Finding Flow State
This is Finding Flow State—the podcast for deep feelers and high performers who are done with toxic positivity, hustle culture, and surface-level self-help.
Hosted by trauma-informed performance coach Steph Ellen, each episode is a no-BS deep dive into the nervous system, subconscious mind, and the messy, magical process of thriving as a highly sensitive high achiever.
You’ll learn practical tools from somatic psychology, neuroscience, shadow work, and subconscious reprogramming to regulate your nervous system, heal from the inside out, and build the kind of embodied resilience that doesn’t rely on white-knuckling your way through life (sorry David Goggins)
Because sensitivity isn’t a flaw—it’s a portal to power. And your healing doesn’t have to look perfect to be effective.
Episodes
87 episodes
087 back from the void!! self sabotage, resistance & evolving (always)
👀 FREE INNER CRITIC QUIZ 👀https://www.finding-flowstate.com/quizthe poddy is back!!! we are breaking down the difference between self-sabotage and just your ne...
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Episode 87
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26:47
086: tall poppy syndrome: the real reason you're afraid to shine
⏰ EARY BIRD ENDS 16th APRIL ⏰JOIN EMBODIED AUTHORITY for just $197https://finding-flowstate.com/authorityin this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on th...
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Episode 86
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31:38
085 breathwork, breakthroughs & permission to be a hot mess sometimes [v UNFILTERED chat w/ rach]
nothing is off limits in this chat with the wonderful Restorative Rachwe dive into all things breathwork, triggers, getting a second chance at life, connecting to the body, discipline with some VERY honest opinions about anything & e...
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Episode 85
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1:00:34
084 [shadow work 101] are you actually misunderstood or just projecting your own BS?
maybe skip this one if you're feeling a bit vulnerable - we are diving DEEP into shadow work, the fear of being seen, how you are unconsciously manipulating and why you fear judgement so much.but when you are ready for this, this is goin...
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Episode 84
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27:38
083 discipline vs devotion vs delusion??? deciding when to give up or push through
in this episode, we're diving into the messy middle of knowing when to push through resistance and when to let go. if you're a highly sensitive high achiever, you've probably felt torn between discipline, devotion, and straight-up delusion
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30:47
082 the 'curse' of potential & the gifted kid to neurodivergent burnout pipeline
TW: disordered eating, frank discussion about burn out, mental health & neurodivergencethis episode might not be for you if you're feeling a little vulnerable and tbh this is a very specific life experience this IS for yo...
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Episode 82
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30:35
081 I'm officially a speaker!! BTS of some massive up-levels & imposter syndrome
Join Shameless Self Expression starting 14th Feb https://www.finding-flowstate.com/shamelessPrevious imposter syndrome podcast:
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Episode 81
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28:11
080 could you even handle what you want?? *mildly spicy pep talk*
🚨 FREE LIVE SOMATIC WORKSHOP NEXT WEEK 🚨 https://www.finding-flowstate.com/visibleAre you secretly sabotaging the success you say you want? Prepare for a slightly...
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Episode 80
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22:50
079 navigating overwhelm & challenging times with a sensitive nervous system
🚨 Last 24 hours for PRESALE for SHAMELESS SELF EXPRESSION 🚨Are you a creator, biz owner or visionary who wants to create an authentic personal brand? Join https://www.finding-flowstate.c...
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Episode 79
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27:42
078 (messy) honest year recap: life lessons, letting go of timelines, going viral & taking the wrong advice
Okay this is NOT a polished ep, it's a full on sticky beak into the life lessons of my year and I'm being pretty vulnerable and sharing things in real time as I'm working through them.This year has been about PLEASURE and PRESENCE and a...
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Episode 78
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41:23
077 generational trauma & the blindspots of the cycle breaker
🎁 Highly Sensitive Holidays $1 workshop 🎁Pay-as-you-feel workshop This is for the highly sensitive high achiever who:Often feels like the black sheep or cycle breaker in your family but i...
