myths about relationships is that a lack of sex automatically means someone has a low sex drive. In this episode, we break down the difference between libido and desire...
95. Can't Talk About Sex? Start Here.
Most couples have sex—but surprisingly few couples actually talk about sex.Whether you're wondering how to ask for more intimacy, share a fantasy, talk about a dead bedroom, or simply tell your partner what you enjoy, starting the...
94. Why Happy Couples Stop Having Great Sex (Or Why Any Couple Stops Having Sex)
Why do happy couples stop having great sex? Is it low libido, lack of attraction, stress, kids... or is something else happening beneath the surface?In this episode, we unpack why sexual desire fades in long-term relationships, why emoti...
93. Screaming, Silence, and Sexual Authenticity
Have you ever wondered why some people scream during orgasm while others barely make a sound?Is being loud during sex "performative," or is being quiet a sign of sexual shame?In this episode of The Cliteral Truth, we explor...
92. Religious Dating v. The 7 Bridges of a Solid Relationship
What happens when you're told who you're allowed to date before attraction, chemistry, compatibility, and connection ever get a vote?In this episode, we explore how religious and social conformity can short-circuit healthy partner select...
91. Content Compatibility: What It Reveals About Your Relationship
You find a post that makes you laugh, a podcast that changes your perspective, or a book you can't stop thinking about. Who's the first person you want to share it with?In this episode, we explore Content Compatibility. We discuss why so...
90. Why Are You So Stingy With Your Fucks?
"I don't have sex with just anybody."It's a phrase we hear all the time—but have you ever stopped to ask why?In this episode, we explore the difference between being genuinely selective and unconsciously following message...
89. The Next-Level Woman
A year ago, we released an episode called The Next-Level Man. In this episode, we're turning our attention to women. We explore the traits, mindset, and relationship skills that separate a Next-Level Woman from the rest. We...
88. Hi Gorgeous… Compliment or Threat? | Why Compliments Hit Different for Women
In this episode, we dive into a moment that sparked a bigger conversation than we expected: a stranger saying, “Hi Gorgeous,” and the mixed emotions that came with it.Flattering? Maybe. Harmless? Not always.We unpack how ...
87. Sex Life Diagnostic: What's Working, What's Not (and What to Do About It)
In this episode, we break down the three most common dynamics couples fall into: high quantity / low quality, high quality / low quantity, and low quality / low quantity sex. Then we give you a clear, honest diagnosis of what might actually be ...
86. The Ownership of Women Pt 2: Cringey Marriage Edition
In this episode, we dive headfirst into the surprisingly dark and deeply patriarchal origins of modern marriage traditions. From why the “best man” was originally armed, to the real purpose of bridesmaids, to the uncomfortable history behind as...
85. Developing Your Sexual Identity
What does it really mean to develop your sexual identity—and why do so many people skip this step?In this episode, we explore how your sexual identity isn’t something you find… it’s something you build. And you can’t bu...
84. Novelty
What keeps desire alive long-term: endless novelty or true sexual compatibility? In this episode, we unpack the tension between chasing new partners, keeping options open, and building a stable relationship where attraction, chemistry, and conn...
83. How Do You Know She Actually Likes Sex?
Is she genuinely into sex… or is it just a means to a different end?In this episode, we dig into the classic sex-for-commitment dynamic (what we call the Relationship/Sex Trope™) and flip the script. If she’s leading with sex, how do you...
82. Glow-Up & Show Up
What does a real glow-up actually look like?In this episode, we break down our physical, emotional, and sexual glow-ups—what changed, what didn’t, and what actually made the difference. From confidence and self-worth to attraction, intim...
81. The 7 Bridges of a Solid Relationship with Yourself
What if the most important relationship you’ll ever have… is the one you have with yourself?In this episode, we break down The 7 Bridges of a Solid Relationship With Yourself—starting with self-attraction and moving through vulnerability...
80. Can People With Compatible Orientations Stay Just Friends?
Can men and women (or any two people with compatible orientations) really be just friends… or is there always something under the surface?In this episode, we explore the truth about platonic friendships—how attraction, sexual te...
79. Sexual Tension and Sexual Chemistry: The Difference and Why it Matters
What’s the difference between sexual tension and sexual chemistry? In this episode, we break down the distinction. Tension drops once sex happens. Chemistry reveals itself.We talk about how sexual tension thrives in anticipation—the look...