She's Not Done
SHE'S NOT DONE is the place where difficult conversations begin.
It is the podcast for the woman who is rebuilding her life while still showing up for everyone else.
Hosted by Andrea and Kouelee, two mothers of two navigating different chapters (one married, one divorced) - this show dives into real conversations about motherhood, identity shifts, healing, ambition, and rebuilding when life doesn't look how you planned.
No pretending.
No sugarcoating.
Just honest conversations for women in their "figure it out" era.
If you have ever felt behind, overwhelmed, or like you're quietly starting over...you're not broken - and you're definitely not done.
If this resonated with you, then this is for you.
New episodes weekly.
Episodes
26 episodes
Are We Spending Too Much Money on Our Kids?
Are we spending too much money on our kids… or is raising kids today simply more expensive?Between sports, activities, school spirit days, clothes, Starbucks, Dunkin, DoorDash, Amazon, birthday gifts and all the little purchases that som...
Would You Choose Motherhood Again If You Knew What You Know Now?
If you could go back to the moment before you became a mother—knowing everything you know now—would you still choose motherhood?For both of us, the answer is yes. But that doesn't mean we'd choose to do everything the same way.In ...
Are We Too Quick to Tell Women to Get Divorced?
“Girl, leave him.”It might be one of the easiest pieces of relationship advice to give—especially online. But are we actually encouraging women to walk away from their marriages too quickly?In this episode of She’s Not D...
Married Single Mom: When You’re Married but Doing It All Alone
What does it mean to feel like a single mom when you're still married?In this episode of She’s Not Done, Kouelee and Andrea unpack the term “married single mom” and the complicated reality behind it.Kouelee shares th...
Marriage & Money: Could You Afford to Leave?
What happens when love and money become impossible to separate?In this episode of She’s Not Done, Kouelee and Andrea revisit financial independence—this time through the lens of marriage, motherhood, divorce, and the decisions we oft...
Are You Happy… or Do You Just Look Happy? | Keeping Up Appearances
How much of what we do is actually for ourselves—and how much is because someone else might be watching?In this episode of She’s Not Done, we’re talking about keeping up appearances: the homes we live in, the cars we ...
Co-Sleeping With Kids: Are We Creating Bad Habits or Building Security?
Co-sleeping might be one of those parenting topics everyone seems to have an opinion about—but what happens when you stop listening to everyone else and start asking what actually works for your family?In this episode of She’s Not Do...
Are We Parenting Our Kids… or Trying to Be Liked by Them?
Are parents today too afraid of being disliked by their kids?In this episode, we talk about the uncomfortable side of modern parenting: the pressure to keep our kids happy, the guilt that makes us say yes when we really want to say no, a...
When Did We Learn to Hate Our Bodies?
How much of the way we see our bodies is actually about our bodies… and how much of it is about how we feel inside?In this episode of She’s Not Done, we get honest about body image, confidence, aging, motherhood, food, comparison,...
Do Kids Make a Marriage Stronger... or Just Expose the Cracks?
Everyone says having kids changes your marriage—but does it make it stronger, or does it simply reveal what's already there?In this honest conversation, we unpack one of the biggest myths about marriage and parenting. We discu...
Maybe Work-Life Balance Doesn't Exist
Does work-life balance actually exist… or are we chasing a fantasy?Everyone talks about finding work-life balance—but what if it's something we'll never truly achieve?In this episode of She's Not Done, we unpack the ...
Are We Raising Independent Kids... or Dependent Adults?
As parents, our instinct is to protect our children. But when does protecting them start holding them back?In this episode, we dive into one of the biggest parenting challenges—raising confident, independent kids while still wanting to h...
Why Couples Keep Having the Same Fight Over and Over
Why do we fight about the cup in the sink, the forgotten text message, the dirty laundry, or someone being five minutes late? The truth is… most arguments are never about the actual thing we’re arguing about.In this episode of She’s ...
Marriage vs Divorce: When Do You Stay and When Do You Leave?
In this episode of She’s Not Done, Andrea and Kouelee explore marriage and divorce as two sides of the same coin—how relationships can start with connection and slowly shift into distance, resentment, or clarity about leaving.They talk ...
Couples Therapy: Too Late Or Best Way To Save Your Marriage?
This week on She's Not Done, we're having an honest conversation about couples therapy—what it is, who it's really for, and why so many couples wait until they're on the brink of divorce before asking for help.We talk about...
The Truth About Co-Parenting No One Wants To Say Out Loud
In this deeply honest conversation, we unpack divorced parenting, co-parenting expectations, and the emotional reality behind what it actually looks like when two people separate but still share children.One host shares openly t...
The Hidden Cost Of Being The Default Parent
What does it really mean to be the "default parent"?In this episode, Andrea and Kouelee dive into the invisible responsibilities that often fall on one parent—the mental load, emotional labor, decision-making, and constant availability t...
The Mom Friends Who Become Family
Mom friends can be lifesavers—or leave you completely drained.In this episode, Kouelee and Andrea dive into the complicated world of mom friendships: how they're formed, why some last a lifetime, and why others fade away. From awkward pl...
Is The Village Gone Or Are We Afraid To Ask For Help?
In this episode of She's Not Done, Andrea and Kouelee tackle a topic that resonates with so many parents and women: the village.We often hear people say, "It takes a village," but what happens when asking for help feels impossib...
The Mental Load Nobody Sees
In this deeply honest episode of She’s Not Done, Andrea and Kouelee unpack the invisible mental load women carry every single day — from motherhood and marriage to divorce, intrusive thoughts, burnout, resentment, and survival mode.
Should Married Women Maintain Financial Independence?
In this deeply honest conversation, we unpack one of the most important and often avoided topics in relationships: financial independence in marriage and motherhood.What does it really mean to be financially independent in a partn...
Why Modern Women are Mentally Exhausted From Doing It All
In this episode of She’s Not Done, Andrea and Kouelee get brutally honest about the kind of exhaustion no one really prepares women for — the mental load, emotional burnout, motherhood guilt, relationships, divorce, marriage, and the p...
Motherhood Has A Way Of Bringing Back Our Past
In this emotional Mother’s Day episode of She’s Not Done, Andrea and Kouelee dive into the complicated feelings motherhood can bring — pride, guilt, grief, healing, disappointment, and unconditional love.They open up about the p...
Introduction of Andrea & Kouelee
In this introductory episode of She’s Not Done, Andrea and Kouelee share who they are, where they come from, and why this podcast exists.From divorce and motherhood to marriage, identity, and the unspoken realities women carry, ...
Mom Guilt: Working Moms vs Stay-At-Home Moms
In this episode of She’s Not Done, Andrea and Kouelee dive into the reality of modern motherhood, partnership, and the constant mental load that comes with trying to “do it all.” From working moms to stay-at-home moms, they unpack the ...