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Episode 77
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23:44
076 REAL TALK: why modern self-love is idealistic & commercialised (and what to do instead)
TW: grief, loss, disordered eatingIn this vulnerable and slightly 🌶️ spicy 🌶️ episode of Finding Flow State, we dive deep into how modern self-love has become a commodity and why its idealistic portrayal often falls...
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Episode 76
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27:53
075 five reasons highly sensitive high achievers THRIVE in entrepreneurship (plus the biggest challenges)
🚨 LONG TERM MENTORSHIP - BIGGEST EVER SALE (6 months for the investment of 3) - DM the word MENTORSHIP on @findingflowstate 🚨Have you ever wondered why so many highly sensitiv...
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Episode 75
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33:10
074 the myth of being 100% authentic 100% of the time; professionalism vs masking
Are you struggling with authenticity in professional or social settings? In this episode, we unpack the myth of being 100% authentic, 100% of the time—especially as a highly sensitive, multi-passionate, or neurodivergent high achiever. Discover...
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073 let's talk about SHAME baby (and how it's f****ng up your nervous system)
DOORS NOW OPEN FOR SHAMELESS https://www.finding-flowstate.com/shamelessOkay it's a heavy topic but we are all carrying around our own shame burden in some way and it's reall...
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Episode 73
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26:21
072 key insights into your subconscious mind - blending the spiritual with the neuroscience
Ready for your own DEEP transformation? Early bird ends October 11th for EXPANSION my new 6 week 1:1 intensive to align your nervous system with your goals so you can break free from self sabotage and attract your goals. DM Steph on IG
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Episode 72
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36:04
071 break free from imposter syndrome by understanding your nervous system
REAL TALK on imposter syndrome with Steph. In this episode:Is imposter syndrome a good or bad thing?The role of the nervous system in imposter syndromeSocietal/cultural differences in imposter syndrome and ...
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Episode 71
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24:24
070 are you a hypocrite or just being a human? 5 questions to ask yourself when you're being self-critical
🧠FREE NERVOUS SYSTEM REGULATION MINI COURSE: 🧠https://www.finding-flowstate.com/regulateIn this episode of Finding Flow State, host Steph Ellen dives into the ...
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Episode 70
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23:27
069 chronic pain, accidental sobriety & leaving the corporate hustle for soul-led entrepreneurship With Dan
This is an inspiring, nothing-off-limits conversation with Dan, a Movement & Mindset Transformation Coach living in Sydney after doing a complete 180 on his past life climbing the corporate ladder:We chat about:- What to do ...
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Episode 69
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1:00:23
068 rejection sensitivity, ADHD & subconscious reprogramming
Experience subconscious reprogramming so you can transform the fear of failure:FREE WORKSHOP WEDNESDAY AUGUST 28th https://www.finding-flowstate.com/rewireIn this episode:
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067: boundaries, self-compassion & why people are being traumatised in the coaching industry [IG LIVE w/ Bianca]
Sign up here:https://www.finding-flowstate.com/offers/TGfrszAyThis episode is an IG live with the beautiful Bianca (follow her...
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Episode 67
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1:08:07
066 how structure creates freedom PLUS myth-busting the top lies about discipline
🧠FREE NERVOUS SYSTEM REGULATION MINI COURSE: 🧠https://www.finding-flowstate.com/regulateJoin host Steph Ellen, a trauma-informed performance coach, in this episode of "Fin...
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Episode 66
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21:39
065 shut your mouth (confessions of an ex-mouth breather)
🧠FREE NERVOUS SYSTEM REGULATION MINI COURSE: 🧠https://www.finding-flowstate.com/regulateJoin host Steph Ellen, a trauma-informed performance coach, as she shares her perso...
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064: the dark side of being 'too nice' aka how to stop people-pleasing
Do you always put others needs before your own or struggle with boundaries? Join host Steph Ellen, a trauma-informed performance coach, as we delve into the complexities of people pleasing in this eye-opening episode of Finding Flow State.<...
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063 9 surprising reasons your sensitivity is actually your superpower (when you know how to harness it!!)
Welcome to Season 2! Back to regular transmissions and kicking it off with a goodie! In this episode, unlock the hidden strengths of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) in this empowering episode. Discover 9 compelling reasons why high sensit...
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